how do guys feel about taking virginity?

Taking virginity isn't the greatest while you're doing it since obviously there is inexperience. The best part is knowing that for the rest of her life she will remember you as the guy that took it.

 

Well, that last sentence is a double edged sword. If you had been the guy who took my virginity - the thoughts would not be so favorable of you. My first guy was no gentleman. I wish it had been different.....but in the back seat of a car at the beach with the windows rolled up because the mosquitoes were almost as brutal as the guy that gave me my first taste of sex was not a warm and fuzz event. I was very stupid. It put me off sex for a bit.

On the bright side (and I always like that side best) it was his only chance with me and I learned a lot that night and have been more careful with my following lovers, partners, boyfriends, husband what have you.

And for you guys out there....if you do get the privilege to take a girl's virginity....please try it make it a good introduction - it's a once in a lifetime experience for the girl and she deserves better than what I in my stupidity let myself into.

OH WELL, GO on and go forward....never straight!

 

My perspective on taking a girl's virginity, is not conquest, it's an art. But it's an art I've not been given the chance and I've been told it takes a lot of patience, and sometimes a lot of towels but not always.

 

sex is really only a once in a lifetime experience if she waits until her wedding night.

 

But you still remember him as the one who did it. To me, the psychological satisfaction is that the girl whose virginity I took will always remember me as the one who did it. How she remembers it being doesn't really matter to me 18 years later.

Sorry your first experience wasn't a good one.

 

taking girl's virginity is an unforgottable moment. it was so much better if you loved each other when you did. it wasn't jut sex but given all of you for someone you love. An amazing moment.

 

ha, noo not love...

 

I think it's a lot of fun for a sadist. but it's also kind of boring. he has to teach her how to do everything, even if he forces her, he has to teach her. if she's all 'no dont do that im uncomfortable', then its really shite.

 

hmmmm if without love involved, then i think taking a girl's virginity makes me proud. because i'm the first one for her, the first one to filled on her pussy. being the first is always makes me proud. and watching the pussy covered by virginity blood makes me turn on and give me some pleasure

 

Ugh, i guess that puts a new meaning to the phrase different strokes for different folks.

I know lots of guys who agree with me that blood anywhere is just not good for a sexual experience, including when you take a virgin. It can ruin the mood, and the mess...

I don't think I could feel good despite being a woman's first if I couldn't make it a positive experience for her.

 

I Agree with you about giving a positive experience for the girl. I dont really understand why some people give a rough sex to a virgin. It's better to make her enjoy that every step of pooping her cherry, I think.

About the blood, i dont like it anywhere. I just like watching it when the first time it came out after a successful first penetration, I told the girl to take a look at her virginity blood. Kind of sexy. But then I just wiped it before next penetration.

:sunny:

 

Being the first to have penetrative sex with a girl or woman is of absolutely no relevance whatsoever.

Being GOOD is what men should strive for. Claiming some sort of semi-mythical status because you were her first is laughable, unless you made the occasion memorable for her for reasons OTHER than pain, embarassment or disappointment.

My 2c. And yes, I've done it. And no, I don't ever want to again.

 

why would you not want to do it again..

 

Haven't taken anybody's virginity but would have no problem with doing so.

 

I hate doing virgins, they get all clingy and theyre not as much fun

 

They might not be as much fun. But girls get real emotional about their virginity. So be cool, don't be a dick.

It's very painful to be deflowered. At least it was for me because I'm very petite. Be gentle and understanding.........

 

I had my first wifes virginity. and whilst she made me wait 2 years to have it it was good for both of us. on the other hand i had a girl friend that would take me to her place. strip naked open her legs to let me touch etc but would never let me make her cum by any form. or even touch my dick she was a virgin and said she was keeping it for her wedding day. i respected her wishes so used to nip to the loo for a wank after seeing her but got shot quickly

 

I recall taking one girlfriend's virginity but generally I ran the other way when I was told by a young lady that she was a virgin.

 

Many a young maid's lost her bobbles to my blade, arr....irate:

 

An issue, as a man, I never even considered worth while thinking about.