are you really hot? talented? rich? the same rules apply to getting rich chicks that apply to getting rich guys. there's a heirarchy that is undeniable.
What you aren't taking into consideration is the fact that women are now becoming financially and professionally successful at a much faster rate than men. Between 55 and 60% of recent college graduates are now female, so some of those women will have to marry men that did not finish college. This is a completely new thing that doesn't fit into the old social patterns.
and marriage rates are dropping and divorce rates hold strong. women are every bit as shallow as men and will usually shop for the best money and looks can buy. who can blame them? i certainly can't.
it's a beautiful thing. basically all i've seen of the hot chick enigma that so eludes most men is that if you're not super hot or super rich, those women will usually go to the best compromise available. hell, they may even develop geniunely fond feelings and a bond with them. men do the same thing, it's human nature as well as the nature of just about any animal out there. we'll fuck just about anything if we're desperate enough, but we wont' stick around if there's better options. crying about it is just weak.
You are only analyzing the kind of people that I don't care much about. I don't care what they do, or why they do it. Where the hell did you get that number from? Straight male porn? What are you saying?
then why'd you ask? you asked about women with their own money, not "women with their own money who are sensitive, not shallow, overly class conscious, and are into men who aren't rich or ambitious." that's more specific. people are people wherever you look. it's not being mean when they behave the way they do, it's being people.
It’s going to take a lot more than a few successful independent-minded women to change the structure of our society. Hotwater
Don't forget about taking up an art. The great leveler in the battle of the sexes... chicks dig dudes in bands.
The big, important change that I think is worth noting here is that women had to care a lot about marrying money/security in generations past, but not so much anymore. Increasing numbers of women now have enough income that they can weigh a variety of other factors more heavily in mate selection. That is a major game-changer.
it's changing the game as far as women not getting married. Not that they'll marry chumps now. Sorry chump. Hate the game not the player.
cherea will tell you himself, anectdotal evidence tends to wither under the intense scrutiny of statistics.
If women are more selective in choosing a mate, then they’re not thinking with their pocketbook they’re thinking with their vagina because they continue to choose the wrong guy and get beaten to a pulp Hotwater