And the question I've asked them: "How are they gonna find out? You gonna tell them? Because I'm not - and besides, I don't know everybody you know." I understand that "paranoid" feeling because I went through a period where every time I was done having sex with a guy, I just knew that everyone around me knew what I'd done and who I did it with until, one day, I realized that, duh, how would they know?
I have a few. Two were existing friends first. One was someone I met on Craigslist...but not because she posted for sex. She baked cookies! My first was our next door neighbor and when my wife was done having sex and we argued about sex a lot, the deal was to do it with my neighbor who was divorced and who constantly flirted. She moved a bit away but we still get together a few times a year for sex. My second was a bartender who I got along well with. She no longer lived with her husband and had her own place and a rotten new boyfriend and lots of chatting led to sex talk and when I told her that I had a FWB who gave great head, she told me she could probably do it just as well. I see her quite often and not just for oral sex. Anal, pee play, all kinds. The woman who baked cookies also baked cakes, etc. I jokingly asked if there were more things on her menu besides cookies. She laughed and said that her menu was quite extensive and all I had to do was ask. Before I could think of something to say, she told me that she only sees about 6 men and that I shouldn't hesitate to stop over and share a glass of wine with her soon. I went the next week and had much more than wine. I see her now and again. She does a delicious threesome with two other guys and I often watch her videos while she sucks my cock and masturbates. She loves long, thin toys in her bottom too. It's important to ask or hint heavily. One of my friends told me that I would be surprised how many people would say "yes" to fun if they were asked or at least they might know someone. She's right too.
I had several FB when I was younger. One was very special, but visited too regular, her mother and her husband's mother both became suspicious. Good while it lasted.
I got lucky. Adults on both sides worked, so it summer of cock, and no one was wiser for it. I was slobbering on his cock minutes after the last adult left for work.
i had a few in college. There was two that I remember the best. First was introduced to me by a mutual friend, Thought we'd be good together. She was SOOO vanilla and I was NOT. At first we took things just normal.. petting and normal sex. No oral. She admitted no one had ever gone down on her.. and she didn't think she'd every had an orgasm. Well after about two weeks of just normal sex. I couldn't stand it, I went down on her (talk about bush!!). I'd been taught well and she came fast. I taught her how to get the orgasm she wanted guiding me. She NEVER dreamed it was possible. Soon I taught her how to suck my cock (she'd never sucked cock before and it showed) . She soon she was a natural and deep throated well. Swallowed all the time (later found out she thought she had too) . Long story short. After about 2yrs she was clean waxed pussy having chick that was into fisting (anal and vaginal), anal sex (she came hard), BDSM, and Bukkake . She was a pro at milking my prostrate. She'd set the goal of milking me during a TV commercial (days before pause and FFWD) She was the first women I was able to make cum solely by sucking on her nipples. Best thing was she was a squirter! (I'd never had that) Gosh that women would cum and cum.. Spraying everywhere. I'd lap it up like crazy. Many times I fell asleep between her thighs. Years later I saw her at a party of mutual friend and she told me during a dance she missed our sex. But she was teaching her husband. He thanked me later. The second FWB I remember was a chick I met online in the early days. She was a freaky, kinky and holy cow fun! All she wanted to do was suck cock and be fucked hard all the time. First night together she gave me a fucking like I'd never had. She rode me so hard my balls swelled up three times normal size. She threw a bag of frozen peas on them and sat on my face and told me not stop til she sprayed cum on my face. I woke up the next morning with her tight ass on my face. What more could a guy ask for? The next week I found myself tied to a beam.. getting whipped. This was my education in CBT. Holy cow I didn't know what to do. She was a beast, squeezing and pulling on my balls and penis. Then she took her punishment.. She showed me how to really fist her hard in her ass and vagina. She could take two fists in both holes after warm up. She was so small.. I could put one fist in her ass and one in her vagina and then pick her up. Then she taught me about prostrate milking on a whole another level. I'd been milled before but ... not like this. Then she shoved her fist in my ass. What the hell? I passed out after the third orgasm. I woke up and she's wearing a strap on. She fucked my ass like crazy (never hurt me in a bad way) I didn't know what to do. I've never cum 6 times in one night since. She was kind, yet aggressive. Fucked me hard. Then would want another fucking.. and when my cock had nothing left to give.. She gave me a MASSIVE penis sleeve to wear. And told me to fuck her ass and pussy til I wore out. When exhausted she'd ride the sleeve attached to me. She taught me how to orgasm many times in one night, how to have kinky fun and be freaky sex. She could spray cum like I'd never seen before or since. We'd go out and she'd have a huge butt plug in her ass. She'd masturbate on the car ride to diner and back. Her appetite for sex was off the charts. She was first and only introduction to heavy duty serious kink.. I was a young kid in college and she was in her mid thirties. Her desire for kids killed it for us. I saw her last at a wedding of a mutual friend after I'd become a successful out of college. She was upset she dumped me for an overnight guy that was vanilla and sterile (he'd promised her kids.. lying to her) We both agreed that sex was best we'd ever had!
Years ago I got an older lady, horny for a bit. She found me on adult friendfinder. She was friendly, went by and assumed name and wanted some uncomplicated cock on the side, with condoms. The wife knew. Yes, really. Put it up her every week for months, then she shared a fantasy with me, and because I tried to fulfil her fantasy she gave me the flick.
I wish I had a "fuck buddy" or a "friend with benefits" or at least a woman to trade oral "favors" with!!!
My best guy friend since 6th grade popped my cherry when I was 19. Because..... EXACTLY. I asked him to introduce me to sex because (1) I knew that he knew how to be 'safe' in his sex life (because we always talked about stuff) and (2) I knew that he would 'take care of me' through all of it. And he was great about that, and sex with my best friend was fucking fantastic.
I have had various fbs and fwbs over the years. Most having met at the gym and I have posted about some on these boards. I have met adult film actresses at the gym which has always been an excellent place to meet people. I have an fwb and fb who I see regularly. We have actually traveled together and with my fb have had threesomes and other interesting times. My fwb is an amazing person and our relationship is deep beyond the sex. She lives walking distance and while my wife knows about both of them tacitly manages it without letting it interfere in our own relationship and robust sexual activities.
I had one. I was looking, and while on Plenty of Fish, I randomly messaged some people and one replied and we figured out we had kids in the same grade at the same school. It was a little risky to reveal who we were to each other, but as it turned out she was looking for the same thing. She was the leader of my daughter's Brownie and Girl Scout group a couple of years prior, and I actually remember telling myself that I would love to fuck her the first time I saw her. Well, it didn't take long until we met at a hotel and we fucked like we never had before. It was probably the best sex I ever had. Throughout our affair, the sex was hot, I mean fucking hot. It would be weird seeing each other at school functions. She and my wife were not friends but knew each other and were friends on Facebook, so that added to it all. She was also married so of course we had to keep it a secret. We fucked about once a week...sometimes we were able to do it at my house or her house. That was hot. This went on for a few months and then she got a divorce--which was going to happen anyway--and after about a year she got remarried. She really loves this guy and wanted it to make it work, so we decided to end it. Well, mostly she decided, lol, as I was perfectly willing to keep going, but I respected her decision. We rarely see each other any more, but holy shit...was that hot while it lasted. I certainly wouldn't mind finding another one.
I had one from 19 till about 25, real often early on and from that time on she just seemed to have a sense timing. Maybe the last two years of it. We experimented with a friend of mine the last year or so before she moved. That was a lot of fun, she insisted it always be all three of us involved. Lots of memories that still get me going. 1970s were hard to beat for the decade of safe and fun sex.
My first one was actually a good friends' girlfriend, but after they went their separate ways. Not only that, but she was also my wife's bridesmaid at our wedding...again after the fact. I shared her with several colleagues and various running buddies at the time. We even had a 3way, under a grand piano at the recording studio, where Freddy Fender recorded Til the Next Tear Drop Falls with a buddy of mine that was doing production work there at the time. She was great...wanted me to answer her front door one time, not only naked, but with a raging hard-on, for a friend of hers, on her birthday. She was the gal that Lyle Lovett wrote Hot To Go for, only she was very pretty to not only look at, but to eat her sweet pussy and fill her with hot cum as well! By the way, Cowgirl from Texas...this all happened in and around Harris County.
A Fuck and Go, eh? Ha-ha-ha...never hear one called that! We jokingly refered to them aa Divorce Motel.... Speaking of...I met my most recent suck buddy at one these, not too far from my house...and a shout-out to him! We met thanks to Silver Daddies...my 3rd encounter through them, since I expatriated. And he and I have met up several times now. I'm currently trying to put together a fuck-lick scenario with him and a Thai MILF hottie I know, whose lovely vulva with chocolate labia I had the pleasure to lick, suck and rub my face in...with them being the fuck part, and yours truly being the suck part. Hopefully that will transpire soon. He'll also be chief photographer for the shoot. Stand by for a detailed report on that!