How many bi people we got out there?

Bi male here

 

I have my wife to thank. When she was done with sex herself, she is the one who thought it would be a good idea if I tried bi. It opened up another world of pleasure when I thought it was all over. Very addicting, isnt it?

 

Bi male who loves sucking a dick as much as he does have sex with his wife.

 

Bi male here have a long term relationship with a woman plan to keep it that way but have a slight preference for guys in the sac

 

Bi guy here 100% perv.

 

bi guy here since i was a teen

 

Im here and I’m bi nothing wrong with liking cock and pussy

 

I’m a 67yo bi-male. I love cock and pussy

 

Me me meee!

 

I once believed that I am bi, but was told I am not because I don’t do kissing, hugging or any type of anal play with another man. I simply enjoy fondling and sucking cock. So I guess I’m just strange.

 

I think there are levels of bi. For years I would have called myself "mostly straight." My criteria: I like everything about women - eyes, lips, breasts, pussy etc. - but with guys I only liked the cock. When I play with a guy it's to enjoy his cock and balls, I don't enjoy kissing the mouth, I do like body to body contact more and more, and there are times when I desire anal (giving, haven't had the opportunity to receive a cock when in the mood to try it, though I'm sure it will happen.)
So to say you're not bi because... yadayada reasons is garbage. I've met gay men who don't like anal of any sort. They like other men and only have any kind of sex with other men thus they are gay. Bi = likes both sexes and having sex with both whether that includes kissing, hugging, or anal is irrelevant.

 

Crazy progression for me: From high school onwards I thought I was STRAIGHT (though lots of gay sexual play with my best friend from 8-13). At 30, after my first girlfriend broke up with me for the third time, I became BICURIOUS. Then for 21 years I was BI-CONFUSED, with tons of gay fantasies and jerking off to gay porn at home eventually driving me out to the gay sex venues like bathhouses with the intention of sucking and fucking, but then losing all desire when with actual naked men, but still sucking them for just their pleasure, and then returning home where all the gay desires came back full throttle, eventually leading me out to the baths etc. again, for more disappointment, and repeat.

Then after losing my gay virginity, as a top, at 51, I felt completely BISEXUAL, absolutely accepting and loving the gay side of my bisexuality, and from then on feeling lots of desire with the guys I had sex with in each other's homes (no more anonymous sex), but still dating lots of women, who all rejected me without even a kiss. Then, at 54, one woman didn't reject me, but at the end of that tumultuous three-year relationship, I identified as GAY, which I still do to date. I have no interest in having sex, let alone love, with another woman ever again. I still find women attractive, but other guys are my only sexual and romantic interest now.

I wonder if I was gay all along, and just kept repressing it through internalized homophobia, with ever-increasing parts of my truth sneaking out. Now, at 62, I live as a fully gay man.

 

I can relate to the term Bi-confused. I did do some experimenting with a couple of friends when I was pretty young. The encounters were limited, but I did enjoy the few that I had. Starting in middle school, my neighbor and I would sneak peeks at his older brothers porn mag collection. They were all straight mags, but there were usually one or two gay ads with pictures in the classified section. I never said anything, but I was checking out the guys in the pictures as much as the girls and really liked the gay ads. In high school, a friend had an illustrated sex position book that he asked to stash at my house because his mom always went through his stuff. I said yes and spent a lot of my alone time with that book. In addition to straight sex, it had pictures of masturbation and gay sex. This is where the confusion came in. I loved girls, but I was really turned on by the pictures of naked guys, guys maturating and guys having sex with each other. I thought of myself as straight and didn't understand those other feelings.
I've been married and had serious girlfriends over the years. Some of those relationships included a great sex life, but it always felt like something was missing and I knew what it was. I was missing being with a man like the pictures that turned me on years earlier. As my urges got stronger, I started to watch bi porn to see if that was a lifestyle that I could truly get into. It made me want to be with a man even more. I started to watch gay porn for the same reason and got the same result. I can now admit to myself the I am sexually attracted to men as much as women. I haven't been with a man yet, but I'm working on it.
I've gone being biconfused to bicurious to definitely bisexual.

 

bi male into couples!

 

I m a bi guy since i was a preteen.