I think you should let the kid do whatever he wants. unless he thinks its all about the look and clothes.... then you should say something. age has nothing to do with it. I grew up like this, i mean my dad and mom mostly my dad influenced me and taught me to love not fight, the beauty of nature. just let him do it. make himself look like a fool if he truly isnt this. maybe he is just trying to find who he is and what he most comfortable in. next year he may be a punk or prep hwo only wears abercrombie, who knows. peace