Halp. I can't get attracted to women.

Think we've hijacked Util's thread LOL
tried to pm u , but I cant because I lost my old password and the new name doesnt allow it.

 

it was dying anyway. just think of it as holding it's place until more people show up to post on this fascinating topic.

 

LOL

 

I'm not sure what you mean by ladettes. Teenagers act like ladettes, not girlish and they don't look better than young women. Young women act like ladettes except everything is serious business to them and you have to act to within a T in order to keep them interested. It's like they want you on a leash and if you slacken then suddenly you're the most annoying creep in existence and they want nothing to do with you. Mundane things like I once jokingly said "sorry I have no social skills" to break an awkward silence and instead of taking it like a joke she took it seriously and just walked away.

In the period between 17 and 21 the females begin to take everything too seriously and their personalities become unnattractive while at the same time their bodies curve up and become more attractive.

 

To me ladette mens "like a guy , drinking a lot , loud , pushy etc"
right sounds like u need to brush up communication skills.
A 19 year old wont giggle like a 16 year old will.THeyre just looking for more in conversation and stuff.U might wanna get a book on understanding / attracting the right type of women.So its all easy to solve.Keep meeting them ( even as friends ) and soon youll understand them more.
Good luck

 

she took it seriously? sounds like you're lucky she walked away.

 

LOL! ........ interesting post.... yes, it is quite interesting... lol.

 

"she took it seriously? sounds like you're lucky she walked away."
Well if 99% of women are like this and those that aren't are likely taken then I'm pretty much ****ed. Even if I flash loads of money around there is a chance someone I get attached to was putting on a face, being all artificial and isn't the top 1% I thought she was.

"To me ladette mens "like a guy , drinking a lot , loud , pushy etc""
I don't mind loud and pushy as long as she doesn't demand absurd amounts of attention and perfection on your part. It sounds like I'm the perfectionist here but really I just want women not to hang everything on a few flaws and misunderstandings...

"LOL! ........ interesting post.... yes, it is quite interesting... lol."
How is it interesting?

 

99% of women AREN'T like that. i don't know why you guys INSIST on a pity party. i swear. men aren't pigs, women aren't bitches. we're people. and there's bound to be one who's myriad flaws fit nicely with your own.

 

Yes they are. 100% of instances with women over the age of 17 involve a normal social discourse until I make 1 mistake then they don't want anything to do with me.

If you met me I swear this would happen, we'd get a long for a while then I'd say something wrong and you'll go into "don't like" mode and that would be it. Even if I was Mr. Perfect for the rest of my life from that point onwards because you've already decided you "don't like" me I'm branded as a twat for life and there is nothing that can change that.

 

maybe youre continuing to be a "twat" with the self-pitying attitude? just sayin..

 

so far as i can tell, i pretty much tell people their a twat right off the bat if they are. perhaps in some segments of society women aren't taught any degree of loyalty. have you considered that some of those ladettes are pretty righteous and kick ass, in that they've been trying to get into the mindset of a man rather than glorifying the "pretty, sensitive, too good for you" female?

 

"maybe youre continuing to be a "twat" with the self-pitying attitude?"
Well I'm open to criticism, but I don't know what you mean by self pitying. I'm merely stating facts.

"so far as i can tell, i pretty much tell people their a twat right off the bat if they are."
I wish people would call me a twat more often, at least then I know why they walk off without saying anything, pretend to be doing something else the moment I try to talk to them or go "oooooooooohh" sarcastically when I first try to talk about something other than their coat.

I'm not self pitying, if I'm asking "why do people find me so annoying?" that's more like slef critical. I want to be like Vince.

 

without meeting you in person, i really couldn't tell you. what sorts of things are you saying? we tend to know, deep down, what it is we're doing that drives people off. but it's one of those things we don't like to address. like some deep seated pattern that's really hard to let go of.

 

Util , is this girls when youre out pulling , or is it girls generally round college/work.

Lots of people make judgements quickly - it could be down to body language ,dress , the way someone speaks etc.Do u have a life which sounds like women would want to be part of ?Or do u just get shitfaced in bars all week?
Im guessing but it just sounds u need to brush up your pulling /communication skills abit with them.Bottom line is , if a girl doesnt want to get it on with u , theres a chance she might be abrupt to the point of being a twat.
But dont expect them to say "a prick would wear that jacket so I wont fuck you"
LOL ( thats just an example).
And if u look "desperate" or "in need" your jobs just got fucking hard.

Maybe its not a big deal , alot of people just go out with women from their circle of friends.That might mean u need to take up new interests etc.