Getting off next to sleeping partner

Discussion in 'Masturbation' started by LilyBlue, May 18, 2018.

  1. Jennie Mink

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    This isn't something that I do but I've often woken up to find him masturbating beside me, which I'm okay with.
    Occasionally, when I'm in the mood, I will finish him off, which he greatly appreciates.
    Very occasionally, and if he's not past the point of no return, it leads to us having sex, which he really, really appeciates.
     
  2. joelucas69

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    I've done it a few times. Just after my wife and I got married, and she wasn't in the mood for sex. But I'd be laying there in the bed beside her, and she was sleeping soundly. I was still amazed that there was a pussy there close to me, and I'd get an erection. I could stroke just the tip and frenulum of my cock, and would ejaculate into my underwear.
     
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  3. FreakyNikki

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    I do it sometimes when I cant sleep. I've noticed him smile a couple of times so I know hes laying there enjoying listening to me touch myself
     
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  4. PGA

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    Hi Nikki
    I wish my wife thinks like you. She doesn't like to do not only lonly but also with me, so whenever I like to masturbate next to her I should do it without any movement. It takes almost 30 upto one hour to finish it. But the ejaculation is more tense and extended.
    If she likes to fuck I am always ready to give her a full service.
     
  5. Sparky Paul

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    I've done it. Stroking myself very slowly and quietly...takes alot to not shake the bed...
     
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  6. PGA

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    If you get a diluted based lostion you can strock your cock easyly. I start by rubbing and stimulating very calm and relax. I roll my shaft over my thigh forth and back while I apply dilouted lotsion. Your cock gets hard and hard without any shaking the bed. For more and tense erection you can cross your legs on the upper patr of you thighs and swuezing your genital zone and starch your leg from top of yout thigh to your toes. In this sircumstand all you bodh powes transfre to your erected cock and your shaft erected as hard as a piece of a wood. You should keep it erected constantly.Keeping deep breath keep you be more relax and more excited.
    So by stroking rhythmic you can get to the right point to ejeculation tense and huge load .Now it is more pleasurable than regular mastutbating alone
    It is a type of pleasure and fear and taks at least one hour, which I feel satisfied, and your cum up . up to the last drop.
     
  7. Pinkpeach

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    I've woke up many times to the bed shaking, my husband punishing his dick. Sometimes, I roll over, ask if he wants my help and I take over stroking him, which is always welcomed! Sometimes, I know he's not awake and I just let him go.
    Me?... If I want to masterbate, I usually go to the couch, sometimes alone time is wonderful! If I want to fuck, I wake him up rubbing my hand on his cock til it's nice and hard
     
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  8. Wayne Fontana

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    Yes I confess to having done this often. The thrill of trying not to disturb her at the time was a bit testing originally but I have mastered a technique which does not awaken her. It gets me very wet.
     
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  9. Meg75

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    From time to time. If he doesn't know about it... I tell him
     
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  10. bill697cu

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    My wife is not into sex much anymore and I get hard in bed thinking about her. I will stroke and then cum, all while trying not to wake her up. I never know what mood she will be in so I don't want to upset her by waking her up.
     
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  11. Chuck Burns

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    I wish I'd catch my wife jilling beside me. I'll sometimes find myself erect. Instead if stroking I'll slowly rub the under side of my cock until it's so sensitive I'm about to cum. I then get up to use bathroom and finish
     
  12. Warmwet

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    Sounds awesome, cum made to order. You lucky lady ;)
     
  13. Warmwet

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    I have caught my wife doing this a few times. She thought she was being discrete until I rolled over, kissed her and then sucked her wet fingers off....that led to a wild ride lol.
     
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  14. PGA

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    I do next to her very calm without hard stroking. I get a diluted lotion to rob easily. It takes time, but I pleasure so much to cum.
     
  15. Totally Yoda

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    Plenty of times. I've been caught twice. Of course it led to sex both times.
     
  16. ThickMushroom99

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    I just posted this in another thread but it fits here just as well if not better....


    My ex used to fall asleep holding my penis most nights which got me very turned on. Some nights I'd get so hot (due to lack of regular sex) that I'd start throbbing in her hand as she slept. If her hand was in just the right position I'd could cum just from the hot sensations.

    Some nights it would be a long edging session with her hand, many times leaving me frustrated because I'd be so close but she'd turn over before I could cum.

    She never said once mentioned any this happening. I still wonder if she did it on purpose or simply didn't know.
     
  17. hitman73

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    I do it lots. If she is sleeping we have an agreement we can just wank off so zero worrying if she felt me wank etc. Its nice just going to sleep after orgasm and not worrying about things like that.
     
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  18. PGA

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    Would you please tell us a little more about your technique that does not awaken her? It could be great and helps us a lot.
     
  19. Boshcak

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    Did it once or twice. Male here. Pretty intense and did it extremely s l o w l y but the eventual orgasm tends to be mind bendingly awesome. More intense as I cannot have made a sound or movement so the only realease was the sperm shooting out (I usually groan or shriek or grunt to release sexual tension besides shooting out my cum.)
     
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  20. Boshcak

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    Not the OP but here goes.

    Generally just extremely slow movements at a constant speed all through. Very very slowly stroke and rub the penis shaft and head. When not doing it with someone in the bed I tend to move my body around a bit more, go faster and slower on my penis depending on arousal level. At orgasm I -have- to be totally quiet and this kind of makes it worse/more pleasurable and sexually ecstatic / intense. I tend to scream or wail quitely (or grunt loudly) when climaxing to get rid of as much sexual tension as possible so like this the pleasure can be terrifyingly intense as the only "outlet" literally is the unbearable sexual ecstasy of cumming and the spurting out of my semen, the vocal and body movements being impossible.
     
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