How jealous am I allowed to be?

tsss wtf ?
tell him what you told us. tell him you don`t like him constanly talking about her and wanting your phone to call her. i mean yes no probs with the firend thing, but is he crazy to talk about that with you ....like so much.

 

Is she more attractive than you?

If so, then you should be somewhat jealous.

 

Maybe she has vaginal termites.

 

He is definitely being insensitive. You should be his priority at this point, and his friendship with the ex should not interfere with your time together, IMO.

Also, it's quite understandable if you don't want to hear sexual details about him and another person. In fact, I would've already given him the boot.

 

you can be as jealous as you wanna be. it's your happiness at stake. Jealousy is a happiness destroyer. It's just a churched up word for fear. If it's a fear you cannot live with, tell him to cut it out. If he don't, move on.

 

I would be really jealous.

Does he do that kinda stuff with his guy friends? Ring them up on your phone and stuff?

I don't know all the details, so I can't really make a proper judgement. But, :grouphug:

 

I almost couldn't focus on your post, because your sig is so pretty.

Anyway. I wouldn't be jealous, per sé, but I would be kind of upset. It's understandable for someone to wish to remain friends with an ex, but when that starts interfering with a current relationship, there's problem. I would just talk to him about it. Let him know how it makes you feel.

 

wake up dude. he is obviously not loyal to the relationship if he is spending any time with her whatsoever. it's about respect, and he obviously isn't showing you any respect if he is spending time with another woman, regardless of who she is. but, definitely make your views known.

 

That's a little hardcore, is it not? You can't really expect your partner to not spend any time with the opposite sex, even if it is individually. I feel like there should be a certain amount of trust in a relationship, allowing for some time apart, even with members of the opposite sex.

That's not to say that it's all right for him to spend time with his ex-girlfriend, because it's not.

 

ok, maybe a bit harsh. but, in reference to his ex, absolutely fucking not! totally disrespectful. other members of the opposite sex? maybe. if you've met them and feel comfortable with the amount of time that they spend alone together.
step one if to let him know how you feel
step two is to observe his behavior, if he is mad b/c you ask him not to chill with his ex and won't see your point of view and respect it by ending the friendship or limiting it, then he sucks

 

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You go girl. :grouphug:

Best of luck.

 

You already got 2 opinions about kicking him. Sure go talk to him but I bet you 90% hes going to either A get pissed off that you're "controlling" who he talks to or B. say "ok baby ill stop" but in mind "yeah right"

So its really up to you. What did he say when you told him this?

 

Sounds like your b/f is spending too much time on his ex, if he wants to be with his ex more than you get rid of him.

 

ever hear of emotional infidelity? he desn't have to sleep with her o be cheating on you, IMHO. also, just cause he seems like he isn't the type to cheat, that dosn't mean he get's carte blanche. like is said ebfore. it's about respect.

 

Ugh! That pisses me off.
No lady, you have every right to be jealous. Thats just stupid.
If he was in your position, you he'd be Crazy jealous.
Don't be quiet about it, it bothers you (which it should), and if it gets to the point you can't take it anymore, ask him,
"Her or Me"

Because really, i do not think you can enjoy the relationship you have if this is happening, And its definitely a problem you have to solve or he is just gonna keep doing it.

what a douche.

 

You are jealous because you are insecure.

tell him that he needs to make it clear that you are his first priority, or he needs to walk.

 

it's not about insecurity. it's about respect!

 

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From what I read, he is very much into her... with this guy you either need to let it go, or tell him to cut it out... next thing you know you're going to be hurt because he messed around with her.

Trust me... it's starts off as 'we are just friends' then you find out it's all a bullshit excuse for what is really going on.