I wonder if: A) Hipforumers cheat less than average (really wouldn't believe that) B) Hipforumers lie more than average C) cheaters avoided this thread D) sample size caused discrepancy Cause usually polls show about 50% of people cheating.
I only did once. I dated this asshole for about a year and a half. We were at the point were I knew I was done with him but we were on and off anyway. I guess you can say I was mercy dating him. He pretty much made me lose all my friends so I only had him. So I was weening myself off of him and just hanging out with my friends again. So, I went to this concert without him (he hated my type of music) At the concert they had this cute boy with blue hair. We ended up talking for awhile and I ended up kissing him several time through out the day. Even though my ex was a prick I still felt pretty bad. =/
Nope. I am loyal. It's just the way I am, and I expect the same from her. Which might explain why I've been without a GF since 2004....
ya, i had been seeing a guy for 3 months at the time (together now for over a year now) at that time i sloppily made out with a stranger in vegas. I feel bad but never told him. I was good ever since and we're in love now. i don't feel great about it but I try to believe that some little things can just be forgotten
I have to correct myself. I don't cheat and I won't. I did a few times and the end result is a son I never met and the others got divorces. Sad thing is if you're a guy and you have an affair with a married woman, not long after you two start doing it, you soon realize why she's not happy with her husband. The one that had my son, her husband worked out of town. And when he was back he usually beat her. I have respect for her. I understand why she stayed with him. He made more than I did. And she was terrfied of him. Another was similar, but she was "fixed" so no kids. She enjoyed spending time with me because it wasn't always sex and I always treated her with respect. Those are the only two worth anything. The others, their husbands knew of me but didn't care because they had their own women. It's pretty bad when you have this overweight receptionist that talks about all this stuff she likes to do in bed, but when you get there she is active as a sloth. A sack of rotten taters is more fun. They just, well, lay there. They do NOTHING. I tried teaching them and only one learned anything (at least she was able to semi-satisfy her husband). I met the husband of my last one in a store, and he thought it was funny. "Some prize you found!", laughing. And yes, she was THE worst. "You want me to do WHAT?!?!" "I'm not going to stick THAT in MY mouth Mister!" You want to do what to me?!?!?!" "Isn't that illegal?!?!?!" "You are SO gross!" And my over all favorite (something my ex-wife repeated a few years later)- "You mean they let the mountain lions and bears come in the campgrounds?" (second favorite was "I'm not going to sit my naked ass on he picnic table! Gawd knows who was there last!") Now, I'm a changed man. Women- can't live with them, THANK GAWD!
After my experiences, I have not done anything like that since 1996. I decided to led my life in a better way. For the record, I do not know you, I do not know your wife/girlfirned, and I have not met either of you. And that includes that I have never had an affair with her either. :afro:
Yes, because I am bisexual and need both kinds. My girlfriend cannot satisfy my need for cock, so I cheat to satisfy my needs.