HELP! things to tell someone who wants your whoohoo and you don't want their penis

I think you're being very arrogant to assume that if a woman dresses a certain way it is to be a tease, degredate her body, or treat sex as a toy. furthermore, your prievious statement about women clinging to a myth that there is one good man and the rest are users is likewise arrogant and offensive.

don't you presume to lecture me about women's thoughts and motivations. i happen to be a woman.

I think you're being very arrogant to assume that if a woman dresses a certain way it is to be a tease, degredate her body, or treat sex as a toy. furthermore, your prievious statement about women clinging to a myth that there is one good man and the rest are users is likewise arrogant and offensive.

don't you presume to lecture me about women's thoughts and motivations. i happen to be a woman. what's your claim to authority on female thought? on what basis do you claim to have better knowledge or the workings of the feminine mind than women?

might i remind you that the OP's original concern was simply that she was being pressured for sex and for some reason felt like she had to come up with some kind of explanation or an excuse. no where at all did she suggest or imply that she was dressing provacatively, dry humping or intentionally trying to be a tease. that groundless accusation is nothing more than your arrogant and self-centered projection.

 

The OP actually did refer to dry-humping.


If dressing a particular way had nothing to do with getting attention, hippychickmommy, then women would dress in high heels, and uncomfortable constricting fancy clothes at home. But they don't do that. They do it to go out.

Believe me, I knew exactly what I was getting myself into when I got into this argument. I've been there many times before.

Women have lost all capacity of self-criticism. You all will go on and on with the juvenile impulse of denying the obvious: cockteasing exists! (Though I'll agree it's not solely tied to a particular style of clothing).

I'm arrogant, I'm this, I should move to a Muslim country, I'm a fascist, they would never want to date a guy like me (let me start crying), I can dress anyway I want (which I never denied), men don't have the right to rape (which I never denied), they are doing it for themselves (yeah right), because they are hot (Uhu), what should we do cover ourselves from head to toe (which I never implied: my way women would go naked), and maybe this, maybe that, perhaps this, perhaps all her other clothes were in the laundry, etc. ad nauseum.

God save the Queen!

 

and you know what we wear at home, of course. or what we may wear when we masturbate. uh huh. yep, of course you do. you cant posit about what women do in the comfort of their own home, when they are alone, as you are not there

and of course there are cockteases out there. but dressing in a low cut shirt is not being a cocktease, deciding they are not interested in you is not being a cocktease, behaving as they feel comfortable with is (the vast majority of the time) not being a cocktease

 

If you say it nicely, and they still don't get the hint and are rude... fuck their feelings anyway.... if your not looking for that or whatever and they go on... just yell "ok, I just thought you looked like you had something I didn't want to catch, good night".

 

apparently little buddy gets his jimmies bouncin everytime he sees half a boob. You can't say that dressing in a low cut shirt is not being a cocktease, because it obviously teases his cock. However, it shouldn't be and if he lets a lil cleavage tease his cock than thats a problem he's just gonna have to deal with.

 

Don't you even dare show any part of your anatomy you cockteaser you! *chants* We're all out to get you, we're all out to give you blue balls and leave you unsatified, we are are evil, evil, evil! Mwuahahaha!

 

How does not wanting to have sex make you a ****? Now, if you called the guy up on the phone and said "Get over to my house because I'm going to fuck you until your dick falls off" and then left him with blue balls.. That might be a little harsh..

But everything I've read here tells me that you are either not ready or not interested in having that kind of relationship at this point. If he has a problem with having no sex with you - then this guy has a whole other list of issues, and you need to drop him.

In the jungle, it is the female of the species who decides if there is going to be any lovin', and it ultimately is that way in the human zoo. You are under no obligation to give him blowjobs, rimjobs, handjobs any jobs... involving any part of your body.

Of course he wants to have sex with you. You're hot. Guys love to have sex with hot girls.

Just tell him that this is what he gets right now.. And if he has a problem, he can wax his carrot or take a cold shower. But sex is out.

Don't worry about sounding like a ****. If saying no makes you a ****.. Then he is not worthy of your company.

 

well, this is extremely funny, especially if one considers that YOU dont have blue balls and never will, so its great that you tell other people that beeing teased and left unsatisfied is just a joke !!!!!

 

Penny, just say

then smack him on the nose with a news paper

 

Hahaha...they call it whoohoo on the Sims.

 

If I can close this thread, I will, because it's going nowhere... and I got help, thank you for those who gave me either funny or serious, constructive answers.