Guys : Is it important for you to know ?

What would you think ? I think its great!

Would her silence frustrate you ?
hell yeh
How would you respond to her silence ?
angry
Is it important whether she tells you or not, and why ?

yes and no
What if the most answer you get out of her is “I’m not that experienced” – what would you make of it ?
that shes lost it and hasn't had sex in a long time and didnt enjoi it!
How long are you willing to wait for a girl to be ready for sex before giving up and leaving ?
depends on the rapport we have and if were "met to be"
How long is too long for you to wait ?
i doubt know

How old is too old to be a virgin ?
40
Any final notes / advice ?
save it for marriage.

 

you're the first guy that said he will respond in anger to my silence lol interesting

 

Probably because he prefers a simple yes or no answer to his question instead of keeping silent and leaving him to guess.

 

If you think he's a nice guy and wouldn't mind a sexless relationship for a while at your age (if you intend to stay a virgin till marriage or something) there's little danger in telling him. I mean, sure, a lot of people are interested in sex to the point of hoping for experience in a partner, but the idea of purity is valuable as well.

IF you're trying to keep virginity till marriage, then it might lead to a lot of pressure they might not want, or they could be put off by the idea of no sex, or even of taking someone's virginity. Don't be pressured by someone only interested in sex, they aren't worth it at this point, but don't think everyone's out for sex only either.

 

thanks for the words of support LanSLide - i'll keep that in mind....

 

no ones business about your "history"....I dated a women for 18 months before anything happened...regardless of experience, each female is different and the fun of any new relationship is in the exploring and learning....if you are treating each other right, you will never know if one or both were virgins.....Anyone adamant about your history other than testing results, IS A CONTROL FREAK!!!!!!!!