how do u get into being a swinger

My girlfriend plays with other men, and I play with other women. She always tells me about her intentions in advance, and I do the same. I think she's sometimes a bit jealous, but if she is, it's never had a negative impact on our relationship, ever. As long as she keeps me informed of her activities, I don't feel jealous at all.

We talked a while back about my interest in actually watching another guy fuck her and she's now actively looking for someone who will consent. In this culture, guys are so "macho" it's sometimes difficult to find someone who'll participate in a MMF, but if anyone can find such a guy, she can.

This relationship has been one of the most satisfying that I've ever had in my life, and I've had my share. Two thumbs up to open relationships.:2thumbsup:

 

Read my post in context. It isn't callous at all.

 

I thought I did that. Unless you can point out how it is that the context of your post invalidates my counterargument, I'll abide by my words.

 

As you wish.

 

That`s what I thought.

 

I became a swinger but ended up in hospital after falling out of the tree, should have used a rope not a vine

 

This is why we send 18 year old boys out in war I guess... Coz they can't be killed and they just "know" everything... At least they think so themself...

Running after the first kiss aren't even close to swinging... When you swing both parts is fucking around and not just the one part running aroud for puzzy....

First you might try finding a girl and THEN you can se how good you like other men fucking her... THEN we can talk about swinging...

 

My latest girl loves to swing from my stiff cock.....

 

hrmmm... i'd like to second this. Maybe half of the replies here have much value... said as someone also asking this question very seriously.
I'd like to say whoever said you don't know shit at 18, don't know shit. I knew i was a submissive kinkster by then and that fact certainly hasn't changed. People always seems to use the it's a phase excuse and sure sometimes yup but alot of the time not so much. As far as the original question goes i could also use some help. I've been in a serious relationship for 5 years now, in my mid twenties. It's a great thing don't get me wrong but his sex drive just can't keep up with mine and part of being a kinkster for me totally means fantasizing about other people. I don't want to cheat , been there, done that. but i am slowly going crazy. He's open to trying and yeah communication/honesty is totally the way to go in any relationship but yup especially if you want something out of the ordinary. but the only club i've found at which to meet likeminded people where i live has closed and was really just a chemical festival anyways. So if there's no club what to do? internet dating sites don't seem to do the trick. i don't seem to know anyone, and how do you ask that really? so yup ummm i'd like some advice too. and my advice to you findingmyself is to always be honest with them and yourself. get good at talking about sex, practice with a friend, not dirty talk just expressing your needs and wants. and don't be afraid to be rejected. lots o people out there are straight up vanilla sex loving but not everyone and more people than you think have a kink up their sleeve if you can be comfortable enough to ask.