While I love giving blow jobs, don't dismiss a good hand job! Use oil and make it much more of an edging cock massage. This is one of my favorite things to do to another guy.
Even HOTTER is when your jackoff bud is married, and you blast a hot, thick, load of man-sperm that oozes all over his wedding band.........HOT AS HELL!
I have never given or received a hand job from another dude. The only times I’ve Had another guys hard cock in my hand was with my SB While guiding him into my mouth. Of course he did the same with me. That went on for a couple of years, but that was decades ago. I figure if I’m going to get a hand job, no one has it better than me. JMHO.
Just last week I was with a friend and we were stroking and sucking each others hard cocks. He fucked me for a while and I have a wonder prostate orgasm. I took the condom off his cock and sucked him some more, I then lubed his cock up real good and jacked him vigorously until he started to spurt. The first shot landed on his chest and I caught the next several in my mouth. I kept slowly stroking his shaft while slowly licking the little bit of cum that still oozed from him. I continued to lightly suck his cock head keeping him on that edge of just enough stimulation to keep him on that pinnacle of pleasure. His body jerked and writhed as I did. I knew that between my hand and mouth I could keep him there for a while. My experience is that the best blowjobs are with a combination of handjob and blowjob.