frustrated and annoyed

oh shit, i just realized he's a fucking mod and can read what i delete anyway, so fuck it.

 

hannah, pm me if i left anything of yours i need to get rid of

 

wow

 

Geez, what did I walk into???

 

You walked into something that was already in place regardless of blame. Or to say you didn't walk into anything. You merely contributed what you were able to contribute to a situation that was beyond your stimulation, and definately beyond your control.

 

Wow, I hope they can work it all out....there's nothing I can say to change anything, but I hope them the best...

 

Sometimes what is best is not what you think is best. Other times what is best is what is ideal. It varies from situation to situation. Sometimes things are ideal, other times they simply work out. And yet still there are situations which are meant to be nothing more than learning experiences.

 

In response to ij's last post, I think that sometimes when things aren't working exactly how we want we jump to conclusions and cling to the extremes... extreme ways to handle things, extreme ways to feel about it... etc.

 

well, either way, I just hope they find a salution that makes them both happy.

 

Lol, that's the way most of your posts make me feel. And I mean that as a compliment.

 

It was so smart it confused you into thinking it was really dumb.

To simplify he gave his opinion on something his opinon could not effect. Thus he "walked into" nothing. Here merely joined a conversation that he afterwards realized was not a conversation he necessarily cared to be a part of.

The latter means that no matter what he said it would not stimulate, or in a basic sense, have an effect on the current situation between the originating poster said subject of the post. It also meant to say that even if his words did have an effect, of any kind, on what is happning, and what may happen, between the parties involved it would not make a major contribution or change in the course of events that are to follow the actions and words that have already taken place.

Was that simple enough for ya?

 

You're thinking in a manner that is far too simple to fully appreciate the words being said. The words that were "said" in the original post are not words of contempt. They're words of hurt and disdain for anothers actions. If she truly didn't want to be with him she would not have said those words in a place she knew he could view it, indirectly, whether she tried to take them back or not.


This is, of course, just my thoughts on the situation at hand and I am not speaking from any personal knowledge on tl's actions.

 

Ive been drinkin quite a bit this evening too....... my brother was up with his girlfriend...... and I had a few drinks......

but of course here I am alone.

 

I am not wrong because you are unable to prove that. You merely disagree with my assessment. At the same time I disagree with yours.

While the thoughts and feelings each party may be experiencing could possibly include outside influence, any thoughts and opinions expressed here will, most likely, not have an influence on the thoughts and feelings each party experiences.

Just like when you have thoughts and feelings you express here you are not easily swayed by other members being agreeable or disagreeable, most other memebers here will react similarly. While some may get upset at or offended by the expressed opinions of others it still does not detract from their initial feelings on a given subject.

 

I think someone posted a very rude post a few posts back... kinda inappropriate, considering, I was sposed to be done with this thread a while back, I just wanted to say there is a pretty inappropriate post on this page, and I don't think it was nice, despite the fact that the poster is usually very nice and has interesting posts....


okay goodnight folks, I retire from this thread now.

 

boo.

 

Your grammar errors are killing me, and you're stating the obvious at this point. Nothing you said means she wants the relationship to end. Just means she needs it to change regardless of who needs to make the change.

 

I hope you are not referring to anything I've said. :& I think I've been fair with the things I've said in my assessments. If not, I do apologize if I've been judgemental of anybody.

 

You're now moving into the territory of alleviating responsibility. I never said that what happens between them is meant to happen. Nor did I say it was already set in motion. I merely said nothing you or I, or anybody here, has to say will change their minds about anything they feel.

That is solely between them and will have to be discussed and handled solely between them if any resolve is to take place.

What you speak of is internal decision and influence. What I referred to was outside influence in regard to this situation alone. Don't be so general. Remember this is a specific subject, not general philosophy.

Anyway, I'm hammered and going to sleep.

TL and DM I wish nothing but happiness for the both of you.


Also, TL I'm sorry for hijacking your thread :&