Have any men cheated on their wives with another man? How did you feel?

I am also interested in sucking another man’s cock only as a sex act no gay stuff. Since my recent marriage the urge would have to be very strong because my current wife treats me so well I would be dum to upset the apple cart. Only in the last three years have I been thinking more and more what it would feel like to have another man’s cock in my mouth. I think I could only do it if she approved it. I could not go behind her back.

 

I remember one time I was 12-13 sleeping out in a tent with the neighbor boy. It was about midnight as I remember he got his cock out and started playing with it. He encouraged me to try it so I did and before I knew what was happening we were stroking each others cock to s finish.

 

I have not been with a guy in decades. Late in high school through early college me and my next-door neighbor friend became SBs He was the first person I had physical sex with. it went on for a couple of years, and then I discovered women. I didn’t really think about trying it again….. until one night when my current wife and I were first together and she flat out asked me if I had ever been with a guy. I somewhat reluctantly told her yes, but it has been a long time ago. to say she was surprised would be an understatement. But after time the idea seem to grow on her, to the point that we started watching MMF born together, it always got us worked up. Fast-forward into our sexual hay days…. we had had a few.MFMs, pegging, etc and it was her that suggested finding a bi guy for a MMF. we looked together for a while, but never found an acceptable candidate. we have been sexless for a few years…. not my idea. The longer this drags out, the more I think about what it would be like to find a like-minded married guy in my situation.

 

I've had sex with 2 men but it's been with my wife's knowledge and encouragement so I don't count it as cheating. I still have sex with her and enjoy both.

 

Hello I am 75 and married to the most wonderful person possible. I would not trade her for anything. We still have sex once a week, but lately I have been thing more and more about sucking a man’s cock. I would NEVER do that without her knowledge. That’s the problem I don’t think she would take it well at all. Trying to figure this out without damaging my marriage. DM me if you have any advice, thanks.

 

Wish I had the answer. It's a big fantasy to have my wife watch me

 

You mean for your wife to watch you suck a man’s cock. Yes that would be fantasy as well.

 

We are having company for dinner can’t chat now maybe tomorrow if you like

 

I guess I go back to defining "cheating". Years ago, during the Clinton scandal, my wife told me that she didn't consider a blow job or a hand job or any kind of sexual fun cheating EXCEPT fucking. So, for her it's just not cheating. Maybe a little too promiscuous for some but not cheating. I know other people who have far more stricter perspectives. And for me, sucking a cock or licking a pussy isn't cheating. It's part of what makes us all who we are. I don't think we can really change that even if we resist it forever.

 

Thanks for the reply. I would say that I am somewhere in the middle between your wife’s definition and others who are more strict about how they define sexual relations. I think that a sexual act between two consenting adults and then when it’s over, it’s over nothing more. Now if you’re talking about meeting up once a week for a long period of time then that’s different. Just my two cents worth.

 

It's another part of social stigma and religion that controls how we live our lives. Most people are more comfortable sinning against their religion than ever breaking societies rules. So lies guilt, lies and excuses to make it all OK. We are animals by nature, sex is fun, satisfying and exciting in order to continue life. So why must we limit ourselves. I believe friends with benefits are a great idea. Why can't we get along socially and sexually? Im jot saying a sexual free for all. But if your comfortable with one another, why not?

 

Well said my friend. The only difference for me is a society without rules is a society in chaos. Nothing wrong with FWB especially for seniors who also enjoy sex.

 

It is interesting to see how people define cheating. Some for religious reasons, other for societal pressures. For me personally, if I were to go out and look for a cock to suck (haven't done that in 40 years) and I went back home to my wife and she knew nothing about it, in my mind I cheated on her. Same as if my wife went out and sucked another man's cock or eat another womans pussy. It would be cheating. The only difference is that she would be really upset with me, and I think I would tend to lean towards really turned on (especially if it was with another woman). Others here might disagree. But that's why we have chatted on this, and she knows my background. So, I told her she has a standing offer for whenever she wants to and is ready, we can have sex with someone else, it just has to be with both of us there. Now truthfully that is me saying that to her. She agreed, most likely because in her mind she knows she will never go for it. And that I would never go out of the marriage without either her participation, or her truthful consent.