I only had sex with 4 others prior to meeting my husband when I was 20. Since we got into the lifestyle a few years ago I've had intercourse with a just under 20 guys not including my hubby. We have four couples who we swing with occasionally and the single guys we've hooked up with have always been one time meetings, hence the high number.
As much as I am for sharing the love, i can't help but agree a bit with this fella. Don't ask, don't tell, i guess.
Unfortunately and regretably i've slept with 5 people including my partner at the moment... I was young and naiive Regret all but about 3 lol
I have only been with three but I'm still young. And I've never really set a limit I just take them as they come. I have never gone all the way with a chick and I really really really want to!