How long do you wait to first have sex when your in a relationship with someone?

o ya what makes you think im shallow? at least i have a reason for thinking that.

 

Depends on the situation. If its a girl I just met, likely it will be a few weeks before we get in the sack. But a while back I started dating an old friend from university. We were fucking like monkeys the first date.

 

Yeah... uh... When you expect to be with them forever.

thats my rule... I'm a bit of a he-prude.

 

^^ i definitely agree with your post.
im have no desire to be with anyone else or play the field.

 

IF i had it 2 do over i'd wait til i was married!!!

 

I'm 23, I dont think there are any attractive female virgins left my age...

so... I guess its just me... the internet and a bottle of cocoa butter... uh, erm... I mean...

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TMI?

 

im 19 and i agree. it seems that everyone i know (myself included) has lost their virginity.

 

depends on how quickly i get close to someone. that i see myself dating and hanging out with for a while. i dont usually wait til we're dating, if it happens, it happens, dont be a jerk about it though and leave. and if we date, we date.

im too easy going

 

Interesting replies to this question and interesting the concept of "relationship."

I have been in a relationship with three diff ppl in my lifetime and I had sex with all of them before realizing we were going to be in a relationship.

But that was the times. Never really went on dates, just ended up in bed if you liked the person and if you really liked them would do it again - and again until you decided to move in together. Then started the relationship.

Oh, yeah, I have never encountered a virgin. Just lucky I guess.

 

The shortest was about 90 minutes after meeting.

 

No clue, first time I had sex I had just met the girl the day before... Took like years of waiting for the girl but that "virgin" seemed pretty experienced to me.

 

-10 days.

 

i think people should wait till they're in love. personally, with my first bf we waited 6 months. and with my current bf, we waited 2 days but we knew each other for almost 2 years prior.

 

If the dude is real hot I don't want to wait very long...I'd give him a week if I really like him maybe longer but then if its not mutual what's the point. I cna tell real quick what potential they have its intuitive. There this guy I met once and would have jumped him right then and there but my b/f at the time was there. He blocked us and if I run into him again...I'm not waisting any time! LOL

 

Did any of these sexual experiences result in something negative like an STD/STI? I keep hearing all these statistics and it does scare me a bit. Or was everybody up and up on each other's bill of health before the good times rolled?

 

I don't plan it it happens when it does

 

5 minutes after the first smile in passing.

 

There isn't any set length of time but there is a pattern. After my second divorce I was single for 6 years and learned some interesting facts. If I was interested in a single woman, it would take anywhere from a couple of weeks to a couple of months to get into her pants. But the married ones were a different story. I made a habit of checking for wedding rings on women that were alone in bars, and about 85 to 90 percent of the time, had them on there backs the same day. I have had married women invite me out to there car within an hour of approaching them. A married woman alone in a bar is usually there for only one reason. I have also run into a couple of my friends wives in bars and had them join me in the parking lot at some point during the evening.

That was when I was single and am now exclusive with my wife. She on the other hand is so easy it's scary. She says that she has always spread her legs on the first date ever since her first time and often lets guys do her in there car within just a few minutes of meeting them.

 

I did not wait at all with my latest boy... Omg, we couldn't. Holy hell, it was electric. Made me wonder how could anyone ever?? I think we waited maybe a few weeks after just seeing each other on weekends and making out and fucking around with heavy petting... Like we tried to wait, but... yeah... fuck, I miss that. those feelings are really gone too soon.