I think it's been about 8. I don't know how you kept count up to 58 so well. Do you keep notches in a belt?
Actually, I have written my entire sexual history and in doing so, listed all the different partners I have been intimate with. I thot of where it was that I had sex, then got a place and date from that. A lot of this was in the free luv days so I didn't always remember the person's name (or didn't ever know it) but I kept track of something significant about the tryst. So, I have had only 37 different dicks (& 30 different pussies) [SIZE=11pt]64 VILLA ACUNA, MEX[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Unknown Prostitute (First Time)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Unknown Prostitute (Second Time)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]64 ST. LOUIS[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Unknown girl (mom's 59 Ford)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]65 TURKEY[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Unknown Prostitute Bursa[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Denise Prostitute (15-yr-old) Bursa [/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Helen (First girlfriend) Buyukada[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]67 NEW ORLEANS [/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Willy RN (First Man) Kenner area [/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]"Kush" RN (obese woman) Harvey area[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Paula (stylish woman) Chalmette area[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]68 N.O.[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Unknown Woman with kid Camp St.[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Unknown Woman (menstrual) Camp St. [/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Anne (Mrs. R. - 19 yrs older) Camp St.[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]69 N.O.[/SIZE] [SIZE=12pt]Warren[/SIZE][SIZE=11pt] (older gay) Treme St.[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Chris (male bottom) Iberville St.[/SIZE] [SIZE=12pt]Mark[/SIZE][SIZE=11pt] (male bottom) Uptown area[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]70 N.O[/SIZE][SIZE=11pt].[/SIZE] [SIZE=12pt]Pat[/SIZE][SIZE=11pt] (woman loved doing it) Carrollton area[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Mike (soft girl) Ursuline Ave. [/SIZE] [SIZE=12pt]Myke[/SIZE][SIZE=11pt] (female) Magazine St. [/SIZE] [SIZE=12pt]Murielle[/SIZE][SIZE=11pt] ([/SIZE][SIZE=12pt]Myke[/SIZE][SIZE=11pt]'s sister) Mag. St.[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Unknown wom. (P/U in Qtr) Camp St.[/SIZE] [SIZE=12pt]Sela[/SIZE][SIZE=11pt] St. Phillip St.[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt](Female Cousin) Camp St. [/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]70 SAN FRANCISCO[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Unknown teen girl Howard St.[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]70 ARIZONA I-10 hitch-hiking[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Unknown man (cruising rest stop)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]70 N.O. Royal St.[/SIZE][SIZE=11pt] & Desire [/SIZE] [SIZE=12pt]Ramona[/SIZE][SIZE=11pt] (lived with few months)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]70 N.O. Mandeville & Royal[/SIZE] [SIZE=12pt]Sharon[/SIZE][SIZE=11pt] (AKA Natasha)[/SIZE] [SIZE=12pt]Jeremy[/SIZE][SIZE=11pt] (creative, psych)[/SIZE] [SIZE=12pt]Ralph[/SIZE][SIZE=11pt] (small male)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Unkwn young man (smegma) Esplanade Ave[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]71 N.O. 300 Royal[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Unknown woman (jaundice)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Unknown woman (pick-up Qtr)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]71 N.O. Decatur St. HEAD Clinic[/SIZE] [SIZE=12pt]Matthew[/SIZE][SIZE=11pt] (beautiful young man)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]72 N.O. Gov. Nichols St[/SIZE][SIZE=11pt].[/SIZE] [SIZE=12pt]Lily [/SIZE][SIZE=11pt](6-month live-in)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]72 MISSISSIPPI[/SIZE] [SIZE=12pt]Lori[/SIZE][SIZE=11pt] (earth mother)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]72 N.O. 800 Bourbon[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Unknown Man P/U (my mirror image)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]73 ON ROAD[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt](Honda 450 [/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]73 N.O. MARIGNY ST[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Marsha (ditsy)[/SIZE] [SIZE=12pt]Brad[/SIZE][SIZE=11pt] (black male)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Jim (partner to 78)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Unknown man (Jim was pissed)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]79 N.O. ESPLANADE Ave.[/SIZE] [SIZE=12pt]Karen[/SIZE][SIZE=11pt] (beautiful woman 11 yrs younger)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]80 MARRERO LA.[/SIZE] [SIZE=12pt]Dora[/SIZE][SIZE=11pt] M. (lesbian?)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Brenda (partner to 98)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]90 MIAMI BEACH[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Terry J (male) 900 Pa. Ave.[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]94 GAINESVILLE[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Randy B (local AIDS activist)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]96 MIAMI BEACH[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Eliseo (Treas. Isl Nurs. Hm.)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]98 + MIAMI BEACH, Indian Creek [/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Rob (cousin) S. Beach Guest House[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Fernando (fm Body Pos) [/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Eduardo (prev. co-worker) . [/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Unknown man (P/U fm Haulover -N.J.) [/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Roberto (apt. maint. man) [/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Mark (fm Body Pos) [/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Jose (Puerto Rican fm. Body Pos) [/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]01 MIAMI BEACH, Harding Ave.[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Raul (Sylvia's husband) Harding Ave.[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Ron (fm. Morningside)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Bob (P/U fm. Haulover)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]02 MIAMI BEACH, Harding Ave.[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Carlos (Cute, Young P/U fm. Haulover) [/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]03 MIAMI BEACH 7300 Byron Ave.[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Ramon (Puerto Rico)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]07 New Orleans Hotel[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]J. (Webfriend 40 yrs younger)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]08 Miami Beach 7717 Byron Ave.[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Chuck (P/U fm Haulover)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]10 Miami Beach 7717 Byron Ave.[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Andres (MySpace Friend in Miami 1 day))[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Edel (Friend of coworker)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Chrissy (Friend of Raul)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]12 Miami Beach 7717 Byron Ave.[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Keith (flickr Web Hookup - feet - NY)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Nelson (flickr Web Hookup - feet - Australia)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Michel (French Canad Hlvr)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]13 Miami Beach 7717 Byron Ave.[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Kerry (P/U fm Haulover)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]Brian (Web Hookup) [/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]WOMEN: (64 - 98 = 29) (98 -13 = 01)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]MEN: (67 - 98 = 16) (98 -13 = 21)[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]MEN TOTAL: 37[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]WOMEN TOTAL: 30[/SIZE] [SIZE=11pt]TOTAL: 67[/SIZE]
I don't log my sexual encounters like that, but, I'll try keep her underwear. Or a lock of her hair. Or... Her head.
3. One long term boyfriend of 4 years One rebound after we broke up Another long term boyfriend (my current man)
When I look back on my youth I am amazed that I got thru it with nothing more that one bout of "non-specific urethritis." Actually the note "menstrual" is kinda gross, but didn't kill me - still here.
156 let me retype... 156, yes for a long time I did keep a list. I lived in Austin for college. Very liberal town. Sex, to me, is like breathing. Cannot live without it. And shouldn't have to. It feels good, so as long as it's safe, consensual, and a good time...who cares?