Guys how long does it take you to cum from a BJ?

Know that you are not alone. Has never happened to me either. I've orgasmed getting a hand job quickly and through intercourse. But never orally.

Of all the partners I've had most amateur women scrap their teeth over my cock at some point. With pros I have never felt their teeth. I did hear once that a porn star (can't remember her name) had he back teeth ground down to make it easier for her to give a blow job.

 

Lol, now that's devotion to your job!

I wouldn't call myself a pro, I have only given head to 2 guys. Maybe I'm just an over achiever, if I'm gonna do something I'm gonna do it right!

Just last night I clicked on a porn that was titled "Best blow job EVER!" I watched for a minute, then fast-forwarded most of the rest, I just had to laugh. It was a POV shot, so she kept staring at the camera as if it was the guy but whatever. It's good to look the guy in the eye when you go down on him but it is also important to let him see your face when you lovingly look at his cock as if it's the best thing you've ever seen. Half of it was a hand job while sucking just the tip, the other half was a few long strokes and then repeat with the tip again and that was it. It's like going down on a girl but only licking the clit, there is so much more to explore. Now I suppose there's nothing wrong with that, it got the job done but I certainly wouldn't call it the "best ever."
When giving good head it's not just about the shaft, the giver has to pay attention to the whole area and really show that they enjoy it. Moaning is ok but a little hard with a dick in their mouth and it usually just sounds contrived. Moving their hips and touching themselves every now and then lets the guy know that the giver is enjoying themselves while still keeping the focus on him, as long as they don't get too distracted by their own pleasure. Changing things up, not repeating the same exact thing over and over is key, sometimes this alone will be enough to make him cum but other times they should keep changing things just until they think the guy is wound up enough, then the giver should find a pattern the guy seems to enjoy and stick with it, it shouldn't be long at this point, which helps cut down on neck and jaw fatigue. There is a lot that goes into it but it has a lot to do with the guy, everyone is different and the giver has to pay attention to what the guy likes and doesn't like by reading his body language and listening, not just to the moans but also for changes in his breathing and small gasps.

Sorry, this kind of turned into a tutorial but maybe it will come in handy for someone at some point. I only just started watching porn so everything I know was self taught just by picking up cues from my partner. I highly discourage anyone from using porn to learn how to give head... or how to do anything else really, most of it's crap. It might turn you on but it's still mostly crap.

 

I hope so. Good instructions and experiences about sex are needed for everyone. I think most women keep doing the same thing over and over without changing their technique as they go. Then here comes the neck and jaw fatigue you mentioned. Once that happens the oral part is usually over with.

 

if she's good at sucking cock, I'll cum in less than 10 minutes. but I've had blowjobs from girls who haven't done it before, and that usually takes me around 15-20 minutes to cum. Of course, I don't mind, and I'm always willing to help a friend practice her bj skills . Also, if the blowjob is only part of foreplay, I'm good at not cumming at all during it

 

Not usually. I get close, but most times we switch positions after a while.

 

It won't happen with me because my wife doesn't like it, thanks to an unpleasant experience in college. She gives a good bj, but we switch before I cum.

 

Doesn't take long at all if she includes some nice vigorous stroking.

 

Depended on who it was from. Not meaning the looks, but the skills, pleasure at giving me, doing it right.

Some, a few seconds but made it stop.
a few minutes
several minutes, maybe 40. high quality but made me last on purpose
almost one hour, determined to get results but doing it wrong. unable to finish until I titfucked

 

That's rather dependent upon the skill level of my benefactor.

 

Lol truthfully, under 5 minutes especially if I hadn't had it in a while

 

To repeat myself, what's the hurry?

I'll lay there and enjoy it as long as she lets me, keeping me close to the edge. She'll decide when it's time usually......or when she's had enough...

Sometimes it's urgent and it's over in a few minutes, tho.

 

I rarely last 10 minutes and often far less. I usually have to ask her to slow down so that I can enjoy it longer. Sometimes she's wicked and doesn't slow down but that usually means she's just wet and wants me to be licking her pussy.

 

There have been times where I reached orgasm within seconds. I had the oral to stop so I could enjoy some more longer.
Very often it depends on the giver, the techniques she used. Something quite a while to bring me to orgasm, some took maybe a minute.
Very often, most of the time actually, if she uses her hand on the shaft at the same time I reach orgasm pretty quick.

 

If I wanted to cum fast I could within 30 seconds. If I don't want to cum fast and want to enjoy it I can usually hold on for a bit. Sometimes if I feel like I could and want it to last I just have my wide stop and make out with me or focus on fingering her or something

 

Jude96, there's an old, but little known, trick in Sexology studies. Give the head (glans) a firm, quick squeeze. Just below painfully, but firm. This will usually back things off for awhile in the nervous system. Tried it, it works. Worth a try. (My wife has a wonderfully soft mouth and moving tongue, and I've had other Mistresses of the Art.)

 

Sober and horny, minute or two with my wife or two exs. Some dont do it for me.

 

My wife can get me there in maybe 10 minutes but I usually stop her before I do. I
Prefer to come in her pussy.

 

Depends on who's doing it and her ability . When she's enthusiastic and enjoying doing it I try to hold out a bit to let us both enjoy it longer . That's not to say there aren't times when I've popped in 10 minutes .

 

I was made to last extended periods with different blowjobs, 30, 45, 52 minutes and 1.5 hour.
I also came in seconds, couple of minutes or up to 25 minutes on various blowjobs with the intention to make me cum first shot no edging.

 

Couple of interesting thoughts/rememberings for this here.

One lady I'd been seeing, on a trip to meet my folks, we got a motel room. We settled in, got ready for bed, and I decided to sit up leaning on a pillow and read an article I was interested in. She lay down between my legs and started playing/sucking (it was something she just liked doing, she'd had others, but said mine was "nice"). I read while she sucked, for 20 or so minutes. I was hard, but never got close and she was happy as a kitten nursing on a teat. When I finished reading, we fucked and went to sleep.

One lady, who I'd helped through a divorce and kept up a good-friends and now-and-then sexual relationship with, wanted to suck me, since it'd been years since she'd tried it. She was pretty, sexy, stable, emotionally comfortable now, and we both liked fucking each other when we got a chance. But for the life of me, I could not come for her when she sucked me! She'd do all the right things, follow my instructions, even tell me to give it to her,.......and .....I couldn't. I'd pull her up after 10 minutes or so and we'd fuck, and I'd come deep inside her with no problem.

Oral, just like the rest of things, can be complicated.