I agree. There are actually more varieties, and potentially more dangerous bacteria, in the mouth the the anus. In fact, those in the digestive system are relatively benign for the most part having evolved to do one thing well, which is why they are tolerated by the human immune system. However, there are some present which are opportunistic and should be kept away from the vagina or urethra.
I'm sure there are risks but hey there are risks in unfurling from the duvet from the morning, from getting in the shower, from brushing my teeth. I'm a nurse, I've seen enough people die with regrets because of risk. Thanks for your concern though.
there wouldn't be. I generally don't like him down there if i'm not clean. it saves me the embarrassment totally. Sometimes however, i don't feel clean enough, he reassures me that my pussy tastes great, but i still doubt that'd happen. I like to say clean back there.. lol
Depends on how far in he'd stick his tongue. You can never stay that clean. It's inside u after all. If he took his tongue/finger out and rubbed it on tissue it would be brown It's just u said 'surprise'. He can't really surprise u if u're prepared if u know what i mean!!
no, he could surprise me with a rim job while i 'm bent over. he does it from time to time. Me being prepared is nothing more than me keeping up with my hygiene.
Like I already said its inside you. U have no control over it. I wipe my ass but I don't have an enema every time I take a crap. U can never get all the crap out.. its sticky. And that's okay..its normal. But I wudn't stick my tongue in there
how often do you clean and how do you stay clean? As for ILoveLauras claims, no you're wrong. My experience is that sometimes im squeaky clean inside just from natural operations - not every dump is pastelike, sometimes it all comes out in one lump (boy we're getting specific here! but leaves me pretty empty inside, no traces. However, if I go, its usually better to wait a little while as new material might have come down (ahem) and the rectum hasnt had a chance to dry it out (that's its purpose, to remove water from the solids). I find if I drink, alcohol being a diuretic, im a bit drier of course and things are less messy as my body is trying harder to reclaim moisture. But that's not a good solution: being slightly dehydrated is bad for you (though my nurse and doctor friends say that half the population is mildly dehydrated all the time - no one drinks plain water ever). To get really clean, i take a small longer and soft dildo with me in the shower and a bit of thin lube (dont want thick stuff staying up there, dillutes material making it wet and messy). I stroke it in and out and if its dirty, wash it off, bit more lube and keep going til its clean once its clean i keep putting it in and washing off the lube to remove the lube as much as possible as well (again see above about being 'wet' inside), until it gets difficult/uncomfy (dont want to ruin the evening!!). In fact, I do this pretty regularly, almost every time i shower at home when my boy is around (he's away often for long periods), though recently even when he isnt, out of habit, just to stay clean for him because he likes to initiate sex and suprise me (which I love). Mostly because he gets his tongue into me quite often, not so much his cock (which we're still working on cuz he's really thick...) ... YET. So you are wrong, it's not always dirty. Probably has bacteria in it however, yes. Though after being with your mate a while if her diet (and health) isnt changing/off, then you are already used to it due to your previous exposures However, it makes me think of what kind of healthy bacteria i could put up there, im not sure bifidum and the other common yoghurt bacteria are exactly the same ones you want in your lower GI (they're certainly good for upper).
not deep enough, and fingers are kinda pokey i sometimes do a quicky like that with saliva if i dont have my toys with me, but yeah, works pretty well. need two kinds of lube tho - thicker lube for serious play of course. so do i have a convert? maybe I should patent this method
well not too large, something soft and comfy sized for your experience, and, ahem, perhaps something not too exciting sized either (except the knowledge of why you're cleaning out is kinda hard to avoid acknowledging, which always makes my heart flutter thinking of later sometimes, i almost think a brush would be helpful, a super soft one, but any abrasion removes the mucus lining inside, dont want that. there's a balance between super clean and what's natural. end up removing too much natural, there aint going to be any action back there soon... will become irritated inside... so a slippery toy is best. enemas I dont like, things stay moist too long. and dont use soap on it!! (except to clean it off at the end, never put soap inside you!!) that will definitely irritate your insides and kill later action. (not to mention the healthy bacteria, meaning nastier stuff can get a chance to take over..). use water based (make sure!) lube. water based means your insides will dry it out a bit too, so you wont be um, lubricating further undesirable material's travel... (hard not to be graphic here - let's all consider this as medical education. no giggling!)
odd, any rear foreplay at all for her? or just straight down onto your lap, all 8" in one stroke? [that's hot] I couldnt do with out it...love it when he makes out with me back there!
good advice. I would consider myself still new to anal. I never really enjoyed it until I tried it with my current bf. He is wonderful and knows what he is doing. Has no qualms about rimming and he gets rewarded very nicely for it
You'd have to have an insanely long tongue (oh, how I wish) to get to where there *might* be something. As far as most people can get their tongue is the anal canal (and inch or two long) before the rectum.
When the butt and vagina are sweaty and smelly with passion then i just get in there, the thought of germs never crosses my mind, i get so wrapped up in the act....lush