i am afraid i have a different opinion with you. i dont supported using the condom. the first time ,just one time in everyone life. if you wear a condom ,you will have feeling. it is really disappointed .no feeling just like dont make love. most of virgin have bleed blood.it is really excited for the man.you should enjoy yourself,being a real man. just teaching her some skills about making love before you make love with her first time. you and your girlfriend can watch "sex" vcd together---about how to make love topic .learning more before you make love. anyway, i think the first time is really impressive for man in my life. just serious. and try your best to do it. good luck to you.
wow.forge the more important question,about pregnance. one suggestion, persuade your girlfriend eat the bills.bills is no big deal.just like eat a choloter ,or ice-screem. medicine is no big deal. just try to persuade her. if it doesnt work,also dont worry about.also dont use the condom.it is not sure to make gregnance for just one time. dont worry about it.
no one post again? just end at this? hi. want to say the last words: although breaking the hymen is painful,it is the really biginner of one's adult life! goot luck to everyone. happiness is the most important for everything you do ! enjoy yourself!!!have a nice day.
God thats fucked dont listen to this fool, the last thing you want is to knock her up the first go. WEAR CONDOMS!!!!!! and incase you didnt get that one WEAR CONDOMS!!!!!
leafleves i think you are totally wrong with this, i would hate to be the person to have a shag with you next you could have anything, but not know it, well if you didnt use a condom you could. and she shouldnt have to learn any skills as it does come naturally, the things you see on porn dont tend to come that naturally. people expect the first time sex to be this amazing thing but its not, you have to learn tips and things but from a 'sex' video, not the most romantic way really is it. if you are a man reading this and happen to be a virgin as well, you are a a real man, it doesnt make your life any better if you have had sex to tell u the truth it proberly complicated things.
1) A condom is an absolute MUST -- Not just the first time, but EVERY time. 2) Take it slowly and above all, be gentle. 3) I recommend that your girlfriend be on top of you. That way, you bear the weight, instead of your girlfriend. 4) That's a question that I can't really answer. You and your girlfriend really need to have a good, long talk about this beforehand. Open, honest communication is essential to any successful relationship. 5) I can't answer that question, either. I've never had sex with a virgin (And I was exclusively gay until I turned 40). -- Skeeter
Yeah... wear protection no matter what, use a good condom (w/spermicide... not some 75 cent gas station bullshit), and take it s-l-o-w! I've noticed that starting with just the head, and then slowly rocking back and forth with that alone seems to be the easiest method for the girl. Make sure she's not drunk or on a lot of stimulants because the bleeding will be more severe as a result. If you're really worried about blood staining your sheets, then get a towel and put it under yourselves... beach towels allow more area if you think you'll need it. Your first time, don't focus on lasting forever or whip out some kinda kama sutra bullshit on her... keep it simple and as close to five-ten minutes, max, as you can. If you're well endowed, it can be a blessing and a curse, and the first time it's usually a curse for the girl. Dont worry though... this will only happen for the first time, or even the first couple of times, but eventually she'll grab you by the ass and slam your hips between her own and take you for the ride of your life! The slower and more discreet, the better the sex will be at first... Don't expect it on a daily basis, and treat it more like untread territory than overcoming some kind of obstacle in your relationship. Sex is a step, not a mountain to climb, in building a worthwhile romantic relationship, but that step sure does put a smile on your face once you've made the choice to take it! Go forth and make merry, ya heard?
yes, diffently wear a condom: my b/f and i use that method, cuz the pill is against my religion yes it will hurt, mine was already popped and it still hurt, mainly cuz i'm small. i think the postion that doesn't hurt as bad, is the doggie style, it was alot better then traditional style acutally it will probably bring u closer together, its the closest u can get to someone......it made my realtionship stronger, you will know her even more, inside and out i didn't bleed to much, so maybe she won't, just depends on the person, if she uses tampons, chances are its already broken, or it could be broken from riding a bike..........but its not a big deal really....... good luck, have fun lol
