How important is foreplay?

It is so fucking important!! If it doesnt then just dont bother!! It doesnt have to be physical everytime, it can be flirting and teasing. Its about working up to it and getting your head into it...thats my female perspective anyway.

 

I always want foreplay

 

Foreplay becomes more important as you get older to make the session last longer

Also as you get older one tends to become more experimental of which means more fun

 

I love getting my face wet.

 

So so important I find the more turned on I am the longer I last and the greater the orgasm also it gets you more in tuned to the person your with

 

What type of foreplay makes you ready quickly?

 

Being ready quickly is more about my state of mind, my mood, etc. If I had to pick something that me in the mood the fastest it's probably lots of soft kisses, a massage (doesn't have to take a long time) and then some oral with a talented partner.

 

Hi, Thank you for your sharing your personal feelings. It is very useful for me to understand what works for each of us. This forum allows us to share these without any inhibhitions.
I personally likes to pamper my wife with kisses and gently massaging.

 

Thoroughly understand. Sometimes I’m just looking to blow a load in her. If she’s wet enough, why bother? She cums quick, easy, and often so unless I specifically ask her not to (our psychological kink) she’s gonna cum too. Similarly, sometimes she’s just looking to relieve the tension with a quick chill or two. I almost always cum in her as well but occasionally I’m just not in the mood and, as soon as I hear and feel her grunts end, I’ll just pull out and get on with my day. And lastly, as someone else mentioned, sometimes she just wants to feel a good nut in her with no desire to get off herself. Oh the sacrifices I have to endure.

 

Terribly important, but I wish it had another name that didn't imply that it was just the path to "real sex"

 

Foreplay is very important. I'd argue that it's essential. If you think about it, even if you initiate a 'quickie' with your partner, you wouldn't just do it off the bat. You'd probably at least have teased her a little bit and flirted before hand. This is all foreplay. If your mind isn't aroused, sex won't be good.

 

me personally foreplay is a big YES don't get me wrong a quickie here and there are great but some women love the foreplay because it gets them going inside and out not a 2 second pump and dump sex life. even teasing them thru out the day...someone people get off by that and at night time they go insane and weither thats just teasing back and forth or having a quickie untill you can rock there world

 

Foreplay for me starts the moment I think I'm going to fuck some live pussy soon. It's vital I engage in foreplay as without it there is no way I would be able to have that pussy I so desire.

 

Foreplay for us sometimes starts the minute we get up in the morning. We are teasing each other and playing touchy feely all day. Its like a all day date. I might bend her over for a few pokes or she might want to give me a quick bj. This play goes on all day until the main event of lots of oral. That’s how we roll in our house.

 

Not only is foreplay important but I'd say it's essential and a no brainer when it comes to being an intregal part of sex. The build up and the preshow is what makes the main event better and more intense. Without foreplay it's just a quick fuck and it's over with. I'd rather get myself off than be disappointed like that.

 

Agree! It’s a must! Ask her …. I’m sure she would agree!!

 

ALWAYS #1. I have to have it.

 

See gentlemen…you have the answer!! ALWAYS #1…do it!

 

And I always want to perform foreplay on a woman! To me, that and cunnilingus are the best parts of sex. There's nothing like worshipping a woman's body with my lips and tongue and performing cunnilingus on her.

 

Everyone is different my wife enjoys cuddling and kissing. My fwb enjoys her breasts and legs massaged as well as her feet. My fb enjoys nipple play and kissing. Of course the amount of time with foreplay depends on the moment and mood