Good Girls Have Reached Unicorn Status

You should hook me up with her. She sounds like a respectable woman.

 

She lives in Santo Domingo, has a boyfriend and she doesn't date outside her social class, so win the lottery or something and I'll let you know. She's very into fitness and clean eating, even more so than you! So there might still be hope.

 

lol

What does upper class in DR translate to in America?

 

I was kidding before BTW

The mistake I think the writer of this article made, was making the article.

Every man feels a bitterness towards women for one reason or another. This guy just had to much room to type and filled it in with some really weak stuff.

I've been with fake women before. I've been with real women before. Real women are decidedly better. The trick is, describing the fake women without sounding like a wet blanket and describing the real women without sounding like a kiss ass. You don't want to gripe. Being as this is tricky, the best thing to do is not talk about it.

Like I said, I don't think the article should have been written.

 

Mama, did you not know that she is my wife?
Oh, well I mean technically we aren't married but we have a daughter and live together so it's pretty much the same thing.

I fell asleep before she posted this thread (and damn, I woke up with my back in such agony.. I must have fallen asleep sitting up or something) but last night I was telling her about my comment to Matt about having the nicest body in the cemetery.

Anyway I was thinking last night actually about how I am friends with Matt and friends with you, and of course with Aura. There are other friendships I've had through these forums that have had problems with others elsewhere in the past, I mean both here and IRL, but they don't post here anymore and haven't for a long time. And then there is Janja, entirely in her own realm which is completely unfathomable; I don't know if she is still my friend or hates me for a few years now.

 

" they can only be a slut or a "good girl". What happened to the 'good slut' category? Some of the finest 'wild warrior women' I've known and loved were great sluts when the occasion arose.

 

I assume this includes me, right? I mean in the past tense, of course. :love:

We were having this discussion, in a roundabout way, just the other day. I haven't read the article yet but I believe I understand the gist of it; yes I am very old fashioned, romantic and prudish when it comes to sharing myself with another person, and yet that has never caused me to think any less of anybody else who feels otherwise, I mean I recognize that I am anachronistic and in the minority and the same goes for pretty much every other aspect to my personality (excluding drugs and sense of humor, both of which are 'liberated' so to speak).

I'll admit to a similar feeling of insecurity that I used to experience as deviate points out, because the few girls I've ever been with have had more experience than I, but it was never a cause for judging anybody and I haven't even thought about that in nearly a decade. I have my reasons to suppose that a person is better off refraining from sharing themselves without having a strong emotional foundation to allow to grow afterwards, but people are curious and exploratory and not everybody is looking to establish a meaningful relationship. Never mind that some people just genuinely enjoy sex as it is and many have grown to consider sex and love to be mutually exclusive, or in less extreme cases, to be independent.

I take a look back at how I was raised to fear sex and to abhor my own sexuality, and I wonder at how I've ever managed to become comfortable with myself today (thanks in large part to you, Aura, no doubt) but then I consider people like Kristen, whose father absolutely knew I was sleeping with her in his own home and nobody ever considered telling me just how often other boys had done the same, and I begin to understand why she is such a manipulative, cruel and fractured person. I understand that your mother raised you in a similar way to me, and although we grew up very differently, we were both taught the values we cherish and it has enabled us to consider approaching our own children more carefully. I was very lucky to have life go so completely upside down because my own confused romantic temperament led me to stay with the mother of my son for far too long, because I truly believed that if I were unhappy with her, it was something wrong with me; it never crossed my mind that I should end the relationship for both our best interests, and well you know the rest of it. Lesson learned and yet my ideas about women and relationships (and 'true love' for that matter) have never changed, no matter how profoundly my heart has been broken. People are far too insecure and frightened to be angry at, and acknowledging this makes the bigger picture much clearer.

 

I had no idea about you two. That's awesome though, I think you're both great .

That's too bad about your back. Hopefully that goes away soon.

I can see why you're friends with him. He's , actually a civil human being when he interacts with you. I've been in your situation many times. Where two people I'm friends with dislike each other. As far as Piaf, I don't particularly agree with or respect her views, but I've never felt the need to treat her badly because of it. I certainly don't want to be friends with her, but I have no reason to treat her badly either.

 

I've always liked Matt, for a very long time now, but he does say things (which even he recognizes and has acknowledged in the past) which are sweeping generalizations and often very negative. He has a thing about not being concerned with how he is perceived for sharing his thoughts, but I know him to be a sensitive person and I can't help but like him a lot for who he is or, at least as far as someone can be known online. I wonder sometimes why he is so negative toward things like holidays, for example, but I guess that is just how he feels and I don't understand it. Well, I think I do, and disagree, but who knows, really.

 

Oh and thank you Mama, my back is already feeling a little bit better now that I've been working for 2 hours. Such a relief, I almost couldn't stand up this morning!

 

What's my realm like?

 

A picturesque scene of a window overlooking beautiful mountains and flowers?

 

A realm in which I am as incomprehensible and mysterious to you as you are to me.

 

I wish.

Yeah.

 

I love good girls.

 

Why would Rat need to win the lottery to date beneath his social class?

I bet she's a total whore.

 

Isn't Dominican Republic in America?

But to answer your question, I think she still would fall in the top 15% here.

John, you're the only person that I was referring to. I don't think I know anyone else that does not believe in casual sex.

 

The top 15% of gutter sluts? Maybe. Everyone knows that Santo Domingo and the DR is full of trashy whores.

 

I know a lot of people that don't believe in casual sex.

Really, the whole casual sex thing is a pretty new phenomenon. And why is that? I mean, it wasn't nearly as big, even as recently as in the 90s, but it has been mainstreamed and now it's like the thing to do. Keep in mind I am not speaking for or against it. Just saying.

I doubt John is the only person you know who doesn't believe in casual sex, unless you hang with a predominately promiscuous crowd.

 

I don't believe in casual sex, but I guess you mean irl.