you always have to respect the plant. as long as you respect it, and don't take it for granted, maryjane will be very good to you. when you don't respect her, thats when things go bad. look at any hippy who you've ever met. they are some of the coolest people to talk to. around where i live, there is a place called Woodstock. they sell all kinds of hemp stuff, a ton of grateful dead items, tons of incense and incense holders, along with tons of there things. the old hippy lady who owns it has the nickname "Ma". i always heard stories about her and how nice she was, and when i finally went, she was one of the coolest ladys i've ever met. she told great stories about her old concert experances and what not. after i got some stuff, she gave me this huge pack of nag champa incense and simply said "from my house to yours".