how many guys

5 men, 3 women. started at 14, was monogamous for 9 years, got over THAT problem, delightedly whored it up for 4 months met my husband, feel in love. had sex with a couple couples after that and intend to have more. i like to share the love. i've had LOADS of sex with relatively few people.

 

I don't think "slut" is a really great word. Sure, when teens we use it to insult those girls we don't like, etc.

But my count of men and women is pushing 20 after becoming sexually active at 15
(I'm 19), and I'm quite sexually liberal. I believe in free love and sexual freedom.

I think the only demeaning term for a girl who sleeps around in a negative sense (e.g., to hurt someone else, steal significant others, etc.) would be a skank. I consider that an insult.

But when it comes to high numbers? No definition of "slut" there.

 

I'm 17, I've been with four different guys, and one girl. I don't regret any, none were for the wrong reasons.

And I agree with the majority of you, slut really isn't a word I like to use, regarding anyone.

 

No such thing as a slut--some females like to have sex more than others.So fuckin' what?Keep your dignity,as YOU define it,but believe me-old age ,infirmity and death comes sooner than you think---and you females that had plenty of sex will be in the same place as the ones who didn't.Dead as the proverbial door nail!So heed the words of Janis and "get it while you can".Just don't let "boys",and I mean "boys",not men, put any labels on you.

 

i get more shit from women than men. we ladies have to be easier on each other. this is not a competition, after all. this is life, love and the pursuit of happiness.

 

ive placed people as sluts just thinking how many people theyve 'been around' within a certain amount of time then i find myself under some1 else remembering were all hypocrites.
i enjoy what im doing, i dont regret it, it could be out of a mix of love/boredom/or just good ol dirty fun they could call me a slut right back.
& ya if guys get praise for it why cant chicks? who knows maybe were keepin the numbers & comparing the pasts up
got to live it up doing what you love best & its not wrong or a problem until u pick up something off 1 of ur hobbies ha

 

Girls are refferred to as sluts to me when they sleep around with a lot of guys one after another..not talking boyfriend..but just hoeing around..

Men are sluts too..

But I guess girls are more jealous of eachtoher so they called eachother sluts flippantly..

But in my opinion..A slut is the girl who is know for doing stuff around the block with a lotta guys..one after another..???

 

nah. i don't buy into that, either. i think she's just a fellow traveller.

 

I think the word slut came into the world due to the fact that we men are jelous, jelous of women being able to FUCK anyone.
You gals have it easier, and you know you do. Cheers to that.

PS: I still prefer to be a guy...I'll be fucking like crazy too some day...

 

Ive slept with 3 men. Well, one was a boy, we were both young, i was 15 he was 17, then again when i was 17 he was 19...that didnt last

Then there was the big mistake. That relationship lasted a year

Now i make love with my fiancé

Each was a monogamous relationship. Its what i personally feel comfortable with. But i do not use the word slut to describe people and never would. Its everyones choice. Long as youre sensible and not hurting anyone who gives a fuck?

 

I've slept with 4 guys, and i'm 18 years old. I don't count the one guy who tried to stick it in me, but it just went soft (hehehe, sorry)(he had been drinking, so i understand)(anyways) The first guy I slept with, i went out for 8 months with. the second one was a one night stand that happened twice, which came out of an attraction that had been going on for almost a year.(i was single, he told me he was single--which now i don't think was true-anywho) the next guy was a friend, then started to seem like a boyfriend, he was too shy to ask me out, we did it twice i think, and yeah, that just didn't last at all. and the fourth one is my boyfriend right now of 5 months!=)
i've been called a slut NUMEROUS times by girls, and the time i've been called it the most was when i had only slept with one person :S geez.
but yes, i think slut is a dumb word, every girl i can think of has been called a slut or supposedly "is" one, and i just think it's dumb. i always say we're all sluts, because nowadays slut usually applies to anyone in some sort of way, which isn't good, but i just smile.
i do think that when girls sleep with other girls boyfriends (and she was the one who brought it on) it does and should give them a bad reputation. that's just not right, and hurtful. but i also do think that as long as girls mature and realize what they're doing either isn't right or may not be that healthy, and own up to mistakes, then it's okay. wow i'm blabbing!

 

I've had actual sex with only two different people; both of them male. One of them is an ex who I was together with for over 1.5 years. And the other one is my current boyfriend; who I've been together with for over a year now.
I did some sexual things with the ex before mentioned-above-ex, but not actual sex.

I'm very, very monogamous and tend to have long relationships, so I doubt it'll ever be a lot of people. So no, i'm not really slutty. I'm most experienced out of my friends group, but mostly because I keep relationships and.. in a relationship you can experiment with everytihng with that person.

 

ahahahah. love it.

 

I dont think the actual number is what determines a slut. I think it's in the way a person (male or female) carries themself, how and why they use sex, and what kind of standards they have (ie - another woman's husband, that sort of thing).

 

i've slept with nine men, and three women.

there's also four "did we or didn't we?" (two guys, two girls). oh the joys of alcohol..

 

good times. i only ever blacked out once. apparently i'd made loads of friends and didn't remember a single one of them. the last thing i remember was my boyfriend telling me, "try not to look drunk." ah, youth.

 

I know I shouldn't be lurking around the WOMEN'S ISSUES category, but I am new here and I was curious.

My wife answers the same as above, she knows all of their name, but she had a few more men in her 40 years of life.

I can tell you this ladies, if you are concerned that you might be a slut, that in its very nature assures you that you are not.

If I have slept with over 20 women becuase I was stupid in my youth am I a slut, I hope not, but if I am then fine. It made me who I am.

Oh and by the way, to the men my wife slept with.......THANK YOU......she is the best lover I have ever had the opportunity to be with.

We all make mistakes in life, but it is how we turn out that really make us who we are.

 

i've only ever been with one man. but i've been with an estimated 100 or so women. in the past 11 years. does that make me a slut? i don't think so. i don't remember nearly all their names, i didn't keep track of my numbers, i didn't always ask about stds, or use protection, never cared if they were married or in relationship or if i was (except when i was married for 2 years, i stayed monogomous to my wife), but i still don't consider myself a slut. i feel a vibe with someone and i go for it. i love sex, and i refuse to apologize for it to anyone, and i really feel that love and sex should be free as the wind. go where you feel it, don't go where you don't. and if that takes me into the beds of hundreds of individuals, then hell yeah, that's fun as shit! slut is a fun word to toss around in jest, but i don't believe there is such a thing. well... maybe... if you are getting paid for sex and take just whoever comes along, then maybe. but even so, who am i to judge one person over another? it's all good, it's all love... even if it isn't the same version of good or love that i choose for myself.

 

She never stops amazing us. I talke to my girl Mirjam and she said we really have only used the word 'SLUT' during sex....and that was a positive use

 

i've slept with 10 guys.. started when i was 17. no big deal. i love sex.