Haha, well I assume it is hard to understand pleasure from anal play without actually trying it. I understand that your view on it is directed toward a negative outlook, which is very very normal, although I am sure that would change if you had enough time on your hands to experiment with attempting. Mostly, any guys that think it is nasty or gay, typically have not tried. (Male anal play is similar to female masturbation in a sense that assumptions are created without personal experience, if you get what I mean) Indeed it is difficult at first to overcome those feelings of "Anal Anything = Dirty" and "Exit Only" although as with anything, with enough work you will soon begin to form a better opinion on any issue. Here is something you might find commical: I actually wish I was Bi or even bicurious because there are more options, but unfortunetaly I am not. As I stated before, it truly takes that experience to know, so perhaps my opinion on whether or not I am is skewed, yet my metal thoughts lean no where near the area of homosexuallity. In fact I must admit I am a little bit homophobic, but hopefully one day I shall overcome that point of view. In my case, I do indeed enjoy anal play and stimulation since it helps increase orgasm strength and enables one to get to orgasm faster. (In fact with anal play I have unlocked how to have multiple orgasms) Even though I am 18, I think it has been the missing ingredient in masturbation (or in fact anything sexual) since it helps create that "sensory overload" which is what can trigger the brain to communicate with specific spinal impulses to help initialize the orgasmic phase. For anyone wanting details my method typically includes use of an enema (either can get one online, or turkey baster, or be creative with a movable showerhead hose) and once rinsed out experiment with varied objects. 2 years back when 1st starting, I started with fingers, toothbrushes, etc although now I will typically use a toy. My personal preference is a glass material (Note: Do not just use any glass object, get a toy online that is specifically made for that purpose so you dont end up in the ER) since it provides smooth insertion (WITH lube), adapts to temperature, and is solid (I found solid objects feel better than softer ones, even if it is quality material like silicone, but this is just personal preference) How to get toys: (My personal method through trial&error experience) Anyone looking for discrete sites (AKA still live with parents ) EdenFantasys.com, HealthyAndActive.com, AdamEve.com, Seekingo.com If you don't have a CC, use paypal w/ bank account. Although my best method = buy a prepaid gift card from CVS (AmericanExpress tends to work the best), and usually its best to go with $50 to $100 amts The cards indeed act like CCs but discrete and disposable. Anyway, so enough about the "How To". Back to mcsac223. I would say that you should at least try to keep an open mind about it. No one is saying to try it, although if you do, you might be surprised to find how it can be a key to unlocking better sexual knowledge in general, and learn more about yourself. You never know, you might get an erection from the Doc having to check your prostate. Some males report that they have precum (Pre-Ejaculate) proceed to "leak" out the penis. I actually wouldn't be able to confirm this since I am one who has fallen in to the 25% range of males that do not produce pre-cum (well you do but it is not enough to actually come out of the penis. It just tends to line the shaft if anything) =[. But most likely it will happen according to the 75% of males whom actually do have the substance pour out before ejaculation. Just remember to keep any open mind about things, which is what I usually tend to do. Experts say seeings another's POV is the best way to choose the most correct concluded opinion and take the best path, since understanding what others are thinking, and how their minds tick, unlocks doors to discovering new insight and being the most correct out of anyone. Hopefully this helps anyone who reads these few short words of mine. If you have any questions, comments, or suggestions feel free to ask. Probably best to post, and them PM me so I can know to post back =], Best of luck to all. -Alt
i would suggest putting a condom on anything you insert into your ass. Also, only use safe, sex toys made for anal play. Using anything around the house can be dangerous (can break off in your body and you'll have to go to the emergency room).
Hey how does that work for us teens if we cant get our hands on these things much less enjoy sticking it in our rectum. I use what ever is available or easy to use.
I tried my wife's toy, and I didn't like it at all... Yet I'm curious about feeling the real thing. Go figure.