How long do guys last during sex?

also for me is highly variable.. sometimes i fight to hold off from cumming after 10 pumps, other time i could go for more than 30-40 minutes.. usually avarage time is 20 mins.. is my gf that decides when is my turn, after her pleasure of course!

 

My husband and I hooked up with another couple (close friends of ours) several months back (1st and only time). It was the first time either one of us had been with anyone other than each other. I gotta say there were many differences in my husband and her husband, and this I'm sure is due to the fact I had never been with anyone else. My husband normally lasts about 15-20 mins of actucal penatration, if I'm lucky. It seemed like my friends husband lasted forever with me. If I was to give a guess I'd say probably closer to 45 mins. As far as the other differences go, my husband is somewhat larger than hers in the penis department, so 15 mins with him feels amazing. With her husband the longer session felt really good as well, it seemed to be more of a slower gradual orgasm, of should I say orgasms, lol. However, I wouldn't trade my husband in for anything, and I love the sex with my man, lol. But it was quite noticable that her husband stayed harder longer than mine. Kinda interesting how everyone is different.

 

I cum or don't on cue. However long I want...I might lose erection for up to 15 minutes if I`m fucking over 45 minutes, while resting. Or, in between orgasms. Or, if I`m not digging the girl. Or if there`s something physically wrong with me. If I got the hots for the girl I`m fucking, I like to bust twice.

When I was younger, I had difficulty cumming. I could go nearly 2 hours without loss of erection or orgasm. Only once have I cummed multiple times without loss of erection.

Nowadays, I can cum (the first time around), within five minutes of deciding to do so. Especially in the doggy style position if the chick`s got a hot ass. And, certainly, jerking off in her mouth.

The second orgasm is more challenging.

 

Sex is like comedy it is all about timing. I try to work out when my lady is about to arrive and then do likewise, but doing this every time is impossible.

However, this practice often currently leads to my orgasm being "stifled" which is uncomfortable as my wife's vagina is very small and gets very tight. That is why I prefer a larger one, like my previous wife. I could really empty myself into her too, but then she was much more difficult to please, whereas my current wife is easy and I can relax, so pros and cons there.

The main thing is tolerance, it is never going to be good every time, you take the good with the mediocre and enjoy the person you are with. If, on occasion you don't cum yourself, enjoy the fact that you made your partner happy.... Then go off and knock one out on your own.

The answer to you question is anything between 1 millisecond to about 4 hours for me, nowadays around 1/2 hour of penetration. I found in the past that some women are often upset by PE, but I think it is a compliment to their sexiness, provided it isn't a common occurrence.

I am not a condom user, just removes all sensitivity for me, I practice safe sex by not sleeping around and opt for other forms of contraception. The few times when I did use a condom, was where the figure of 4 hour figure came from.

Relax..........

 

Shycouple, sounded like it was a fun time for everyone.

 

Yes it was fun

 

So what was your motivation for hooking up with another couple? Was it your idea or your husband's? I'm also curious if you might have done a spit-roasting threesome with your husband and the other guy, and if y our husband and him also tag-teamed the other wife?

 

Being a dude masturbating during the day helps last longer at night. Its like you built a little tolerance, got some of the excitement out.

I think there is so much anticepation for men that by the time they stick it in, their to that climax point. You can't give a dude a blow job right before hes about to explode and then tell him to stick it in.

Tell him to work slow, and just practice on control, you get to a certain point where you like oh I got this.

Also timing can change from day to day. If you have sex everynight for a week, 3 nights might be long and sensual, and 4 nights might be carnation instant sex, it all depends on your physcial/psychological status at the time.

 

Well the idea was probably more his idea (as well as her husbands), lol. My husband and I had talked and fantasized about it but never really thought we would ever have the nerves to actually do it. After me and my friend had a very interesting and totally out of the ordinary conversation one day, I kinda found out that we as couples shared some of the same sexual curiousities. Things like watching others and being watched, and possibly even ...well you can kinda see which direction the converstaion went, lol. So obviously I shared these tid-bits with my husband. Well fast forward a few months, ........ Then over the next two week span, and after much arkwardness and a little shyness from all involved, we all watched each other have sex with our own spouses, as well as shared each others husbands (and wives). Trust me their was a lot of alcohol involved, because there was no way any of us probabaly would have gone as far as we did without it. But ya know after a few you kinda get a "why not" attitude and thats just what happened. As far "split roasting", not exactlly sure what that is, but if your referring to having sex with one guy while having the other in your mouth, yeah we did that (saw that one in a movie, lol). The guys ended up doing that to both of us girls, probably just to say they did it.
Anyway not saying I totally agree with sharing your husband or wife with someone else, but it was exciting for us with them. It was all kinda planned a little since they were moving away the following week. To be honest eventhough it was quite the experience, we will more than likely never do it again, if not for anything else other than moral reasons.

Sorry for such a long post (I still left a lot out) and sorry for getting off subject, just wanted to share a little background on that particualur exprience.

 

Longer as you get older.

 

How Long Is A Piece Of String....??



Cheers Glen.

 

My husband as lasted around 2 hours before, but the longest was a co-worker who banged me for 3 hours in the storage while hubby slept.....

 

It depends on position, how worked up i am, how fast we are going etc. But to be honest with slowdowns,position changes and stopping i could keep going. Of course too long and i get blue balls and the orgasm then is not as enjoyable. But it's say at a steady pace i can go about 30-40 minutes.

 

Even as a guy i'd have to agree with this one. Past 30 minutes it starts to lose it's thrill.

 

kegals for men actually works for that as well.

 

Kind of like how every guy online has an above 8 inch cock lol

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=839DO8-0cY8"]Too Fast (Jon Lajoie) - YouTube

 

Depends on the situation and the action. If there has been a lot of foreplay that really gets me going it may not be very long. If we plan on spending the day or evening enjoying the time then it could be quite a while. Also if drugs have been involved it makes a difference. On some drugs it could be hours.

 

Booze can also make a difference as well.

 

got to have longer forplay and get her wet with anticipation. then you'l both have a chance for shared orgasms.