HOLY CRAP - You're what age and having sex?

Most likely he is a promiscuous lad on the cusp of puberty with active sexual fantasies that are occurring a bit too early for most people's comfort, yet he works them. I think 13 is too young for sex — legally and morally — but I, too, have heard of girls 11, 12 and 13 having sex; in this case we're just hearing of a boy doing it, rather than masturbating fantasties. Sex 'out there' is a more serious undertaking. If he should become a father by accident I wonder what will happen then?

 

lm 13 myself and started masturbating at 11 and now as your body grows you want to get into a girls pants and l have heard of girls having sex at 12 and stuff and girls are looking alot older now aswell and so am l people mistake me for 15 most times and you do want to have sex
BUT FOR FUCK SAKE WANK THE FEELING AWAY
lol and also l beleive that kids are getting raised to quick lve seen an 8 year old useing facebook WTF its for over 12
and a nine year old that talks about blow jobs and stuff its stupid and she has a ''boyfreind'' so to say and an 11 year old that has a BF that still thinks kissing is yuck but is like still and l just want to knock some sense into them becuase BF's and GF's are for relationships not for walking around and going lm lm a women and hot and sexy when ur fucking 11 and the so to say BF is 10 its like wtf

cant say stuff l did have a sixteen year old gf weird ay but l had fun

but just pissed off lm happy my liltle bros are good ones 8-9 and he still pretends and imagines doesnt try to act tough and walk around like hes all that and then l see a kid thats 10 and hes a fuck head and people want to punch him in the head and gonna be funny when some body does!!


sorry dont mean to go on but for fuck sake who agrees to wait till ur in high school?

 

i think i was 14. freshman year of highschool.

 

did anyone get what the hell futuristic was trying to get at?

 

ummm... no.

But to further the thread, I lost my virginity @ 14 to a girl I'd been crushing on in my church for about 7 years.(god i was soooo happy!!!!)
I really don't think the fact that I was so young when I lost it scarred me in any way. (but the fact that she had a toe fetish kinda did.....)

What I think really got to me was being molested by a man at the age of 4. After that I did fool around with other boys a couple years older than me(at ages 6-9) My mother sees it as being molested because they were 2-5 years older, but I never really looked at it that way.

I've identified myself as a sexual being from the age of 11 when I had my first orgasm by fucking a couch and watching late night HBO. (yea I know, gross right?) I was doin the ol one handed shake by 12, and at 13 had what I consider my first bi-sexual experience with a good friend of mine.

Now I find myself 23, happily married to a beautiful woman with two wonderful kids.

I can honestly say that I don't feel that losing my virginity at 14, or even giving/receiving oral from a guy at 13, really changed me as a person, and I don't feel like I missed out on any of my childhood.

Dos pesos, once mine, now yours. lol

 

seems that society is changing.

in my country, it should be an Asian conservative society. however, our society is opening up very fast. primary school girls can talk about sex, how to use a condom, how to use sex toys etc.

besides, my country here we have quite a number of cases where girls break their virginity before 13 (and i suspect there are more unreported cases)

 

Where is "your" country?

 

Singapore.

why ?

 

Just curious as to where your observations are coming from.

 

I see.

The society is changing at my country.
Hmm, one who live for a long period of time will be able to notice it.

 

if there's nothing wrong with sex, then why is everyone so worried? this is stupid. Your ideas of kids "being kids" and "not adults" is stupid. If you're at the age where you want to have sex, what's the problem? This is the kind of thing that gives people shitty sex lives. No more guilt, please. Let the kids grow up as they will. Don't pressure people to have sex, don't pressure people to not have sex. Pressure like that doesn't work and just fucks up the developing minds of these people. Creating a guilt complex over something as natural and beautiful as sex is not only stupid, it's even prevalent apparently in alternative thinking people... my mind is blown....

 

I believe there is a period of time in a childs life when he or she needs to be a kid and not a sexual creature. Just because someone's pecker gets stiff does not mean the are ready for something "as natural and beautiful as sex". It means their pecker gets hard. I could drive when I was 8 - was I ready to drive? Not mature enough to do it without hurting people. Could I drink booze when I was 8 - you betcha -not mature enough though.

Humans, just like all other creatures, have stages of development - sometimes enforced by others. Sex is serious shit. It involves people's lives. People are hurt and sometimes die over sex - particular if the person is totally unprepared. And watching two guys have anal sex on the web does not qualify as being prepared.

Know what causes pre-teen to have babies? Know what causes aides? They're some people besides 8 year olds that need to grow up too.

 

+ rep

 

sex is not the loss of innocence.

 

watch Kids, the larry clarke/harmony korine film.. and that came out '96!


by the way i was thirteen the first time i went all the way.


once you reach puberty it is natural to want to have sex.


as long as nobody is getting pregnant or std's i think its healthy..


healthier than porn.

 

I think Kids works against your point =P

It's basically a horror movie for young sex/drug use.

 

Im 15 never had sex, ( came close ) and i know a girl who is 12, i mean just turned 12, and has already had sex with i dunno how many people.

Personally i wouldn't want to have sex with a girl who has had more dicks stuck in her than a porcupine has needles sticking out of it, I can get into a long explanation as to why, but id rather not.


I kinda go with the flow, im not gonna drive towards sex, but if it presents itself If i think i can and or ready to do it, then i will.

But i still worry over how the hell im gonna prevent getting a girl pregnant... Not comfortable with "Just pull out". Heh.

Really i need to work up the nerve to buy condoms, so im prepared.

reminds me of a saying/joke my dad tells me alot.

"A man came home after a hard days work and that night made love to his wife, awhile after they were done his wife reached over and smacked him and he said "What the hell was that for?" and she said "Thats for being a lousy lover." he thought about that for a few minutes then he reached over and smacked her and she said "What did i do?" and he said "Thats for knowing the difference.""

Shit now im dumping my thought process on here.


But really people having tons of sex before they get married ( IF they get married that is ) Can create problems down the road.

Or so im told, dad tells me stuff like this all the time, i guess hes preparing me for the future.

But really i give a shit about right now is getting my Temps, then my drivers lisence. Then i can go out when i want to. Maybe get a big bag of weed, pick up my friend, and hot box the car on 4/20 all day.

Okay i need to stop thinking on my keyboard, sorry, im done.

 

I just love reading unfettered teen thought processes. Used to enjoy talking to my grandson when he was your age. (still enjoy it now that he's 18 but it's more adult conversation now) And if your lucky, six decades later you will have the same thoughts that skip around the universe in moments - but I digress.

There are some things here you pointed out that I'd like to comment. First off, you have some naive notions. That is not bad - it is the way it should be for a 15-year-old.

You will learn that a girl or woman who has had multiple sex partners is a good thing. I have never encountered a virgin in my life, and glad that some other guy took care of that possibly unpleasant task for me. I have always had experienced women of some degree or another. The one I was married to for a couple decades had many guys. In fact her bed wasn't even cold when we hooked up - I had to ship the other guys stuff to him. So, never had a problem with women who had a lot of sexual experience.

As for what your dad is telling you, well, he's a dad looking out for your best interest (and his since he has to field the irate parents of a girl you knock up).

For the topic of this thread, perhaps an indicator of when a guy is ready for sex is when he can walk into a pharmacy, peruse the multitude of condoms available and if he has any questions can ask the store attendant, whether male or female and make a legitimate purchase. (NO, not everyone needs Magnums - they'll just slide off and defeat their purpose.)

And, don't be comfortable with "just pull out." It doesn't work. Young girls have become pregnant from a guy shooting off on the outside of their vulva. New life just really wants to happen.

Take Care, Have Fun,
Grampa

 

I believe that children shouldn't be treated like children. I'm not saying they should be treated like adults, but to raise a child as a child leads to an adult that has been raised to be a child. I'm not saying to kill a child's innocence, but like onelove said, sex is no the loss of innocence. That's a bizarre idea put forth by a fucked up interpretation of the story of adam and eve and the catholic church. Let me introduce you to evolution. For millions of years we evolved our reproduction system to this point. Let me say that I don't believe people should be encouraged to have sex at a younger age just as much as I believe they should be discouraged. Like I said, the way we raise a child is the way a child is raised. Now, drinking does have, for some of us, a few thousand years of evolution behind it, though driving does not. Neither of these have enough evolutionary history to equate to our reproductive system. To equate them is to ignore my entire point. Now tell me, if sex at that young of an age in a natural environment led to such violences as are talked about, would it have continued? would we as a society have allowed it to continue? Now, things not being this way, tell me, is that the reason why? We have a very strange view of sex in our culture, and a large part of it is the taboo<>rebelious versus battle. Some people tell us it's dirty, some people call people sluts, some people revel and bathe in it, but overall, there remains a bit of most of us (those who aren't "sexually liberated") that sees and thinks about sex as dirty/wrong. This leads to a huge host of sexual problems including guilt complexes over ones sexual desires, fear of being known to masturbate, or embarassment of such, embarassment of researching sexual issues, ignorance of sexual issues in general, repression and repercussions of sexuality, and alot of time wasted in general over something we could be comfortable with. Now think about it, what do kids at this age you talk about having sex at in such an uncomfortable way, with thoughts of disgust, do more then almost anything in terms of their attitudes? It's called rebelion. Now think about it. You tell kids it's wrong to have sex at such a young age, you tell them they're too young to be doing this thing their bodies are so convinced they should be doing, how do you think they're going to react? Now those kids tend to push it further then is natural at times because of the thrill of this rebellion. The other kids see this and become disgusted and the whole cycle is reinforced. We grow up, and we tell our children to not be like those kids, and inevitably some will due to rebellion, and others will be disgusted.

I will share with you one very small story about myself to reinforce the point. When I was younger I had an introduction to sex long before I was naturally curious about it because a friend had found his father's porn collection. I couldn't even get an erection at this point, but i really enjoyed knowing how taboo it was and doing it anyhow, seeing naked people that i'd never been allowed to see before. Eventually though, you get to the age of being able to masturbate, and that I did. I knew it (sex) was something girls my age would never do, so I never even tried. I did however masturbate once I knew how to. I was taught by my parents that masturbation wasn't a bad thing, but of course in the school yard it's very different. I told my one friend before I even knew how to that I masturbated after watching an after school special where a girl confessed to it and was teased. I thought I was very brave. It did, however, turn on me, and my friend did tease me too. This was the consensus in the schoolyard. Masturbation was disgusting. So growing up, masturbation was for me something I did alone without letting anyone find out. I even was so afraid of my parents finding out that I taught myself to not pant when I did. Now, after many years, I can't help but subconsciously hold my breath when I masturbate and probably when I have sex too. It makes me think; how many braincells have I killed like that? How would my life be different if not for that very small thing. Sometimes there's nothing you can do for your own life, but I wonder how much more fucked up it is for other people. My parents told me it was alright.

 

I know there are girls and boys as young as 10 having sex. It's fucking insane. I didn't even think about sex until I was around 16.