I knew from the start of puberty that I liked bottoms. It was later that I discovered spanking magazines and it just clicked in place. Since then I have been a dedicated spanko. My wife does not share the same level of interest as she is more Dom than Sub. I have always identified as Top but recently have been thinking about receiving which I am sure my wife would be oblige.
Thanks for sharing. In my case I am always the one over her knee or spread out on the bed. From the beginning my wife made it very clear that I would NEVER spank her, just not her thing. She usually spanks me twice a month.