When I walk around my city centre I see many ugly people holding hands with other ugly people - I presume they are dating. When I walk around my city centre I see many ugly people holding hands with quite attractive people - I presume they are dating. I have seen TV shows where people have deformed faces that are dating people who see through any superficiality and see the person inside. It seems most people see the person inside and it does not matter if you are ugly or not. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder etc etc etc. It's probably more to do with your personality than your looks that you are not dating. Perhaps improve who you are rather than worry what you look like. However, even people with ugly personalities seem to be able to date, too. I have no idea what your issue is. Probably a lack of confidence. I'm a reasonably good looking person and am not dating. I can't be bothered, to be honest.