How is your present relationship going?

Mine is the most confusing I've ever been into..

 

Why's that, Hari?^

 

We get by.

 

It's going stronger and stronger. We have lots of plans for the future, which includes both of us together. Next month it'll be a whole year since we met. It hasn't been a really long relationship (10 months) But we share so much time together and we always have something to talk about, or not (thats very important too)...He means a lot to me and I'm happy he's in my life

 

Better than yours

 

It is going great. I can't believe we've been together over four years now.

 

no relationships

that's why very very good!

 

Wish I was in one so I could say

 

my wife pays the rent. that's great.
she doesn't let me sleep when i would need to in order to be useful to anyone to pay me for.
that's not so great.

so my relationship is what keeps a roof legaly over my head.
i'd rather be doing so without it.
but i wouldn't want to be making anyone unhappy either.

i can't bitch about having this computer.
but i sure can about constantly having to pick up after someone else's piles of crap.

i wish i lived someplace where the law would just let me camp out all the time.
and build myself the kind of shelter from natural materials the indiginous people arround here used to before the now dominant culture came along and started buying and selling the land and all that.

then if she still wanted to be with me, how i'd rather be living, well then that would be cool too. she SAYS she would, but the one time i tried to take her any place natural and unpaved she had what seems most probably some sort of anxiety attack.

whereas, i did NOT grow up in cities. nor thinking of the universe in terms of human society. even if most of the poeple, even in the small towns i grew up in, even there and then, did.

=^^=
.../\...

 

I am a very complex individual.

 

You sound like you're using your wife. Even worse, you deny that you even want what she provides. You always have a million excuses for not working, yet you're living the life of somone who does and constantly complains about it. Your wife sounds like she's more your mommy and you're a spoiled brat who takes her for granted. I find it sad and from what I know think she might just be better off alone.

 

relationship with god is beautiful. =)


ha me kid.

 

well said.

 

never had a better one, in my life, not to say every momments bliss, some momments suck bad, but they all add up to, really being as close to the perfect relationship as i can imagine


blissfully eratic, spontaniusly joyful, explosively passionate, immensely satisfying, with just enough confusion added to keep us growing & learning daily