How Confident are you?

How do you deal with it when you feel that way?

 

I feel the same.

 

In other words like a 1.5, shes just not confident enough to make the decision herself.

 

same with you, little unconfident one

 

the jig is up...

 

Not really. If I have to give a speech I have a confidence level of 9. If I have an interview for a job? About a 5. Confidence with who I am as a person? At the moment...11. It changes.

 

I shop and demand lots of attention from John, without really "demanding" but he better pay lot of attention to me
I dont think that's a good way to deal with it at all, because it's not really dealing with anything, it's just creating distractions from MY problem. I actually was talking about that with him a day or two ago, he said I should meditate more. I think he's right, the thing is that when I feel like that and I sit down to meditate, the first that goes through my mind is everything I DONT want to be thinking about, so it makes it harder, but after that it's usually blissful.

 

I shop and need attention too. I ask everyone 'is this the best you've ever seen/tasted/read etc' I have to be the best and if I'm not I think about it all week and fixate on it and drive myself nuts.I could never meditate. I have tried and just can't stop my mind from racing.

 

not very confident at all

 

1-10.5, depending on mood, diet, climate, company etc.

 

a 4 or 5... not very good confidence at all

 

2

 

id give myself a 7

 

I have my moments of self-doubt but I'm usually around an 8.

It's not that I think I'm great.

It's just that I generally(not always) don't give a fuck what other people think.

 

That's how I feel as well.

I do think I'm less confident now though, compared to what I was in my late teens or so..

 

around 5

 

About 4 - 5