Girls and Guys, should a guy give up his ass if he gets hers?

It should be some thing they both enjoy to do. Only one of my girl friends has enjoyed anal..never got to do it with the others.

 

Sorry, I wasn't actually being serious with that comment. My girl isn't very into anal, I get her as a treat now and then and she almost never messes with me, even though she knows I like it . nonethe less, I wouldn't let her go because of it.

 

there is a time and a place for anal sex, for both sex's.
It's not something you do, or ask, a 1 night stander or that of a short term partner.

Anal sex, although used frequently in porn is considered a more personal sexual activity and is more often carried out in long term relationships or even a married couple.

If done right, it can bring great pleasure to both sex's.

I've never personally done it and dont plan to any time soon or in the future reason being is that i have no real long term relationships due to my job taking up most of my time and causing alot of jelousy.

 

i give anal, not very often as its not her thing.

now she does me with a strap on as it feels great and i enjoy it but tbh i think its a personal choice- if you like it then great, if you don't then great aswell- whether your male or female has no bearing.
wot i' syaing is just cus you may like it doesn't mean you should force it on them or the other way around.

 

Those are really great points, but I think that the other should try it at least once if they expect it for the other person. Also, if a guy is always demanding it from a girl he should be willing to out of fairness and it helps keep the communication more open. Otherwise she may harbor bitterness or something that will later prove toxic to the relationship.

It is a difficult topic to try and equalize for the sexes because it is generally agreed that a much higher percentage of guys want to give than the number of girls that are interested in donning a strap-on. On the receiving side of the issue, there are plenty of females who do it just because they feel obligated whether or not they are enjoying it. You don't hear that too often about guys only receiving a strap-on to appease the fetish of the girl and not enjoying it themselves.

 

I agree completely
and just some advice if you have a girlfriend who is afraid of anal maybe letting her penatrate you first will convince her to at least try it

but still anyone who would force their lover to do something they don't want to doesn't deserve a lover

but its alright to ask

 

I agree, and aside from not wanting people to know, would totally do it discreetly. I'm straight but it feels damn good. Any girls in NY up for it? NSA? Give and take and a kinky night?

 

He shouldnt necessarily have to if he wasnt comfortable with it. People have boundaries, and if the girl is okay with giving up her ass to him, then good for her - but that shouldnt guilt him into letting her do his.

 

I like the give what you get method.Taking turns being dom and sub,works well for us. Not for everyone else though.

I wouldn't really call it an obligation though. That just is too strong of a word...
more like,well if we try on me-and it is fun-
we should try it on you,too.

 

when a girl asked me once about strap-on and being fucked like that, it was actually when we began talking about anal. I think she was testing me to see if I was able to try or if I was like "hell no, too painful, or too gross" or whatever... lol
But I was curious and well, why not try?
But she was probably ok just with the fact I was ready to try. Never saw the strap-on, never talk about it later.. and had great anal!

 

If my boyfriend wanted it, I would totally do it. But otherwise I'm not particularly interested in it (though I have a feeling I could be) but if he wanted it and like it I would love it.

 

I would add anal is the only sexual pleasure we have in common, guys and girls. That's probably what I find interesting in trying

 

do girls have a prostate? or is it something else that feels good analy to them.

 

women do not have a prostate,or as MANY nerve endings there..but there are still nerve endings

 

hmmm... interesting. so ass sex feels better for men or what?

 

Hey Babyhellfire, did you already use a strap-on on a guy before getting anal?after?

 

Ooo well ,
out of respect for hubby I really shouldn't post about exactly what HE has and hasn't done,without his permission. ..and he prolly wouldn't want me to post that.

...but I will say- No,I have never used a "strap-on". ..well as of yet,anyway.

I dunno if it feels better for men Moom,-
the anatomy is different so it must feel different- Like I said women DO of course have nerve endings there and the G-spot on a woman is also accessible through anal.


-lol- just a few yrs ago i wouldn't have touched this subject ,or act- with a ten foot pole and 8lbs of lube,my how things change.

 

well, if you get pleasure (and many girls get it) through anal, means that there are definitively some nerves around.... no? ;-)

 

I'm confused about anal stimulation for women also. Like, I'm not denying that it exists by any means, through my own experience I know that feels damn good! I just don't know anatomically why. I even asked my anatomy teacher at school about it and she said that it wouldn't be pleasurable at all for the female, that they only do it to please their partner. I didn't want to disagree with her...who wants to tell their teacher they're having buttsex??

 

I think your teacher is ignorant or maybe just doesn't want to get in trouble
I'm not sure what its like for girls exactly but I do know that analysis isn't all about the prostate since I just get pleasure from that full feeling and motion around the sphincter

and I don't think anybody should give anything they wouldn't be willing to recieve themselves