Girls, is your current Husband/boyfriend your best ever lover. And.......

You guys are the ones who keep bringing it up, not me. I haven't said anything directly about my sexual ability since back on page 2 of this thread. Since then it's been nothing but haters trying to use that to bring their little baseless attacks towards me, because they can't refute my points intelligently.

 

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Hurray!! Third times the charm! You finally managed to articulate (at least somewhat) the basis behind your mindset. Now maybe in time you can start learning to articulate a bit more in depth without trying to be so argumentative. Though that's probably wishful thinking, I'll attempt to coach you a bit none the less.

You've been so adamant about your "lack of sexual abilities", why don't you explain just what this other guy has and can do that you physically (or mentally) cannot? You've touched on your lack of interest in BDSM. But surely this is about more than your unwillingness to slap her around and dominate her I'm guessing...

I said the insults were coming. Guess you couldn't grasp that either

We're all entitled to our own opinion so you can "assume" anything you want. Just as you can assume you're not mentally weak, but strong, confident, macho, etc. etc. What you also fail to grasp is that not being able to handle your partner sexually is a weakness in and of itself (most importantly in your relationship)... such to the point that it's the cause of you having to send her to get properly fucked/satisfied elsewhere. But you can believe the exact opposite and keep on thinking that you're so strong, confident, and macho for having to need other people to help satisfy your own girl all you want. As they say, ignorance is bliss. :2thumbsup:

Ironically, I see you as the cocky one here for having this warped sense to think that it's so manly to have others make up for the lack of you being able to handle your own girl sexually.

 

Oh, the drama. This is waay better than Judge Mathis.

 

I have no reason to hate you. But your whole bases for your argument is that you are a great lover. I was basing that on your post through out this forum.

 

No… that’s what you guys are trying to make my argument out to be. I’m simply trying to understand the mentality of why someone would want to have their partner be satisfied by another, simply because they felt they were unable to handle them sexually, when people like myself would do it to “enhance” the sexual relationship, not to try and make up or compensate for a lack of it.

Being a great lover really has very little to do with this. If you’re not a great lover, you can still satisfy your partner sexually, and I would think everyone would strive to do just that on their own, regardless of their skill level. If you felt you couldn’t handle your partner sexually, what would you do Jo King??

 

@xxaru..... This thread was titled.... GIRLS is your current Husband/Boyfriend your best ever lover?

You are not a girl, but decided to answer anyways by telling us that you were numero uno, and if you were number 2 or 3 it would not matter because you could so easily be number 1 if you so wished it.

You were off topic from the beginning and you have dug your hole deeper with each of your posts. Other ladies have answered the question, some admitting that they have had a better lover in the past, as I have, and some saying their current partners were best. Thanks Girls.

One Mans post was relevant to this thread, unlike yours! Jacobs posts are because he admits that he is not his girls best lover, and that she has told him as much, and that he excepts this and allows her to have a lover who is more skilful at meeting her sexual needs than him. He has made his point very clearly for everyone but you and the other Male on this thread to understand. You have tried to insult him by implying he is weak and should not be with his woman. Like I said before, you come across as being a bit of a dick. No offence! The thing is.....it is not jacobklein that comes across as being weak or lacking in confidence or being insecure in any way.....it's you and fx20736 that do. Both of your posts reek of insecurity.

I suppose my man should not be with me either, just because I have had a better lover in the past. Thankfully I do not think the same way as you do! What is most important to us is how much I love him and he loves me.

 

First of all, I don’t need you to re-cap the events of this thread for me. I know EXACTLY what has and has not been said thus far.

No, he’s made his point for the few simpletons on here (like yourself) that don’t have much philosophical thought on the matter and have no reasoning behind their mentality other than, “duh, his girl can’t be satisfied by him alone so obviously her fucking other guys makes perfect sense”. I was trying to get a deeper understanding of his mentality (and others like him). You obviously are not able to grasp that.

You probably feel that way because we are the only 2 people on here thus far who are actually able to articulate our arguments well. When I confronted Fx about his position, he was able to explain and justify his point of view very well, something Jaco and everyone else has not been able to do. And I’m sure that’s quite intimidating to the people like yourself reading this thread.

No... obviously you’re reading comprehension is also severely challenged. I suggested that you stay out of this because you started off "fairly respectably" in this thread and were only going to make yourself look stupid by trying to challenge me. But since you can’t help yourself, allow me to put things into perspective for you.

First off, you stated yourself that you’re content and satisfied sexually with your man, despite him not being the best lover you’ve ever had. Thus, you have no basis to speak for anyone engaging in activities that you won’t even partake in yourself!

2nd, the point was never that someone shouldn’t be with their partner because they’re not the best lover that person has ever had. That has no bearing on the subject. FX and I made a point that Jaco probably shouldn’t be with his girl because he couldn’t satisfy her (or handle, or however he wants to describe it) sexually.

For your information, I have continually stated that I have no issue with people sharing their partner to enhance the sex in their relationship. If you had enough reading comprehension skills you'd understand that means I'm actually on your fucking side, moron!! I'm simply trying to understand the mentality that makes people want to pass their partner off to another because they can't satisfy them sexually. And obviously that's something that you don't know jack shit about!

So before you come back in here and try to speak up for people’s rational on doing something that YOU DON’T ENGAGE IN, you’d better at least have your reading comprehension on point, so you can at least ACT like you know what the fuck you’re talking about. Otherwise come back when you and your man agree that you should start fucking your ex again since he’s the better lover and he can’t satisfy you sufficiently anymore, and I might give some merit to something you have to say.

It's too bad they don't have the finger smiley on here... so just use your imagination :2thumbsup:

I suggest everyone take this time to learn how to read and comprehend properly... it truly is fundamental :book:

 

One of my exboyfriends that is in contact with me, and still cares about me, recently said it would give him great satisfaction to see me crazy orgasmic with another man. Now.... maybe he is talking about the aspect of watching, but I also get a very strong sense he would like to see me feel really good.

 

Sounds like he also still wants to partake in making you feel really good too

 

I would really like that. Unfortunately we live long distance from each other.

 

Thanks, but no thanks. I have no wish to be coached in anything by someone who calls himself "Number 1." For obvious reasons.

No, I don't assume anything....I know! I'm not macho though, I'll admit that much. I have no wish to be. For example, I would not take my clothes off and take a picture of myself in the mirror, (Your not in bad shape, but unlike me, you lack definition.) while wearing shades (Indoors:sunnyand then put it on the internet for all to see. I would also not say things like.........

"No real sex stud would ever ask this question. Why? Because we don't need to. I already know I'd be at the top of the list of any girl I fuck, and whether she ranks me number 1 or number 3 makes no difference at all to me, because I know I could easily be number 1 (if I really wanted to). And I'm not being conceited, I'm just being real."

Or............

Maybe it's the competitor in me, but even if I felt a girl was too much for me to handle on my own sexually (which I don't see happening unless I'm still fucking 20yr olds when I'm 80)

You also have a default position when someone disagrees with you, or your to dumb/ignorant/arrogant to understand. It goes something like this........

"No... obviously you’re reading comprehension is also severely challenged."

Or...........

"I suggest everyone take this time to learn how to read and comprehend properly... it truly is fundamental."

Or...........

So it makes no sense for me to waste my time trying to hold a conversation with someone who doesn't have the necessary acumen to respond to the matter at hand with any intelligence.

So not only do you consider yourself to be stud muffin number 1, but you think your so much smarter than everyone else. I've no doubt you are the smartest person you know xxaru. What was it that another poster said........"What a dumbass!"

No, my relationship is not weak, it is very strong, and I don't 'send' her anywhere. I don't think I'm strong or confident because I allow my girl to see her lover, I mean it in a more rounded sense. I am a confident person in general, and I do not suffer from self doubt. I am also successful professionally. I told you this to help you understand my mindset, (Something you seem to be obsessed about) it past you by though.

I'm confident enough to come on this thread and answer the question the OP asked, (unlike you) even though it meant that I had to admit that I'm not the best lover my girl has had. You came on this thread with the sole purpose of telling everyone what a stud you are, (We believe you, honest. LOL) and what smarts you have. (You Don't) Your constant bragging suggests that you have no real confidence in yourself! Your constant bragging is an attempt to mask your weakness! Your constant bragging tells me that you have no real strength! As another poster suggested.....Your constant bragging reeks of insecurity. Stinks of it if you ask me!!!!!!!!!

Now, I have been patient with you, but I have no wish to converse with you any further. I find you to be arrogant, rude, bullish and ignorant, but worse than that..........I find you dull and predictable. I know exactly what type of person you are. I'll tell you what else I know about you.

Your are currently suffering from the following symtoms......

1. Nausea.
2. High temperature.
3. Blurred vision.
4. Palpitations.

Do not panic, they are only signs that you have just had you ass kicked, and had it handed back to you on a plate.:2thumbsup: Now, do not bother me any further.

I bid you good day Sir............

 

Yes calgirl. I love my girl, and I have seen how her lover can make her lose herself, and I have seen him make her crazy orgasmic. I like knowing that she feels that good, I want her to feel that good and I would not take that from her. I know a lot of guys would be jealous, but I'm just not.

 

Bro, you’ve done nothing here but try to bullshit your way around the topic at hand. You want to try and put the focus towards me (as if you’re obsessed with me) instead of answering the questions posed on to you, because you know your responses to those questions will only make you look even more foolish than you already are.

^^Oh shit.. look who’s arrogant and conceited now?!

You best check your damn self before trying to attack me. Say what the fuck you want to, but at least I can satisfy the girl I’m with sexually. You’re every bit as conceited as you “claim” me to be. The only difference is I actually have the balls to come right out and say what I feel, while you try and be sly about your comments as if people won’t notice the arrogance they're shrouded in. I can see right through you bro, and you’re full of shit!

Why don’t you man up and actually engage me by responding to the in-depth questions that I posed to you? At least then I’d have some level of respect for you as man. Instead your desperate attempts at a character assassination only prove how ignorant and arrogant you truly are. So why don’t you just do us all a favor and disappear from this thread, just like all the other trolls that couldn’t handle the backlash of what they were trying to dish out. When you’re ready to man up and engage me properly, then we’ll try and have a real discussion on this matter. Until then, just stay the fuck out of this thread!

 

Lol, :smilielol5: Too funny. You can’t defeat someone you won’t engage.

I’m standing right here in the center of the ring, just like any REAL motherfucker would. But much like a boxing match, you know you’d get knocked the fuck out if you stepped to me and fought me like a man. So you’ve done nothing but dance and run around the ring all this time like a scared little "biatch" waiting for the bell to ring, and then attempted to hurl insults from your little corner.

Like I said, the questions and topic is right there posed and ready for you to respond to. All you have to do is step and meet me in the center of the ring like a real man, and we’ll see just who the baddest badass is. All we have are words here, but I’m ready to take you on anytime.

To everyone else… grab your popcorn and watch this fool get sliced up and have his ass handed to him in primetime. :lurk5:

 

I'm going to try to be as nice as I can because you have taken such an ass beating in this thread already that I do feel a bit sorry for you.

You may know what has been said thus far, but that does not change the fact that you was well off topic from the beginning, does it?

No you was not. You were trying to get your own bullshit agenda across, as you have been since your first post in this thread. You then tried to insult him by telling him he was weak, and that he did not deserve his girl, who he obviously loves very much. You then suggested that he was jerking off to your pics. As I said, you were being a dick! Now stop acting like a spoilt brat and apologise for it! Trust me when I say that nothing you say is in any way philosophical. I'm trying to be your friend here. I'm trying to stop you making an ass of yourself.:love:

All you and Fx did was bore the shit out of everyone! You nearly killed this thread stone dead! That's how dull your little chat was! Not only that, but we are now all concerned about Fx's mental health. (Woman should stay virgins, just in case their future husbands are not their best lovers! What a mental case!) Your ramblings had nothing to do with my thread.

No, what Jacob said was that he was not the best lover his girl had ever had (Unlike you, you big muscle bound dummy, Jacob had obviously read the title of the thread lol) He then told us that he gave his consent for his girl to have a lover. He explained quite clearly that he and his girl have a loving sexual relationship, but because he had a lower sex drive (even though they have sex everyday) and wasn't into certain things, his girl wanted more. He did not say that he could not handle her sexually. That is something you made up. My ex was a better lover than my man for many of the same reasons as Jacob has stated. I.E, my man is not well endowed and can't last anywhere near as long as my ex could. I am still satisfied by him, but not as fully. The same as Jacobs girl! Does this mean that my Man should not be with me? I would not swap him for the world! Who are you or FX, to tell who should be with whom. I for one don't think think any girls should be
with you two. Weirdos, the pair of you! lol

The only person who does not have his reading comprehension on point is you!

Let me remind you what my thread is about........

"Girls, is your current Husband/Boyfriend your best ever lover?"

It was not titled...................

"Guys, in your own opinion, (Not anyone else's) are you the number one stud?"

Who's reading comprehension is on point now you big dope?

I'm trying to be nice to you xxaru, I'm trying so hard. I'm trying because I believe there is no way you could be as big an asshole in real life, as you are on this forum!

Try and grow up a bit.

 

I wrote my last post before I read xxaru's last two posts. That is the funniest shit I have read in some time, not in a good way xxaru!

I take back what I said. You are as big an asshole as you seem.

This is my thread, and Jacob is welcome. You stay out of it till you grow up a bit. Jacob kicked your ass, don't be such a girl about it. Jeez, what a nut. Lol

 

WTF are you talking about?? Do you actually read the shit you spew out before you post it?

Like I said before, nothing you say has any merit because you don’t engage in the activities of what the topic of argument is about. Please don’t make me pick apart your post and highlight each of the false/incorrect statements you’ve made in an attempt to rebut my stance on this matter… because I will certainly go there if I have to. But I’ll attempt to hold back and be courteous to you and not do that, as you appear to be making an “effort” to restrain yourself. Either that or you have the diction of a grade schooler.

And I know what the title of the fucking thread says. You obviously haven’t been around here long enough (and/or aren't bright enough) to know that threads often start out on one topic, and then branch into other topics as more people actively engage in discourse. This is why I don't like trying to debate with people that are WAY below my level... because I continually have to try and explain shit to them that they don't understand.

And don’t flatter yourself trying to worry about me. Trust me there’s no one on this thread that can go tick-for-tack with me. You guys in your fantasy dreamland believe I can't hang with you, but in reality it's the exact opposite.

:smilielol5::smilielol5: Rachel, you're too funny... Really! :smilielol5::smilielol5:

I’m actually a cool guy once you get to know me. I only put people in their place on these forums who try and attack myself, or others who don’t have the same capacity to adequately defend themselves.

I find it funny that someone with the diction of an 8th grader believes they can actually interpret what someone with graduate level diction and intellect has said well enough to determine whether they're making their point or not.

 

@jacobklein Hi Jacob, I was wondering if you would mind me asking you a few questions about your relationship? I think you are in the best position to talk directly about the issues raised in this thread.

Thanks

 

Seems a lot of you think that saying yes to this is an automatic lie. I feel like if you really believe this, you are probably lacking in your own sex life. I hope you get that fixed real soon.

Yes, he is the best. However, I have only been with one really bad partner and it was because she obviously was very uncomfortable being with a girl even though she made everyone think she was so into women. Cannot stand those females honestly.
My boyfriend is willing to act out my rape fantasy fetish with me, something that most people are very uncomfortable with, especially the females I've been with. We have taken a lot of time to learn one another's bodies intricately so we can completely and fully engage during sex. He is also willing to do threesomes, something I really enjoy. He is even willing to entertain my very recent desire to be with him and another man, not just a girl of my choosing. He is very honest though that he'd have a bit of a difficult time with it, not because of the idea of sharing me which he is very comfortable with when it comes to sex, but because he is not attracted to men at all and the idea of being so intimate even indirectly with a man just really turns him off. I respect this and we've agreed to stick to MFF.