Sounds like the answer my girlfriend gave me years ago. She liked big, but not all were good in bed, but she gave them a chance.
Besides my wife who we have sex many times per week my fwb and fb and I engage several times per week also. A few other friends and it averages 1 to 2 per day not including wanking. I have had up to 7 with gangbangs and up to 4 recently with various encounters.