GIRLS: 5 things you look for in a guy and 5 to avoid

hahaha thats funny . but maybe you got a point, too, because although i do agree with the girls' tastes in male characteristics, hotness is a definite plus. and sex is, too. and for some reason, i attract guys somewhere in the spectrum between arrogant and very self-assured.

and even though i consider my ex an asshole, he never cheated on me (as far as i know) so i cant truthfully add #7 to my list

 

I also like potatoes, hehe.

 

smart(at least has common sense)
funny/fun to be with
loveable/cuddly
Trustworthy
Friendly

conceided
arrogant
pushy
irrational
smelly

 

GOOD

intelligience
humor
liberal
ambitious
attractive
likes redsox (hehe)
has morals
doenst want to rape me (lol)
kind/compassionate
long hair
well read
well traveled
well rounded
doesnt like ketchup or hotdogs (i think they are gorss haha)
adventurous
likes pirates arg



BAD
needy
conservative
doesnt care bout my morals
high maintanance
wants me to be high maintanance
makes me shave lol
un - hippy-esque
cant dance (or doens like to even if they can)
or if they cant- if they do anyway its finne

 

that doesn't make any sense! who in their right mind actually looks for that? No one I know, Its like eating posion ice cream or something.

 

5 things I look for"

1. Honesty
2. Fun and spontaneous
3. Free spirited
4. Selfless
5. Quirky hair (not really needed but it certainly catches my eye!)

5 Things I avoid:

1. Dramatic
2. Over indulgent
3. Greedy/ selfish
4. worries what other people think
5. controlling

 

If you can't find someone absolutely perfect to fulfil your every desire and just generally be great, a complete asshole is the next best thing; they're generally better fucks, they're very rarely clingy, and at least when you break up you have some stories to tell your mates about them. How many nice guys slap you round the face with their cock then wipe it on your curtains?

 

Good:

- personality like mine, can think on same wavelength as me
- openness about nething - i hate guys who are worried abt sumthing and hide it
- good taste in music
- gives compliments - sounds weird but i like to kno im cared abt
- romantic and caring

Avoid:
- a suspicious guy who doesnt like me seeing any of my male friends
- a guy only intrested in sex
- too much seriousness
- long distance - been there, done that, and even bought the t shirt
- guys who dont give cuddles just aren't worth it at all

 

What do I want in a man??

1. Honesty
2. Respect
3. Compassion
4. Mentally & Emotionally Strong
5. Career-Minded, Energetic, Goal Setter

What I do not want in a man?

1. Abusive
2. Posessive
3. Dishonesty
4. Alcoholic
5. No goals or self worth

Really all women wants is 1: honesty 2: respect 3: compassion 4: mental stimulation, emotional stimulation, physical stimualtion, financial stimulation, spiritual stimulation, help out with the kids sometimes, help out with the chores sometimes, compliment your woman as often as possible, keep good and opened conversation, before you go to anyone else with your problems, discuss it with your partner first, before you bring others in it. If you are going to cheat, be a man and leave the realtionship, own up to your responsibilities and quit using ecxuses, that you think are right. Quit assuming things and talk with your partner and most of all believe in yourself and love yourself, because with out this, you can not truly love another, the way you would like to be loved.

 

good

loves to cuddle
can just sit without gropin me
facial hair
will act the same with his friends, and me
creative?
sense of humor
likes to party, but he likes to stay in sometimes too
long hair
knows that we can sit in silence, and its okay

bad
balding (for some reason, thats a turnoff for me)
super shady
cant hold a conversation

thats about it.



arrogant

 

wow this thread makes me really want to stop chewing my fingernails, lol...

heres what i want in sum1 even though i hate lists like this

1. intelligent (as defined by me)
2. hotness
3. comfortable with nakedness/sexuality
4. trustworthy
5. uniqueness (looks or ideals)

AVOID

1. People who care about your money/status/job/schooling (a reflection of their own insecurities and egotism)
2. macho men and extremely annoying women
3. extremely unhealthy people
4. assholes & fascists
5. SHALLOWNESS (i love deep thinkers)

 

In guys, I like. . .

1. interesting
2. honest
3. sweet
4. intellectual/artsy
5. pretty

avoid

1. neo-conservatives
2. overly jealous/protective/smothering
3. homophobes
4. assholes
5. boring, boring, boring!

 

WHAT THE FUCK IS IT WITH WOMEN AND MONEY!?!?! This is seriously starting to make me paranoid. I'm staying single forever for that very reason. Women only want my money..FUCK THAT!

 

Buddy, I agree that no one wants someone that will be by their side only for the money - but I think thats a really shallow way of looking at a woman's desire for a successful man. While wealth should really not be a determining factor, if somebody is headed nowhere in life, it is a risky business for a girl to allow themselves to just hang out at a dead end with them. There is something to be said for the company you keep;

Not that I'm not sixteen or anything...



haha more Cowbell

I know that one.

 

I disagree, I think dull men or (dorks) make great husbands. A good example of this would be a engineer. Why engineer you ask? Well, hes a dork so when his girlfriend talks to him he will listen and respond. He has a steady well paying job. I don't know. I should make my sig,

"I don't like people anymore. I want to kill myself."

Because that is how I feel right now.

 

I didn't mean to come off as shallow, but I just don't know how to explain it. I can't put the way I feel in words...

 

better for them to be after you for money than be dismissing you for not having money.

 

Good.

1. Honest
2. Virgin
3. Caring and loving
4. Reliable

-
1. Smokers
2. Drinkers
3. Playboys
4. Sex maniacs

 

Five things:
sense of humor/witty/sarcastic
opinionated(love it when opinions are differ from mine in relationships, makes for good convo)
big kid at heart
passionate (with anything)
and finally someone who can just put up with my annoying jokes or antics is a winner

Five things to avoid:
Liars/bullshitters
cockiness
wealthy( i am a VERY independent person, dont want someone that thinks that money is everything and thinks i cant make my own, would rather not want to deal with that)
sexist

 

hey i forgot that one. it kind of matters to me, but i wouldnt throw out all others. as long as they are not like "I NEED SEX NOW!" haha

besides, i dont think that there are attractive, liberal , virgins in the world.