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Ya, well my sex life has never lacked any, it's always great, i like to talk about our sex life and this what you say woulda come out then, right, never has yet.
My guy is happy and his Family tells me I am the best he has ever had after they watched what he's been through and it's made him a whole different guy from what others did to him... And just so ya know, his last x did shave, that came up in conversation and he didn't care about it, what he did care about is how much drugs she used and after he let her back in after many promises he had to kick her out again. Seriously there are way worse issues he has seen then a few hairs.
His X before that liked sex 4 times a year. He wants it all the time and says his dreams of finally finding someone he really cares about and loves have come true. How can we be wrong if he says that all the time and his family backs it up by saying he feels and looks like he is the happiest he has been?
He keeps saying "Sucky moment, I love you" right in the middle of our conversations face to face and on phone calls. I know he likes my package as it is and that's all that matters to us, you have an issue not me.
I even asked him once, a question I always ask,,, "if there was one thing you could change about me, what would it be?" is that me being in denial of needed changes or denying anyone of a dream? We are almost the same height so he said I could throw out any shoes with a heal on them even tho I don't wear actual high heals. Naturally he is a slight taller then me and he likes that. Tis ok with me because I happen to like my man taller then me. Was a fair request and yet he didn't ask me to take anything I was born with off. Yaaaaay! I passed his test,, HE is a good man!

Oh and another was "Don't cut your hair!" when I teased him that I was gonna go short around the ears and butch in the back. He prit near flipped when he walked in the house one day and I had it all up in the back. But he plays with it all the time so I won't lop it off. I like it long anyway plus he likes it draping in his face when we are doing the cowgirl. Says it makes him wild.
Want me to tell you more or can you believe some guys like all natural sex with an all natural woman, yet?

 

Sally, you are aware that you make yourself sound at least as closeminded and judgemental as the people who think every woman should shave, right?

 

Ha! Seriously, if I didn't have the man I want I'd ask you for pics,,, not really tho. You already sound like the type I wouldn't care much to hang with just because you remind me of my friend's hubby who is almost out her door with luggage, altho maybe you are not but the "act accordingly" crap got me there.
No offense intended, it's probably just how text looks but ya, I am happy to see my man's hairy dick and he won't ever have to alter anything because I like it the way it is. Bet he is happy not to have gained a chore for knowing me.

 

That's not my point, I was talking about what I like, and as usual, you come out with a personal attack. Can you believe though that the guys who have their preferences different to yours aren't some kind of woman-beating jerks whose girlfriends need to be felt sorry for?

 

Could be but it's my opinion and I never said once women shouldn't shave,,, I said I wouldn't and if a guy won't do oral because a woman won't she needs a new man, I also said on another thread people don't have to shave and remove natural bits off their bodies because of society saying so. I never tell people what they shouldn't do but read back on how one thinks women should "Act accordingly" to get oral, that's close-minded and really, it's what makes a man sound like an asshole.
Hair is there and a woman should shave if she feels ok about it, once sex is denied over it sex is not sex anymore, it's a reward for doing what her man ordered, any woman to take sex like that might need a reality check. New man time.
See it how you like but if a guy is gonna tell me to shave he is gonna buy me a nice fucking car first, sex with him I can do without if I got a hot car to chase other men around with, hahahaha.

Really, you don't take sex away from your woman over wishes, she will go looking in other places for it. And honestly if a guy thinks his dick is all that and would make his woman do anything he wants He wants he might be wrong, what a way to find out huh when she is packing, hahaha.

 

All I meant with the 'act accordingly' is that women have realised that guys are more likely to eat them out if they keep their pubic area neatly shaven, and since they would like being eaten out, they are happy to do that. I never said that they all should do it. No need to get so worked up over one phrase.

I have no problem with adjusting something about myself if my partner so wishes - within reason, of course - and women shouldn't either. It takes two to tango and it could be for the good of your relationship. Or if you want to be stubborn, you could keep talking about how nobody tells you what to do, but that will simply result in you missing out.

 

Act accordingly for oral,,,, that's all I got to say.

 

Missing out on what? Really what am I missing? I get sex the way I want it and I have yet to beg or demand it. It's mostly about how you pick your partner. Mine don't just get to jump me, we know each other first. He already knows whats coming before he is there with me. Maybe that's the key to happiness, knowing your partner and not finding surprise needs later. Again I don't ever spend time alone because I am actually friendly and find people as friends and such easily. Was lone, Missing out by choice once for 4 and a half years while I had my store and even then I had to turn down dates to do My thing. Was always nice about it tho. Once a man finally approached me and made me fall hard for him I sold my store because I didn't have the time for it anymore and was done My deal I had to do to prove to myself I could do it and do a great job at it. Just one of those things I had in my bucket list.

 

I'm happy for you if you've never had to make any compromises in your life to get what you want. Really, I am. Not everyone is that lucky.

Going back to my initial point; I suspect that many women shave because they want to look attractive to their men, and/or make the men more willing to give them oral sex. In other words, it's what the women want, not what I'm personally telling anyone to do. You made a huge deal out of that because, like you just said yourself, it's how text looks.

 

Yes I did make a big deal of it because our new generations are reading stuff like this and thinking they must, anal, shaving, plucking,,, so many things they Don't have to do to get what was a simple pleasure in life and now seems like attraction over natural beauty is of the past. It must be a challenge for them having us tell them what attracts and what doesn't anymore. So many beautiful women doing ten fold to hold their man when he should like what's in them, not what he wants on them. It's a shame we are not good enough anymore according to some guys. I am just glad I don't have these issues and don't fall for them. But again picking through all the pile makes a big difference, and No, you are not the only one who says stuff like this loosely, many guys do because they are told it's right but yet many men are of a different nature and they look inside of the box for what's real.

 

I like it how Sally always edits her posts and makes them reaaaallyyyyyyyy long

 

Lucky? Maybe not, I have worked for what I want, sex and relationship are a part of what I want but it's not what I gotta survive on so as far as getting what I want there, a man either likes my stuff or he carries on. I don't dance or fake anything to hold anyone down. In fact I have had to break up a relationship or two to move on myself for jobs and as sad as that is, it happens. But in the end I did better my situation and met someone else that was good for me.
So I am not telling you I am lucky my puss don't have hair so I Don't have to shave it, I am saying he likes or he finds a completely naked one he does like.
My point is I like men who like me, and my brains, not what he can push me to do.
My biggest point here is if every woman went with what they have, guys would still find attraction, there is someone for everyone. Eyes wide open. And on the feminist thing I was accused of, I don't appreciate women who tell their man sex comes only for certain things either, or tells him he must have no facial hair or must have it, or work in a certain type of job, or,,,, you know what I mean, you pick your partner because you love them not because you want to mold them. And ya I know a lot of guys who say their woman wants this and that and he's not happy, compatibility I always say. Why try to make someone who they are not, man or woman.

 

LOL. Welcome to natural selection. Men aren't, and have never been good enough for women unless they have something desirable to offer, besides the "inner beauty" cliche. And guess what? That's fine by me, because I have enough qualities to offer. Less competition for me!

 

Are you for real? Women don't want natural? Most I know do. I said way back on another thread, I once dated a man who looked like a model type, tall dark and handsome, I spent the whole time wishing women would stop looking at him, worrying when someone seemed attracted to him or got too close to him and I am not the jealous type. I even wanted to fatten him up, haha.
But seriously I have never gone looking for facial attraction, my guys usually look rough, I like em to look like my pit bull, but they don't have to hang chains on their jackets and carry a jack knife or mold anything.
My current BF looks like he is naturally, he has a stash that goes down the sides to his chin and he dresses like he wants, there is nothing wrong with him but some women would like their man a little smoother around the edges then he is I suppose. His heart is big, and even tho he don't look like a suck or a model he is a big sweetheart and knows how to make me scream in a good way.

 

I have to edit because I might start to post something and have to go do something with my business so then I come back later to finish it, the site allows that so I thought it was ok,,, no?
Would you prefer I drop all business to get it all done at once? Things here can go smoothly then all hell breaks loose, once I fix it I can come back,,, it's part of life darling, I like my money to keep coming and taking care of business makes that happen. My time might not be like yours but I do have lots of it just some days in chunks.
PS, I like the way you sit back then fly in with a short but quick stab, bet your man is always on his toes.

 

I'm not just talking about appearance, although it is important - for both men and women. The thing about taking care of one's appearance is it signals that you're willing to put in some extra effort into looking good in the eyes of your partner, and that's a very attractive mental attribute according to many people.

But millions of men are denied the "simple pleasures of life", just because they have little to nothing to bring to the table (both literally and figuratively). It's a tough world, but it's how nature works. Women have the need to make sure that the man will have something to offer before having his children (although this concept is on the decline in the era of daddy paying for everything and the state taking care of the kids). Men do also have certain qualities they're looking for in a woman, although they tend to be less picky about them because the capability to bear his children is internalised in (nearly) all women.

 

CT... you are so totally missing the point. You insist that men, all men, would not want to have oral or anal sex with any woman who didn't shave everything. We are saying that simply is not true. There are many men who do, and many have commented here on this very thread. If you don't, that's fine. But don't insist that everyone is like you and that women who don't shave have something wrong with them. It's takes many different things to float people's boats. It was just my observation, and I've noticed by several others that when you keep your options open and you have sex or fall in love with the person and not just for how they look, it's a win-win situation for everyone. Why are you so hell-bent in insisting that your way is the only way? It seems to me if you really believed what you say, it wouldn't matter what anyone else says. But it also seems to me that you are not secure is your feelings unless everyone agrees with you.

You criticized Sally for calling you names, but you seemed to have dished out quite a few yourself. You also seem to be threatened by women who have their own strong opinions.

You simply need to acknowledge that there are many ways to do anything, including fucking.

 

Please show me where I claim ANY of what you've just stated. You're putting words in my mouth that I've certainly never said. I'm not "hell bent on insisting my way is the only way", in fact I'm trying to fight against people attacking my way and labeling it as wrong.

 

I am not sure if it's been a long day or did I miss something? I'm not sure what you are saying CT.

 

"Well, it shouldn't be hard to see why someone would rather not give oral sex to a woman who doesn't shave. I think most women realise that nowadays, and act accordingly."

"Why someone would rather not give oral to a woman who doesn't shave... and act accordingly"!!!!

If this is not what you meant to say, then you should proof read before hitting send.

I am not the only one who took this as meaning that everyone, and anyone who doesn't is wrong, sick, (fill in the blank)...

If you mean you, then say YOU!!! "In My Opinion" also helps... other wise it is easy to misconstrue what you are trying to say.

My point, my observation... which is what I said, was that people like different things. And when others pointed out the same thing, you have "seemed" to insist that they are wrong. That's where the comment about you being hell bent is coming from...

No one was attacking "YOUR WAY" until you made this comment. In fact, I've read all of the comments and the majority of them have said to each their own, and explained why they felt the way they did. Yes, there have been some snarky comments, there always are. But your's were too....