Girls, is your current Husband/boyfriend your best ever lover. And.......

I have no time for some idiot that describes himself as a alpha male! You say your wife reads this.............

@Mrs enhancer........Is your husband as big an asshole at home, as he is on this thread? Pray, do tell!

 

It's funny when you click on a thread to answer the question, and reading the last page comments you wonder if you're in the right thread ).

 

Ya I figured you would just resort to name calling instead of backing anything you say up! Just like you have done on this whole thread. Mrs enhancer is very happy at home as am I, but thanks for your concern! Her man isn't starting threads about how his past lover was better then her, because he knows it takes two people to have good sex. Also he is not saying how he would love to be able to have another better lover on the side as long as she could not do the same. Our playing with others goes both ways! Also an alpha male works for her because she doesn't get off on being with someone who she can kick around and treat like garbage. She likes the fact that when it is time for a man to be a man that is what she gets. Mutual respect works just fine for us.

 

This thread became a shit show a long time ago! I suggest you get out before you get sucked in or you may find yourself on the receiving end of some insults for having a different opinion.

 

Haha will do, thanks for the advice

 

There you go making up shit again. Where did I say that? I would LOVE for you to quote my words saying that. This is exactly what I'm talking about. You're fucking delusional. And you worry about MY mental health!!?? You should be worried about your own!

Exactly!! Rachel gets Owned yet again. :2thumbsup:

 

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I conceded on the hypocrite thing and suggested that you stop slagging her off for it - since what she said (the admiring open couples even if she wasn't into it) wasn't worthy of insult.

And you and other people are both using it wrong. If jacob's girlfriend was a gold digger, what is she after? Sleeping with two men at the same time? She could get that on her own, without him even being a factor. It makes no sense for her at all to be with him just for that. What use is he then? What type of conniving woman do you think she is? Your whole gold digger comment about her is ridiculous and borderline misogynist. Show some fucking sense.

 

This is funny.

He relates jacob's case to Karen's - where you'd basically be calling her a gold digger too - and puts a good question forth.. and instead of actually answering it, you slag him off for his age and wind up dodging the question. So either you apply your standards to everyone or you're only doing it to insult Jacob's girlfriend who, unlike Karen, isn't here to "let her answer that question herself." You're nothing but a coward.

Go figure.

 

What the fuck is wrong with you? Now I'm not defending whatever Rachel's saying, how she's saying it, her manner towards you or whatever, but you degrading her like this is fucking wrong. Maybe she's said things to you that's on a similar level, but you should man up and not stoop low like that. This type of comment makes you nothing more than a classless pig. Try growing up, not being a man-child.

 

Well I've only just started reading the thread a few days ago. I'm sorry, but I did not realize that you were only allowed to post if you had been reading it from the beginning! I'm not starting shit, I just strongly disagree with most of what you have said in this thread. If you don't like that, tough.

 

Your question was..."What would I call a relationship that is the opposite of strong, secure, and stable?"

One where the couple don't love each other. They don't care, look after, or respect each other!

Thats not what I said is it? I Said I can't stand judgemental people. For example, I do not want to be touched by anyone but my boyfriend, and I do not want him touching anyone else. I want it to be just us together, I love him. That does not mean that I think it is wrong for others to do things differently. The most interesting thing about this thread was Jacobkline telling us about his relationship with his wife. I would not want what he has, but I still think its cool. I wont start preaching to him, or start calling him a loser or weak like others have done. They are the ones who cant stand people with different opinions or perspectives, not me. So yeah, you was wrong!

Well I'm sorry you feel that way, but o.k......bye!

 

I don't think I'm girly, but people say I am, so I guess I must be. My Mum says that I've always been a little bit effeminate, and even when I was little, kids at school would say I was gay. It use to really upset me, but it doesn't now! I don't like doing girly things though, and I don't dress girly. Most of my friends now are boys, and I like hanging with them, playing football and stuff.

If what your asking is about sex with my boyfriend though, then yes I'm 100% bottom with him, never the other way around, and thats how we both like it.:love:

 

My Mum took some convincing, and if it was anyone other than Josh there would have been no chance of her letting me move in with him. My bf Josh is one of my sisters best friends, and has been since they started school. My Mum is really good friends with Josh's Mum, so she has known Josh since he was very small. She trusts him with me, although there were some strict rules we had to agree too before she said yes. They both gang up on me sometimes, and it pisses me off, but mostly its cool.

 

It makes perfect sense. She’s found someone that will help take care of and provide for herself and her child. That’s worth an awful lot. What woman wouldn’t want that? Yet she’s not sexually satisfied by him, so you’re right, it doesn’t make sense for her to be with him for that reason.

What type of woman do you ask would stay with a guy who’s unwilling or unable to satisfy her sexually? The type of woman that gets personal gain from doing so (aka a gold digger, user, exploiter… you can pick your term).

It works out perfect for her because she gets what she wants from him, and the things he can’t provide she gets from her other guy.

There’s nothing cowardly about me not responding to his questions. I don’t just respond to any and everybody who thinks they can jump in a thread out of nowhere by confronting people and demand respect, which is exactly why I chose not to respond to you when you first jumped in this thread .

I decided to give you a little respect by responding to you recently, but he hasn’t earned enough respect to be entitled to a response from me. He made comments that pertained to Karen and her situation. Karen is woman enough to defend herself. And I’m tired of dealing with teenagers who just want to try and start shit on internet forums. Nuff said...

I’ve tried to be civil to Rachel. Karen tried to be civil to Rachel. Even enhancer made an effort. She’s the one who insist on continuing to insult everyone she disagrees with on this matter. If she can’t take the heat, tell her to stay out the kitchen. You having to come to her defense only serves to make her look even worse. Why don’t you tell her to woman up and try to make amends for herself?

 

That’s the first post you’ve made that I can actually “somewhat” respect.

The reason you need to read the entire thread before you jump in and blindly start attacking people’s positions is because there might be some key, important information that you skipped over. And you end up looking stupid when you have your facts wrong (like you did in your earlier posts).

If you’re intent is not to start shit, it’s certainly not coming off that way. Why don’t you try explaining your position and why you see things differently, instead of just arguing against people’s posts? Then you would likely be taken more seriously .

And I don’t mind you disagreeing with me. There are 3 other people in this thread that also disagree with me.

 

Dude come on! Only three? Only three? Really, are you sure?

Despite what you may believe, I have read this whole thread, and you have taken some serious abuse, from lots of posters, most of it I have to say has been deserved. I'm not one for name calling though, so I will not join in, but surely you have noticed that all your posts in this thread get disliked?

Thank you. Speaking for myself, I honestly have not respected a single thing that you have posted in this whole thread. I really don't mean to be rude or nasty to you, but that is the truth. I will let you know when, and if you do. Until then...... Bonsoir. xx

 

Yeah...ya know, commenting on someone's topic or question is a form of a form of charity. Ultimately it doesn't matter, just agree to disagree and have a dialogue.

I don't always agree with xxaru's POV, but I certainly respect him enough so that things never get super personal.

Some people here, and there's a lot of em, are WAY to attached emotionally to the threads or topics they make, and this I think is dangerous given that the internet is not a safe place to find genuine good advice, not with the trolling trends.

People really shouldn't read into why ___ hasn't responded to a post and then attribute a made up reason how a lack of response makes one's point more credible. A lack of response means a lack of response. Logically it could mean the other person is busy, didn't get the message, doesn't understand what you said so stays silent until they clarify more, and could mean they are stiffing you. But again since there's no proof of that everyone should calm down and just be chill.

Personal attacks are not needed.

 

Since you brought it up again, I'll clarify the situation for you. I don't receive any money or anything else of monetary value from the other couple that my husband and I partner-swap with. All four of us are only doing this for fun, just a few times a year. If I had to go back to basic monogamy tomorrow, it wouldn't be a huge deal for me.

Also, I make just as much as my husband does. I don't need his money.

Thank you for answering it.

I was basing my comment on your recent actions.

I'm 100% willing to talk to people who are willing and able to disagree with me in a rational and civilized way, like you are doing now. I'm willing to change my mind when situations change.

You got off to a bad start here, but that isn't necessarily fatal.

No right way to disagree online? You know better than this. I've seen you disagree with lots of people, even with me one time, but you do it in a way that most of us can respect. There are lines that you don't cross. If your writing style was different, you could be one of the most hated members on the forum right now and be having a miserable experience, but you aren't.

 

Yeah, the same 2-3 people dislike every post that says anything against Rachel & Jaco’s POV. They’re the exact same 2-3 people that liked your post I just quoted. And I’m sure I could probably call each of them out by name .

Good! Then stop responding to my posts. We didn’t ask you to jump in this thread and start acting ignorant the way you did anyways. You’ve already been bombed with neg rep because of the way you’ve come at people here. Yet you seem to think you’ve done nothing wrong.

It’s about respect. I threw a little charity your way by responding to your trolling posts thus far, but I won't be feeding the troll anymore. I have better things to do than play with a 17 yr old kid. Now go back and play with Rachel. Tell her I said Hi :2thumbsup: