My gut feeling kept telling me exactly that.. but I've been in denial. (I'm literally in tears typing) Those 2 sentences is what I've been saying to myself over & over and never faced my emotions and dealt. And it's really hitting me hard that someone else is telling me this & not myself.. ... Thank you.
Well give us word when you've successfully broken up with this guy and gotten back to finding yourself. I'm sure I speak for all of us when we say we wish you the best.
I fully understand what you mean. My ex was a total butt nugget. I remember we were in her kitchen attempting to have a serious conversation. Her question for me was "why are you with me?" I didnt answer because I was afraid of bein single and the confrontation (although I was 18). In my head I was thinking because I'm a fuckin dumass. Then she asked for a 2 week break...then the rest is history. My suggest to you, get out, run, hire a group of midgets to beat him down (sorry, couldn't help it). I realized to trust my instincts/guts, learn to trust yours.
Lol , i already broke up w/ him but thanks though . ", hire a group of midgets to beat him down " lol . >.< WISH I COULDA THOUGHT OF THAT SOONER. ..And i made a thread about it. It's called I broke up with "the love of my life" -___-