Most of the times when i want to do it to my gf, she doesn't want to; but sometimes she just lets herself go and then i could tell she really enjoyed it. so maybe it depends just on the mood...
I think human beings are wired to like it (sure it may vary from individual to individual). If you look carefully throughout history it's been quite popular during some periods, in Ancient Greece and Middle Aged Europe among others. I love to have my ass licked, it feels GREAT!
That's interesting, how do you know that? I would never have thought medieval europeans would be into this stuff (partly because of the general lack of hygiene )
Well, at the time it was very popular because it allowed intercourse without any risk of pregnancy (so many women were dying while giving birth back then, so it sure was a concern for them!). I also remember stumbling upon some medieval erotic art depicting anal sexual acts, it was very surprising.
Have your guy try this. He licks your ass real good then he gently pushes his cock against your anus. The key here is to be gentle and slow. You want to draw this out so he should only go in a tiny bit at first. Lick again.*He will find your anus more receptive & open now. He pushes in just a little further next go around. Repeat as needed until you are begging him to fuck you good. (you may want to use some lube at this point)
I feel sorry for any guy who licks a females butt only to discover she didn't wipe everything off after a bowel motion
Heh. When I gave my girlfriend a rimjob for the first time, I went to kiss her after and I could tell she was hesitant for a second, but then she quickly figured out that it was okay. Her asshole never has any taste or smell if she's had a shower in the last few hours. It's indeed fun when the girl can relax and truly enjoy it.