Its not that he doesnt try but it comes off as almost comical to me. I think it has to do with the fact that he is the first descent guy I have ever been in a relationship with, I am used to abusive relationships(well the two other relationships I have had in my life were that way). So when my ex would be rough, I believed that shit, lol. But when my husband tries now, he comes off like simba with the small growl. Its not that bothersome to me and I do like the slow love making. It isnt all slow and gentle all the time, but its not scary exciting....ever. I guess sometimes I crave being dominated and dont get that from him because I am older (by 3 years, which I am not used to) and I am more experienced so I tend to make the decisions(we make them together, I dont know how to explain it, he brings home the bacon, I do everything else, if you get my drift) so in bed when he tries to be "bossy" or rough it is just a little funny cuz I know he is a super nice guy and would never be rough with me in any way and its hard to pretend that he would be.
Okay, I will make a confession. I am 30 and to this point, I have had absolutely atrocious luck with women. My numbers are horrifically bad. I have basically given up all hope of bagging girls the normal way and have committed myself to saving up money for hookers.
MarleyMoon, how long have you been together? I don't know...maybe its good that you can't believe he'd be bossy to you, and maybe you just have to use your imagination more and that would help him let loose a little bit more. It's never going to be as wild as an abusive relationship though...in that respect you're lucky you know...even if it did turn you on. 3some4life... I don't really think 30 is that old, you still have plenty of time...what do you think is holding you back? As for me...I'm battling raging hormones again, but in actuality I'm so picky I don't think I could ever do anything about it. I've attached to certain numbers I have and I only have 3 more slots left so I'm very careful about adding anyone else to my list.
My confession...I am strongly attracted to good looking bald men (like Pittbull) and asian guys. (but am attracted to all sorts of guys, it's not limited to that) I also LOVE when a guy dresses nice -- especially when a guy has to go to work in a shirt and tie, so attractive. I love when a man smells good and carries himself with self confidence. ...and I'm super horny
You can never tell who is going to last and who only visits one time then disapears but you seem to fit in from the handful of posts I saw of yours so far. Oh thats not a confession so let me say 'i should be working now but instead im sitting here on my phone talking to you guys while watching everyone else work.
My confession is that I'm going to poke my own eyes out because I'm stuck with an image of pensfan with a Samsung up his ass......
I actually love walking around and doing stuff naked...obviously I can't do it often because I do adhere to societal norms...but i really wish more of the world was nudist...
Sometimes when i go out for a jog I'll get the feeling that a car is following me... then when I turn down a quiet street a van pulls up next to me...