How Did You Start Exploring Bisexuality?

I would sneak my mom’s pantyhose and put them on, they felt really good and liked how they looked on me.
The older I got the more I was intrigued especially when yahoo messenger came out.
I would fantasize about wearing nylons and a short nightie and pleading a guy like that. The thought of pleasing someone turned me on

 

I started imagining myself in place of the woman in a porn scene. It confirmed that I wanted sex with other men.

 

Hornybim71, you just gave me a kick start. Funny, but when I was about 10 my mom would leave her pantyhose hanging up to dry in the bathroom and sometimes I would put them on and watch my little pecker grow. Sometimes I would sneak a pair of her high heels into the bathroom and I would just stare at myself in the mirror with her pantyhose and shoes on. I never tried on anything else but I was drawn to sexy feet and legs.
When my brother showed me porn he sneaked from my father I had my first look at naked men and women and I told my brother I wanted to find a girl with a 'thing' like mine and we could suck on each other's 'thing'. He just laughed at me but didn't explain girls don't have dicks. The photos weren't all that clear so I just saw hairy patches, women have tits, men don't.
A year later I figured it out with help from a neighbor who also enjoyed having 'biggest dick' contests while we looked at his dad's Playboys. He had the smallest one but always instigated the contest at sleepovers.
One time after teasing back and forth 'suck it', 'no, you suck it', we agreed to try it at the same time. I laid on my back and he climbed over me and we each had a Playboy to look at. When we did the count down we both touched our mouths to the others dick. I took his dick all the way in my mouth because he had such a small one and he just put his lips on the head of my dick. I sucked away like it was the most natural thing and he eventually stopped sucking mine. I kept going until he came and it was natural to swallow.
Afterwards he asked if I liked it and I said I did and he said he liked it too and it was just cool. We went back to looking at the Playboys and went to sleep.
Every sleepover after that we ended up having a ritual. He would give me a Playboy to look at and he would put my dick in his mouth a little then we would switch places and I would suck him to orgasm. He admitted he liked it better when I sucked him than sucking me so eventually we just went right to me sucking him off whenever we had a chance.
All that time I would masturbate only to women in various nudey magazines even though I only had any kind of sex with my friend. One we started high school I realized how much all the girls turned me on even though I was still sucking off my friend and so I must be bisexual. True, I didn't have sex with a girl yet but I knew I would and I knew I wasn't attracted to guys in general. Being in high school where we had open group showers made it clear I wasn't purely gay but I did enjoy seeing some nice bodies there!
So long story short, I realized I'm bisexual when I was a freshman in high school. To this day my bisexuality is purely physical, not emotional, meaning I don't feel anything but horny with men while I do fall in love with women.

 

If they are there alone, chances are they are bi. I can attest to that.

 

If you're alone with him and ok with him finding out u r bi, just ask him if he has ever played with a guy.

 

When I was a pre-teen I was fascinated with nudity. Late at nite I'd sneak into the bathroom on the ground floor of my parents house and crawl out the window. Then I'd strip and jack off.

After a while I got brave and stripped in the bathroom, crawled out naked and jerked. I fantasized about getting caught.

Didnt happen thank goodness.

 

My first time was with a guy I found in a wanted ad in a newspaper. I saw his ad and responded. Unbelievably he hit me back within a few days. He called me at the office. We talked and agreed on a time and place.
When I picked him up he was a bit large, but I was so hot I didn't care. We had a couple beers, then went down the street to rent a motel room (cash).

When we got into the room we got naked. He had a small cock. I had no idea if I was big or small.
We got into the shower to clean up, and he started leaking copious amounts of precum.
I had never seen it, but I was hot as hell to suck and swallow a mans dick. This was such a BONUS!

I sucked him. He sucked me. We were hoping for anal sex, but it didnt happen. I had to leave early and we couldnt spend the nite together. I was mortified at our act anyway. Took a while to recover.

I guess I was about 40.

 

I had been curious about M2M sex since I was a teenager but never tried anything. My 2nd wife is very open about sex. We enjoy giving each other oral, though I enjoy giving oral to her more. One time when she was giving me a blowjob, she started fingering my ass. It turned me on tremendously. That eventually led to her using a dildo on me. After several months she said I should try a real cock because a real one was a lot better. It didn't take much to convince me to try it. At that time in St. Louis there was a on line paper that had a personal ad section. A found a man on there and hooked up with him. My wife is right, a real one is a lot better. When I told my wife about it she asked if I had sucked him too. I hadn't and she said I should since I was so oral. I did and found that I really enjoyed it. When he came in my mouth I swallowed all of it, after enjoying the taste. Been doing both ever since. I enjoy sex with both my wife and my friend.

 

That’s funny because I did that same thing

 

When my friend and I were somewhere between 10-12 years old we got into the 69 position and sucked each others cock… no cum but that was my first experience

 

I always wanted to explore my bisexuality. I would fantasize about men all the time. I had a 3 some with two girls one time. We talked about me wanting to explore my sexuality. A few days went by and they called me and said come over for some fun. When I got there they were waiting on me and invited another guy. We all had a 4some that night I’ve been hooked ever since. It was so amazing how it felt. We all got pleasured that night.

 

I grew up surrounded by C & E Catholic families. It was emphasized that anything sexual with like people was the worse sin and hell would be where one found themselves. Due to the false notions ingrained into me as a child I never explored any urge even though it was there to enjoy men sexually beyond admiring from afar. Being involved in athletics over the years I've been around muscular trim athletic bodies having developed one myself. It was then I believe I became attracted to the male sexually. There have been many times as I masturbated I imagine an athletic penis owner thrusting his cock in and out of my body. I have no desire for romance but when I see a man with an athletic build I admire him and do wonder what it would be like if.

 

What is their number lol!
But seriously you were blessed to have known such fun and open minded friends. You sure walked into a great situation there.

 

So sorry religion affected your ability to experience your own sexuality in a healthy and joyful way. It's true the "official" position of the Catholic Church is sex between members of the same sex is bad, but there are things that are so much worse...assuming gay sex is bad to begin with! Plus it's up to Catholics to judge people who have gay sex, or to live and let live and disregard archaic, oppressive and destructive rules made up by clueless old white men...most of whom don't follow anyways! And even if certain ones still believe it's bad, it's up to them to prioritize how bad it is compared to other things. Are two horny guys in a distant cabin in a forest doing as much damage as a murderer or even a thief for example? Let's be real.
The thing is there's no valid reason two consenting adults can't close the door and do whatever the hell they feel like doing with each other and feel good about it. Don't ever let anyone convince you otherwise. If you want to spend the night with a hunky athletic guy that's your right and no one can take that away from you...no church, no family, no government.
By the way what's a C&E Catholic family?

 

There's what religion says you cannot do and then there's the reality of what men have been doing all along and then, what consenting adults are allowed to do, so it begs the question of whether or not religion is right and that its edict should be obeyed. And, um, if you go spend the night with a hunky athletic guy, unless you tell someone that you did, who's gonna know that you did... and what the two of you were doing behind those closed doors?

 

Those are Catholics that only attend mass on Christmas and Easter.

 

Those are usually not the homophobic type.

 

They also didn’t judge me. They welcomed me into their world it as great.

 

Growing up, I'd have to say that a lot of the white guys I had sex with were Catholic and their families somewhat devout and as I was able to understand it. A couple of guys voiced the fact that having sex with another male could get them into a world of trouble - religiously and having to deal with parents - but they wanted to have sex with a guy and was happy to do so with me even though both of our religions 100% forbade it. I figured that if I figured out that what religion had to say about this wasn't the whole truth, it would have been just as easy for those guys who were Catholic, too. One guy said, after sucking me off, "The bible says I'm going to die and go to hell for this but right now? I'm in heaven! Can we do this again?"

I have asked Catholic guys that I've slept with if they went to confession and well, confess their sin and... no, they didn't and wouldn't and, honestly, I didn't blame them because I wouldn't tell my pastor about me committing this particular sin - and having fun doing it - either. And keep in mind that I wasn't an adult when I saw and understood the flaw in what religion teaches and what the Old Testament has to say about it.

 

And now we're coming to realize, not to take this thread in another direction, the Old Testament might not have even have been saying anything bad about gay sex to begin with! The big famous verse from the chapter in the Book of Leviticus, which tells us whom we're not supposed to "lay" with, apparently originally said man is not supposed to be with boy, not man. It just got creatively mistranslated over the years by homophobes.