There is a certain logic to the theory that someone of the same sex can give most pleasure - quite simply because he/she knows from their own experiences what feels best. After all, a man may be able to imagine how having a tongue might feel stimulating a clitoris by equating it to how it might feel on the glans of his own penis, (which may well be the case, seeing as they are the equivalent organs) and vice versa, but there is no way that either party, male or female can be certain. Only a man can truly know the best way to stimulate a penis orally, in the same way that only a woman can know the best way for a clitoris. Anything else is pure guesswork.
My ex-wife and I gave our landlord a blowjob together to see who was better and all I know is he said he wanted me to finish him off. Score one for the guys!
The only thing that determines how well of a blowjob you give, besides natural talent, is practice. I've had a great deal of practice, so I think I do alright.
I completely agree with this theory. I also use it as the reason many girls struggle with the hand job. Guys know what feels good, so it would be easy to do what feels good to another guy. It's kind of like masturbation. You can always cum faster because you know exactly what you want.
I walking to my wife and we both agree that a man could please man better as a woman could please a woman better when it comes to oral.
Having received a fair share of BJ's from both, it's just my opinion but I don't really think for me, it was a matter of which Gender was better as it really boiled down to attitude, desire and enthusiasm... If those 3 elements were a part of the Giver's make-up during the encounter, then both sexes performed "admirably".... If not, then it wasn't pleasurable regardless...(smile).
Yes I've sucked off many married guys and boyfriends and they prefer me to their wives and girlfriends. Getting a blowjob from a guy is a great feeling for those who haven't experienced it and also, it doesn't make you gay when someone else is doing the sucking so just relax and enjoy it when a guy like me comes along and offers.
That brings back memories - something I could manage in my younger days - deep throating it all the way to the hilt as well.
Every str8 acting guy that I have sucked off seemed to love it as long as he made sure I knew that I was the fag sucking him, and after he got off and swallowed his cum , that I was just dieing to get another chance to suck his cock! I love sucking cock, and don't mind swallowing a cock and cum, but don't get mad at me cause you can't quit my blowjobs!!! Remember I am just the fag sucking cock!
having had head from guys and gals I can't say that I think there is much difference gender-wise. Size of the mouth might have another bearing on it tho. Simon