Have you cheated?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by lakeoffire, Apr 17, 2010.

  1. Captain Cannabis

    Captain Cannabis Banned

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    I have a deal worked out with my girlfriend that allows me to have sex with 3 women besides her before I die.

    She also gets 3 women since she is Bi.... And for the obvious reasons that I'm a hypocritical asshole.
     
  2. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    Did you see that season of Curb Your Enthusiasm - they agreed that for his 25th anniversary present he could sleep with another woman when they were dating, and she was pissed when he brought it up, but she folded, and so the whole season he was trying to get laid :afro:
     
  3. JustCallMeSeb

    JustCallMeSeb Member

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    Lol.

    I've NEVER cheated and would never. I think it's not a nice thing to do. Whilst you could endlessly debate the morality of cheating, and bring up questions of is flirting cheating, I think it's in your heart. You know if you are cheating or behaving inappropriately and if you love someone why would you want to hurt them.
     
  4. la Principessa

    la Principessa Member since '08

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    If you cheat, you're not happy with the person you're cheating on. It's true because with my ex, he didn't satisfy me mentally, emotionally, or physically. Technically I cheated but we were kind of on the outs at the time. I did feel bad though. I see what Duck said a bunch of pages back about cheating in spirit. I even thought of cheating before and after the one time and I flirted with other guys too. I don't feel as bad now because he never cared for me anyway. We got engaged and I caught him two-timing me. He deceived me completely. I know I'm happy with my boyfriend now because since we fell in love I haven't had a desire to flirt with other guys or even really look at them in a sexual or romantic way. I love my man and we're committed.
     
  5. la Principessa

    la Principessa Member since '08

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    That was hilarious. He never got pussy anyway. Mainly because he's an idiot. lol Cheryl is the only one who would put up with him.
     
  6. OptimisticFutureBlues

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    I have never cheated, but I was cheated on 2 years ago. I didn't find out until 3 months after it happened. Which means I was getting sloppy seconds every night for all I know, and completely un-aware of it. Put on those fuckin' shoes and walk around a bit. Take a long stroll.

    Her reasoning? I was playing x-box once a night, and I didn't want to have sex too much when I came home from work because I was tired. My legs hurt and being beaten down by an asshole of a boss will do that too you. She actually wanted me to believe it was my fault. She said she was searching for a job everyday, but it never happened. She was just at MY HOUSE screwing someone else. Because I was the only one of us who was actually working for it and paying EVERY SINGLE PENNY towards it. Well that and the endless stream of tobacco needed to keep me going.

    It ruined me emotionally. I have a very hard time trusting women now. Any woman who cheats, I don't give a single fuck what the reason is. You break up with him first. I now have clinical depression, I cant sleep too well, the anxiety has caused hemorrhoids to recur and worsen, I have to wear make up under my eyes because I never sleep anymore and the bags make me look like I'm on meth. I cant drink alcohol anymore because my doctor wont let me and women no longer seem to take much interest. I'm 19 years old.

    You people have no idea, how this effects some people. I'm ruined, I don't know for how long. But I'm definitely down and out for a long time. All thanks to her.
     
  7. la Principessa

    la Principessa Member since '08

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    :( poor thing. things will get better.
     
  8. OptimisticFutureBlues

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    It just makes you wonder how they get on with themselves. Thinking about anything sexual, if I'm not in the right mood makes me sick to my stomach. Why must it be this way
     
  9. lovelyxmalia

    lovelyxmalia Banana Hammock Lifetime Supporter

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    I've cheated. I'm not proud of it, but what's done is done
     
  10. OptimisticFutureBlues

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    ^ The sad truth. I need a bowl, a perk and a big glass of orange juice. I'm gonna smile tonight.
     
  11. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    i've neither cheated nor necroposted.
     
  12. lost1975

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    I really think i can honestly say that i would not cheat..i have only been in one relationship and it was with a woman that was living with another. They have been together about 15 years..as good as married and she cheated on her lover to be with me. I feel bad in the long run...because i didn't think i would ever be in a relationship like that but i never thought i'd be with a woman that hot..either. lol I still feel bad tho...deep down....like a homewrecker...but they are still together...and i am in here typing..so we see who really won lol.
     

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