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well since i'm not sleeping with my mother.. or have some divine attraction with mothers lol than how does the oedipus complex come into play????

I think you're thinking of one of freud's theories about how little girls are in love with their fathers, and vice versa for little boy's and moms.

I never really paid a great deal of attention to age since I've always felt older than my peers. Now I now that when it comes to relationships age really does matter!!!!!!!!!!

 

yeah one of my best friends is involved with a much older man shes 15 hes 25. ive learned to accept it but it really takes its emotional toll on her

 

^well does he treat her like shit or something?


but i do see the confidence and personal security boost when being with someone older, i mean more experience in day to day life etc. i dunno, maybe like having a mentor at the same time with a sexual relationship? < thats sounds awesome rgiht now hahaha

 

yes and no.
he loves her but its the shit that gets sait to/about her that hurts her most, being told your shit and evil everyday can do that to you

 

well, doesnt she want to leave him at all?

i mean at that age i guess most people stick to what they can get, but honestly - im pretty sure everyone can find better.



but the guy sounds fucking stupid, telling such a young person such shit can alter theyre personality for ever, in a bad way.

 

no hes sweet to her and she can (and regularly does) have anyone she wants but hes the only one who cares...its the people in our town spreading horriblr lies around
sometimes we'll walk into the shop and hear the clerk wisper something and she either break down or have to leave. people are shit.

 

golddiggers are scum...

 

look beyond the obvious.

most rich people who get together with a sexual partner realise the possibility of just greedy use, but most dont mind. they have what one person wants (cash), and the other person has what they want (sex/partnership).

its a fair trade imo

 

are you saying my friend is a goldigger?

 

just incase youre reffering to both of us, i was trying to educate guitar on the way a trade works.

 

who was he calling a goldigger? seemed a bit out of the blue

 

yea but thats not real love. i'd like to believe love/relationships are about accepting the person for who they are, not what they do and how much money they make. if i was rich, i would never tell the girl im interested in that i have money until we got to know each other well.