Hand Jobs

I think that the mistake some girls make is to just jerk their guy off as fast as they can, thinking that this is what he wants. If he's doing it for himself, that may be the case, but a good hj, skillfully done by a partner, can be fabulous.

Personally, I think you need to start slowly, just stroking his cock until it's really hard. Don't get a grip on it to begin with, just brush your fingers along it and stroke his balls. If you use a really light touch, his dick may well jerk around as you stroke it. Try running your fingertips over the head and see how he reacts. This drives me absolutely nuts. I also like my wife to lightely run her nails over my balls, particularly around the sides.

Once he's really hard, you can try getting a grip and going a little faster, but you can stop and vary the stroke, or go back over his balls from time to time. If you kneel beside him you can wank him with one hand while stroking his balls with the other. Some guys really get off by being wanked really slowly, with long slow strokes. You can try the twist, or other thinks like stroking the head with your palm.

And don't forget lube. Either buy some proper lube, or let some saliva dribble from your mouth over his cock. If he can watch you do that it will probably be a real turn on for him.

Once you're giving him a good jerk, try slowing down if you feel he's about to blow. Or if he asks you to go faster, try just keeping going at a slow speed as this may well drive him crazy too, and he'll shoot a really big load.

 

i have notcied guys are really picky when u give them hand jobs becasue they liek it the way they do it when ther masturbating y know? btu giving him head on the other hand..u can hve so much more fun with that..!! trust me

 

HJs are totally awesome, like someone else said before, the feeling of a girl doing it for you, touching your body, ahhh man, such a great feeling, fucking will get boring too, it's not about focusing on one thing, it's about mixing every feelings and enjoy it the better

 

HJ's can be great, you just gotta have a little TLC when you do them.

 

Try wrapping his dick with sandpaper.

 

Yeah, that or barbed wire.

 

If you incorporate a titty job with it, it makes it more exciting. I wish I had bigger boobs but it still works!

 

Mia you dont need anything hon.. you are SMOKIN HOT...

I wish you would post some semi-nudes of that torso of yours...

Cover up whatever you deem unfit for the rest of us to see, but show the world that amazing body!! If I weren't already engaged I would ask you!

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AMEN brother!

I'm glad you typed all that, now I don't have to. As I was reading this thread, I was thinking exactly what you said.

I love getting hand jobs. If done right, they ROCK.

Like what was said above, vary the speed. Guys tend to do it fast, but when a girl does it agonizingly slow, it feels amazing. But before you do, tease a little bit. Stroke his stomach gently with your nails, getting closer and closer to his cock. Continue down past the waistband of his underwear. But don't touch it just yet. Keep that up for a little bit, and he'll be DYING for you to touch him. (When girls do this to me I'm screaming in my head for them to touch me) Before you actually grab him, touch him a bit through his underwear. Maybe even run your tongue over it through the underwear. Also run your nails gently around his balls and on the inside of his thighs.

When you think you've teased him enough, make a show out of pulling out his cock. Gently stroke it, and even blow a hot breath on it if you're close enough. And act like you enjoy it. Look up at him with a look on your face that says there's nothing in this world that you'd rather be doing than jerking him off.

And LOT of lube or saliva, never do it dry. That just hurts.

And vary the position. Maybe kneel down in front of him, or sit behind him and reach your arms around him to do it. Also try doing it topless, maybe rub your boobs against him. When he's ready to finish, lean over him and let him cum on your chest or stomach.

 

handjobs were about all i could get- if anything. she was usually kinda selfish. near the end (before we gave up physical contact) there was a titfuck and when she got up on top of me and masturbated me with her pussy. that was pretty awesome.

but yeah,
about handjobs. i guess im still new to everything so i dont really know. my girlfriend never really experimented the few times she did it.

 

That's all good advice. If you feel comfortable with it, you could also verbally encourage him to the moment of climax with a little dirty talk.

If you want a good handjob lube try Eros Bodyglide. It's silky smooth and never dries out.

 

Ok, first off hand jobs are great. The feeling of my wifes soft touch on my cock is great. And for me the sensation of cumming from a hand job is completely different from a blow job or intercourse. They are all completely different sensations I love them all.
Now for the girls that have said they don't like to do the HJ because they can't do it as good as he can do himself this is completely untrue. The sensation of her hand on me drives me wild, it is so soft and sensuous. And when I do cum for her I lose control of myself. As for when I jerk off myself, it really is just kinda something I do, It is a release but no where near what I would call an orgasm.
Now for technique, there are 2 things my wife does that really make my head spin. Number 1 using one hand at a time she repetatively runs here hand from the base of my cock to the head real quick like only touching the top(that is the part of my dick closest to my belly). Number 2 she holds the base of my cock tight with 1 hand while she uses her other hand to run a circular motion around around my head with her palm. Both of these techniques really make my head spin. It is the kind of sensation where if I close my eyes and dont watch its kinda like I cant even tell what she is doing. Its like what is she doing down there but whatever it is it is amazing.

 

Yeah, ask him what he likes. He may love your handjobs. If you're both board, move on to something else. There's only so many ways to stroke a straight pole, its not like with us when we have different things and directions we can go to.

 

Use Iceyhot gel.

 

mabye trying to move onto the next step..like...having sex...