girls, do u actually enjoy sex, or oral sex better?

How about referring to oral and intercourse (f*****g)? This oral vs sex talk is confusing me. A sex therapist friend I was in school with used to say that, "only the rare penis is shaped to perfectly hit both the clitoris and the ('G') spot. And you can't change 'em!" That's why I favor the tongue, with intercourse following for the male ego trip. If a woman is not moved by oral sex (boy, I'm in trouble now) a new lover might help. Don Juan's secret was oral in an age of quickies. See the HBO, "John Adams," for a vivid portrayal of said quickie. Great for doing men and a new generation, but lousy for wives. A good courtesan usually was a better teacher! But let's not fight, sarahei! To each their own.

 

definitely sex sex, oral really doesnt do much for me taking or giving.

so yh, vag and anal sex is best for me

xxx

 

i love both sex & oral. i like them both in different ways. i can only cum from clit stimulation so getting licked out is fantastic for pleasure but then i need sex too. i really cant say one is better than the other i love them both. now if it was posible for my fiance to shove his dick in my pussy & lick my clit at the same time that would be pure heaven. but it aint posible so it aint gona happen.

 

It's easier for me to orgasm from a skillful tongue than from penetration alone, but I couldn't say I prefer one over the other ... I want them both!

I know this ... if a man licks me with anything approaching the "right" technique long enough, then I'm probably going to orgasm, and furthermore when I do I'm going to want him inside me soon after. Having one orgasm from oral sex makes it easier for me to have more orgasms from penetration.

I'm also wetter and my vagina is more "active" after that first orgasm ... so it's better for him, too.

 

^That's usually my gameplan.

 

Boring...sounds like you have had some bad givers in your day. I love giving oral to a woman and I can tell you that it is not boring.