1vfor full on sex. One for a good bj and one for a terrible blowjob and two terrible bjs. Even thiugh I'm wasted I still know she sucks at sucking!
Just out of curiosity... those of you who know the exact number of your sexual partners, how do you guys keep track? Do you keep a list, or what?
This is too true, but it's the asumption that along the way even the most unrestricted lovers will settle down for a few years. And kids change a lot for most people. A close friend of mine recently had his on and off girlfriend give birth a few months ago. They were fuck buddies for the last 2 years, supposedly no strings, but I know myself he didn't sleep with anyone else during that span, save for maybe two, but he said no. And then when some people settle down, they don't go back. Like for example my friend's uncle, when growing up he was one of the biggest players I ever heard about, he was with a different woman every month it seemed. And then he had a kid, got married, the guy is visibly out of shape and seems content where he is. Realistically averaging one night stands more than once a week is hard, people talk about College life but you need to pay attention to stay in College beyond a year, and then you tend to get common with a group, a guy might nail 30 girls his first year, but then not go outside that group and reside to only a few girls after that. Etc, etc, etc. 80+ is rare.
I been with 16 males and 16 females, guess that makes me equally bi. All though most of the sex I've had was between my ages of 12 and 25. Sucks getting old!
I didn't keep a list but I made one a few years ago while writing my sexual memoirs. I just went back and wrote down all of them starting with the Mexican prostitutes. It really isn't that hard to recall the sex you had with each different person. Here are my numbers: TOTAL: 59 WOMEN: (1964 - 1998) 29 MEN: (1967 - 1998) 16 MEN: (1998 - 2010) 14 MEN: TOTAL 30
I'm gonna have to do that at some point later in life. But I don't know... it's easy to remember the memorable ones, but I know I've had a few one nighters that I've probably completely forgotten about. I was just thinking about one of them the other day actually. I don't know what made her pop back into my mind, but I had completely forgot about her. She was a wild one... I still can't remember her name
It helps to have a list of everywhere you lived. Then you just imagine that place and time and it breaks down to who you fucked while living there. Names are not necessary to fuck someone and I have several entries on my list. And, back in the day, before screen names for the Web, ppl had street names like Snowflake, Ambo Legfish, Shepherd, Hat, etc. So, just put down the event and they soon fall into place. I found afterward how my sexuality mutated. For the first 30 years it was almost two women to one man. After I quit doing women it averaged out and hopefully will keep adding up. Here is my list of reconstructed sexual encounters. 64 VILLA ACUNA, MEX Unknown Prostitute (First Time) Unknown Prostitute (Second Time) 64 ST. LOUIS Unknown girl (mom's 59 Ford) 65 TURKEY Unknown Prostitute Bursa Denise Prostitute (15-yr-old) Bursa Halet (First girlfriend) Buyukada 67 NEW ORLEANS Wally RN (First Man) Kenner area "Kush" RN (obese woman) Harvey area Peggy (stylish woman) Chalmette area 68 N.O. Unknown Woman with kid Camp St. Unknown Woman (menstrual) Camp St. Margaret (Mrs. R. - 19 yrs older) Camp St. 69 N.O. Walter (older gay man) Treme St. Chris (male bottom) Iberville St. Mike (male bottom) Uptown area 70 N.O. Pam G. (loved doing it) Carrollton area Myke (soft girl) Ursuline Ave. Mike (female) Magazine St. Marcia (Mike's sister) Mag. St. Unknown wom. (P/U in Qtr) Camp St. Yanette St. Phillip St. Reba (cousin) Camp St. 70 SAN FRANCISCO Unknown teen girl Howard St. 70 ARIZONA I-10 hitch-hiking Unknown man (cruising rest stop) 70 N.O. Royal St. & Desire Renee (lived with few months) 70 N.O. Mandeville & Royal Susan (AKA Nancy) Joseph (creative, psych) Rene (small male) Unkwn young man (smegma) Esplanade Ave 71 N.O. 300 Royal Unknown woman (jaundice) Unknown woman (pick-up Qtr) 71 N.O. Decatur St. HEAD Clinic Mark (beautiful young man) 72 N.O. Gov. Nichols St. Lorily T (6-month live-in) 72 MISSISSIPPI Retta (earth mother) 72 N.O. 800 Bourbon Unknown Man P/U (mirror image) 73 ON ROAD (Honda 450) 73 N.O. MARIGNY ST Marsha (ditsy) Bobby (black male) Jim Hewitt (partner to 78) Unknown man (Jim was pissed) 79 N.O. ESPLANADE Ave. Kathy (beautiful wom. 11 yrs younger) 80 MARRERO LA. Dede M. (lesbian?) Brenda Wms. (partner to 98) 90 MIAMI BEACH Terry J (male) 900 Pa. Ave. 94 GAINESVILLE Randy B (local AIDS activist) 96 MIAMI BEACH Eliseo (Treas. Isl Nurs. Hm.) 98 + MIAMI BEACH, Indian Creek Rob (cousin) S. Beach Guest House Fernando (fm Body Pos) Eduardo (prev. co-worker) . Unknown man (P/U fm Haulover -N.J.) Roberto (apt. maint. man) Mark C (fm Body Pos) Jose (Puerto Rican fm. Body Pos) 01 MIAMI BEACH, Harding Ave. Raul R. (Sylvia's husband) Harding Ave. Ron W. (fm. Morningside) Bob P. (P/U fm. Haulover) 02 MIAMI BEACH, Harding Ave. Carlos A. (Young P/U fm. Haulover) 03 MIAMI BEACH 7315 Byron Ave. Ramon (Puerto Rico) 07 New Orleans Hotel J. (Webfriend) 08 Miami Beach 7717 Byron Ave. Chuck (P/U fm Haulover) 10 Miami Beach 7717 Byron Ave. Andres MySpace Friend in Miami 1 Day TOTAL: 59 WOMEN: (64 - 98) 29 MEN: (67 - 98) 16 MEN: (98 - 10) 14 MEN: TOTAL 30
Three. Another girl for several months starting when I was age 11, my boyfriend/husband from age 14 (intercourse at age 18) to present, and now a new man in my life.
