HOLY CRAP - You're what age and having sex?

I saw a boob once when I was 13, nipple and everything.

 

I'm pretty surprised to find out how many of the 13 and 14 year old freshman at my school have already not only had sex, but had sex with many different people. Seriously.

 

In my day, that's all that was available at 13 and that required sneaking into an older brother's Playboy stash which didn't even show pubic hair.

I was only having sex with my hand until I was 18 and besides hidden Playboy mags, I got hold of some body building muscle books, which were the legal way to satisfy homo boys JO fantasies. Buff guys posing in G-strings that were pushed out with a boner. Yeah, just showing off their muscles.

You kids today are a bunch of depraved sex feinds.

(Of course I'm jealous )

 

Prom night is when i lost it and it was odd too because it wasnt even my date...Needless to say i havent had much sucess....Viva la Virginias! Lol

 

Back in the 70s, I knew some kids who started having sex at puberty. They were the exception, but it did happen.

I can't agree with that.

 

:nopity:Hahaha - Same here - except I could get a boner either way - male of female. I finally stuck with females cause it's not as much hastle and easier to have kids.

I really don't know if I was even dreaming of sex at 13 - I'm not real sure me and my 5 fingered girlfriend had even met yet.

Thinking back - I don't think I knew any kids in high school that even had facial hair - now they're everywhere. Something in the water or food chain I guess.

 

A lot of ppl have pretty much called me a prude, or told me to get over it, but when they have sex at 13 or even younger, they have one hell of a record by the time they get to about 17.

To me that's just...wrong.

I always say to get to know your own body first, before you decide to go and, ahem, discover someone elses. At that age they still have no clue what's happening to them.

L_S

 

Exactly! By the time people are 18 (my age) they've probably had more sex than I've ever thought of. But damn.

 

Too young in my view, even if safe sex is being practised. Childhood ends too soon.

 

Its because of all the processed foods and hormones from our food. This generation is the worst so kids are going to start having sex when they're 8 soon enough.

 

13 sounds really young, it was an age of uncertainty and I didn't really know who I was. First time for me was in the early 15s.

 

I can answer that, though I have no doubt that Shale will answer it himself in due time .

Yes, Shale identifies as Bisexual.

L_S

 

As, I imagine, the trauma from the Vietnam war caused five year olds to play doctor, and become pedophiles in their fifties?

I don't think it can be blamed on foods, if anything it should be blamed on society and the pressure placed on children to "sex up" at a younger age.

Sex is no longer something whispered on the playground, but something that is openly shown everywhere.

L_S

 

Who is pressuring that group? They only compete with each other.

Hormones are what they are. Europeans accept reality in this matter; Americans (most of us) don't.

 

Such a simple question. The answer not so.

Yes, I have identified as bi since the late 60s. I have had sex with almost an equal number of men or women over a lifetime.

But as I have aged, I seem to get more of a gut-level reaction from young men than I do from young women. All my porn that I get off to is cute guys. So, for all practical purposes I am gay - but I leave it at bi to accommodate a 20 year marriage with screaming sex that I had with Brenda.

 

Kids having sex at 13 certainly isn't a recent thing, and I don't really know what to say about "too young" in that case (most are too young, but probably for some it's not), but - I'm not sure how to express this - "sexy" is something that's being thrust on children at a younger and younger age. I think that's more damaging.

13-year-olds are certainly horny enough, at least! Whether they're emotionally ready depends on the individual. Most 13-year-olds aren't comfortable enough with their own body or their person to be so.

 

There were kids from elementary school grades somewhwhere in middle America and they were caught on tape having oral sex and more this was happening daily on the bus on the way to school. Actually in Scotland they are trying to promote oral sex to kids to try and cut down on teen pregnancies. It's crazy how sexual kids are now compared to only 8 - 10 years ago. I think the internet is a wild and wonderful thing but I can't even begin to think what young kids get to see for themselves on there, these days. When I was young we were lucky to find an old playboy mag or something.

 

ya i grew up with a lot of people who had sex at about 14-15 me and my friends didn't get laid until we turned 18 tho. shy druggies don't get laid haha. but i always thought it was way to early to be having sex in middle school\first 2 yrs of high school.

 

I lost my virginity at 17 and I used to get made fun of for "still being a virgin at 17"

 

Don't get me wrong, I'm not a old fart who is against kids having sex - but 14 or 15 is different than 12 or 13. I mean, really, they should be out making tree houses and stuff.