How do guys like their handjobs?

i love a good hand job. i think they re underestimated. some times they just seem right. sometimes they re all thats practical.
one girl i used to chat to online would regularly give a hj at the end of an evening out. more if she really liked tham, but the hj was kind of like a minimum.

personally i like slow. lube is good, but dry can be great too. but s l o w. those you porn videos seem far too rushed

 

I've had a few experiences with men who take the "I could do that myself" stance, but the rest love it. I can't imagine that a man's hand could feel exactly the same as a woman's, unless you are not thinking about the fact that it IS a woman's hand touching you (which you should be :] ). I don't know, I guess also the fact that a hand job generally occurs in my experiences when I am naked is a factor.

Not being a man, I can't speak for you all -- but I do believe that there are a great many things that can be enjoyed more than you thought once you open your mind to enjoying them.

For the record, I love the female equivalent (fingering). There is no similarity in how he does it and how I do it, but I do know that when I am alone, there is not a naked guy for me to touch while he makes me feel good. :]

 

Vid on how to not give a handjob heheh

http://youtube.com/watch?v=CXiQ4kRnBdo

 

Thanks for the link S.D.! You are so cool!

 

That would suck!
EDIT:Btw, for me I would say wet, slippery, and some guys said speed up when their gonna cum, I would rather have it way slow before I blow... WAY intense.

 

try lots of lube and eye contact. my bf loves it

 

Sure. Eye contact always makes a huge difference, whether we re talking hj/bj/anal/whatever. Use a mirror if need be, but I find eye contact can make the difference between average and utterly memorable.
This is a bit off topic, but Im just thinking about the effect of putting a mirror right in front of my lover A,s face if I'm kneeling/standing behind her. I think that might be incredibly erotic! To stare, close up, into her eyes though a mirror.

 

Another tip, try touching yourself while you do it if possible I go nuts when my girlfriend does that. Talking dirty never hurts, tell him how much you want him to blow his load all over you.

 

handjobs we can do our self.... but if thats all your ok with doin at the time, i like goin rely slow and up and down the whole thing

 

:cheers2:

 

a little more gentle PLEASE

 

I like it fast with a lot of tingling sensation lube

 

try putting some saliva on your hand before you start...feels good..........

 

Seem to be repeating myself a lot this evening. But imsure there are some moments when the (quick) handjob is the perfect option. And if it s not rushed then well. Done it can satisfy as much as a bj. I think there s something a touch tawdry about a hj because its basically how a guy would do it himself. For me that s alarge part of the appeal

 

I've heard guy like it if you put on satin or silk gloves.

 

That is so funny. I can't stop laughing.

 

I love them in the morning

 

Less hand more blow....go from a hand job to a full blown blow job lol

 

wear alot of rings

 

i like mine outside...